It Don't Have to Change
John Legend Lyrics


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Oh do you remember (ooh)
When the family was everything? (Ooh)
Oh do you remember? (Ooh)
It was so long ago and so much has changed (ooh)
I want to go back (ooh)
Want to go back to those simple days (ooh)
I want to go back (ooh)
But now we've grown and gone our separate ways (ooh)

(Aah) times is hard (times is hard)
And things are a changin'
I pray to God
That we can remain the same
All I'm trying to say is our love don't have to change
No it don't have to change

Do you remember (ooh)
Back at grannie's house on Christmas day? (Ooh)
Help me sing
Do you remember (ooh)
How we'd gather 'round and sing all day? (Ooh)
And I want to go back (ooh)
To playing basketball and football games (ooh)
I wanna go back (ooh)
To yesterday but it's not the same (ooh)

(Aah) times is hard (times is hard)
And things are a changin'
I pray to God
That we can remain the same
All I'm trying to say is our love don't have to change
No it don't have to change

Times is hard (times is hard)
And things are a changin'
So I pray to God
That we can remain the same




All I'm trying to say is our love don't have to change
No it don't have to change

Overall Meaning

John Legend's It Don't Have to Change is an ode to nostalgia and the simple days of the past. The opening lines of the song sets the tone - "Do you remember when the family was everything? It was so long ago and so much has changed." The song reminisces on days spent with family, gathering around during Christmas, and playing sports, alluding to a time before the distractions of technology and adulthood took over. The lyrics convey a sense of longing to return to the past, to those simple days when family was the center of their lives.


However, as the song progresses, the lyrics take on a more mature, hopeful tone. Times are hard and things are changing, but amidst all this, the singer is praying that their love and unity as a family can remain the same. It's clear that the singer recognizes the inevitability of change, but is also determined to hold on to what's truly important - the love and bonds they share as a family. "All I'm trying to say is our love don't have to change, no it don't have to change" are the perfect concluding words to this rendition.


Overall, It Don't Have to Change is a powerful and moving song that confronts the inevitability of change while emphasizing the importance of family, unity, and love. It's about holding on to what's truly important even when everything else might be shifting and changing.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh do you remember (ooh)
Can you recall?


When the family was everything? (Ooh)
When family mattered most


Oh do you remember? (Ooh)
Can you remember?


It was so long ago and so much has changed (ooh)
It's been a long time and things are different now


I want to go back (ooh)
I wish to return


Want to go back to those simple days (ooh)
Want to experience the simpler times again


I want to go back (ooh)
I wish to return


But now we've grown and gone our separate ways (ooh)
But we have all matured and pursued different paths


(Aah) times is hard (times is hard)
These are difficult times


And things are a changin'
And things are changing


I pray to God
I hope


That we can remain the same
That we can stay connected


All I'm trying to say is our love don't have to change
I'm just saying we can still love each other the same way


No it don't have to change
It doesn't have to change at all


Do you remember (ooh)
Can you recall?


Back at grannie's house on Christmas day? (Ooh)
At grandma's house on Christmas


Help me sing
Please join me in singing


Do you remember (ooh)
Can you recall?


How we'd gather 'round and sing all day? (Ooh)
How we would come together and sing all day?


And I want to go back (ooh)
And I wish to return


To playing basketball and football games (ooh)
To playing sports


I wanna go back (ooh)
I wish to return


To yesterday but it's not the same (ooh)
But it's not like it used to be


Times is hard (times is hard)
These are difficult times


And things are a changin'
And things are changing


So I pray to God
So I hope


That we can remain the same
That we can stay connected


All I'm trying to say is our love don't have to change
I'm just saying we can still love each other the same way


No it don't have to change
It doesn't have to change at all




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DAVE TOZER, JOHN STEPHENS

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Comments from YouTube:

@remrens9624

Get lifted was his best album, who agrees?

@ryanwilliams7600

Toss up between that and Once Again.

@jazznabistudio5789

Ordinary people do.

@bambambigalow5844

It’s funny I got the urge to listen to it like last week completely clueless to the fact he did this.

@Wardell.Koloi10037

1. Get lifted/Once again
2. Get lifted/Once again
3. Love in the future

@productions271

Yes I completely agree

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@SPFS12

I cant even lie, im so emotional watching this lol. I've always wanted to see this preformed with his family and it brought literal tears to my eyes. Wow. Can John just remake this whole album please

@terrellgladneyjr.5980

Same sentiment

@olumo25

Been waiting well over a decade to hear a live version of this song with the fam. So much talent.

@rickjames21

I have waiting over 10 years to see this live. This album helped me get through a tough part of my life.

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