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It's a cheating situation
A stealing invitation
To take what's not really ours
To make it through the midnight hours
It's a cheating situation
Just a cheap imitation
Doing what we have to do
When there's no love at home

There's no use in pretending
There'll be a happy ending
Where our love's concerned
Sweetheart, we both know

We'll take love where we find it
Love and try to hide it
It's all we got
For we know they're not
Gonna let us go

It's a cheating situation
A stealing invitation
To take what's not really ours
To make it through the midnight hours
It's a cheating situation
Just a cheap imitation
Doing what we have to do
When there's no love at home





It's a cheating situation
When there's no love at home

Overall Meaning

The song "It's a Cheating Situation" by John Prine and Dolores Keane is a tender and melancholic expression of the pain and isolation that can occur when a relationship is lacking in love and commitment. The lyrics describe the temptation to cheat as a result of feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied in the current relationship. The opening line, "It's a cheating situation, a stealing invitation" aptly captures the feeling of sneaking around and acting in secret to seek the comfort and affection that is not being provided at home. The song acknowledges the loneliness and confusion that can lead someone to cheat, but ultimately shows that this is not a solution to the problem.


The chorus repeats the idea that the cheating situation is a "cheap imitation" and a last resort to make it through the difficult times. The lyric "We'll take love where we find it, love and try to hide it, it's all we got, for we know they're not gonna let us go" conveys the sense that the affair is a fragile and temporary escape from an unsatisfying reality. The song speaks to the heartbreak and moral dilemma of infidelity, conveying the pain of being caught between the desire for passion and the guilt of betraying someone's trust.


Overall, "It's a Cheating Situation" is a powerful example of storytelling in songwriting, as it captures the complexity of human emotions and relationships in an artful and poignant way.


Line by Line Meaning

It's a cheating situation
Being unfaithful is the current predicament


A stealing invitation
It's an undeniable plea to philander


To take what's not really ours
It's about stealing someone else's affection that's not ours to take


To make it through the midnight hours
It's a way to keep going through the long, lonely nights


It's a cheating situation
Being unfaithful is the current predicament


Just a cheap imitation
It's a pitiful attempt at being genuine


Doing what we have to do
It's something we have to do for survival


When there's no love at home
It's the sad truth of having no love or affection at home


There's no use in pretending
There's no point in pretending that things will turn out well


There'll be a happy ending
There won't be a happy ending in our relationship


Where our love's concerned
When it comes to our love, we know it's in a dire state


Sweetheart, we both know
We both know the truth about our situation


We'll take love where we find it
We'll accept love wherever we come across it


Love and try to hide it
We'll attempt to conceal our love for the sake of others


It's all we got
Our love is all we possess in this relationship


For we know they're not
We realize that others won't accept our love


Gonna let us go
Others won't allow us to move on and end this relationship


When there's no love at home
It's the sad truth of having no love or affection at home




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Curly Putman, Sonny Throckmorton

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BCpov

I think I've watched this at least 20 times now. Here's to 20 more.

RIP John.

Dale Fuller

@Nick B well if there's anybody that can make you smile John Prine Bill Murray once said he was in a dark place for a long time and then he heard John Prine my Linda goes to Mars and it made him smile for the first time in months now go get yourself a cocktail vodka and ginger ale LOL

Nick B

20 times this week. Going through a breakup so pretty much listening to it 3 times a day lol

Yannick Omani

"Far From Me" still brings a wistful tear or two every time I listen to it. Watching the two great songwriters relive their youthful days thru this song is just awesome.

Hunt Life

i miss him and what songs he still had in his pocket

Dale Fuller

I went out and bought a few kazoos just to play along at the end

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Ottis Merrydude

John Prine is not dead. Until the last person who ever heard his songs dies, he will never die. peace my brother.

Johnny Spoons

@Ottis Merrydude - lovely words. John used to have a house in Kinvarra, County Galway, in Ireland, not too far from where I live, so I sing there most weeks. I was privileged that he came into a pub where I was singing with a couple of friends one night. He was very kind - when the band played "Speed At The Sound Of Loneliness" we didn't even realise he was there!!!!!! Later, at the bar, he was kind enough to tell me he liked the version!!! What a gentleman.....

Thomas R

I feel this. Caught on to him too late to see him live, but to me he is still alive. Same goes for all of my favs whose legacies will not be soon forgotten. The real Papa John!!

Shawn Mcginnity

Amen to that us fans will keep that going for another 50 years or so thank you John

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