You’ll Always Find Me In The Kitchen At Parties
Jona Lewie Lyrics


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I'm no good at chatting up and I always get rebuffed
Enough to drive a man to drink, I don't do no washing up
I always leave the stuff piled up
Piled up in the sink
Me and my girlfriend we argued and she ran away from home
She must have found somebody new and now I'm all alone
Living on my own
What am I supposed to do?
Then I met this debutante, I said that I like New Wave rock
She was into French cuisine but I ain't no Cordon Bleu
This was at some do in Palmer's Green
I had no luck with her
At last I met a pretty girl, she laughed and talked with me
We both walked out of the kitchen and danced in a new way




And now I've done my time in the kitchen at parties
I've done my time in the kitchen at parties

Overall Meaning

Jona Lewie's song "You'll Always Find Me In The Kitchen At Parties" depicts a man who is not always at ease in social situations. He is not skilled at flirting and often faces rejection. The frustration caused by his failures leads him to drink, and he neglects household chores like washing up. In addition, he has recently split up with his girlfriend, which leaves him feeling alone and confused.


Despite this, the man still makes an effort to attend parties. At one such gathering, he meets a woman who is into French cuisine, a topic that doesn't interest him. Despite this, the man tries to connect with her, but it's clear that they don't have much chemistry. However, later at the same party, he meets another woman who is more compatible with him. They talk and laugh together and then dance, finally allowing the man to step out of the kitchen and enjoy himself.


In essence, the song is about the awkwardness of social interactions and the difficulties of finding a connection with other people. It emphasizes the importance of persistence in social situations and illustrates that even when everything else seems hopeless, there is always the possibility of meeting someone new.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm no good at chatting up and I always get rebuffed
I'm not good at picking up girls and I usually get rejected


Enough to drive a man to drink, I don't do no washing up
Rejection is stressful, I'd rather drink than do dishes


I always leave the stuff piled up
I don't clean up after myself, leaving a mess behind


Piled up in the sink
Dirty dishes are stacked high in the sink


Me and my girlfriend we argued and she ran away from home
My girlfriend and I had a fight and she left me


She must have found somebody new and now I'm all alone
She probably found a new boyfriend and now I'm lonely


Living on my own
I'm living by myself now


What am I supposed to do?
I don't know how to deal with being alone


Then I met this debutante, I said that I like New Wave rock
Then I met a young woman from a wealthy family, and we talked about our music taste


She was into French cuisine but I ain't no Cordon Bleu
She liked fancy food, but I don't know how to cook like that


This was at some do in Palmer's Green
This happened at a party in a neighborhood called Palmer's Green


I had no luck with her
She wasn't interested in me


At last I met a pretty girl, she laughed and talked with me
Finally, I met a beautiful girl who enjoyed talking to me


We both walked out of the kitchen and danced in a new way
We left the kitchen and danced together in a unique way


And now I've done my time in the kitchen at parties
I've spent a lot of time in the kitchen at parties


I've done my time in the kitchen at parties
I've had my fair share of being stuck in the kitchen at parties




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Written by: Jona Lewie, Keith Trussell

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@nickball2010

One thing springs to mind, they don't make records like this anymore, great to see Kirsty.

@MegaLotusEater

To be fair, these days you similarly get lots of artists who cant sing.

@sallyjoan

and you can? i bet you can't sing for toffee, don't be jealous of people who have talent, unlike you.@@MegaLotusEater

@colincampbell7928

​@@MegaLotusEaterand he can? He sounds like Phil Daniels from Quadrophenia. 😢 awesome though.

@MegaLotusEater

@@colincampbell7928 I don't understand what you just said.

@colincampbell7928

@@MegaLotusEater https://youtu.be/Ecvzj2m5nww?si=QZLH4PNp0MrZZMQ0

@daconor91

I'm glad he was able to finally muster up the courage to make his way out of the kitchen at that party. What an emotional rollercoaster.

@AnneBoleynRome

daconor91 Lol 🥂👍👍

@elvis69rules

He's on diet these days

@elleeme9451

Ha!

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