I'm So Confused
Jonathan Richman Lyrics


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Sometimes I think of only her
Sometimes no
I'm feeling delicate and this must show

I'm so confused
I'm so confused
I'm so confused
I'm so confused

I like to do stuff but I best go slow
I look around now dazed but I don't know

I'm so confused
I'm so confused
I'm so confused
I'm so confused

I think maybe I should just stay alone
But I'm too young to just stay home
I have to sigh now
I have to sigh now

I must stay honest and not play by(?)
So when I need someone I say right at the start

I'm so confused
I'm so confused
I'm so confused
I'm so confused

"You're thinking too much"
I know
"You're thinking about this too much"
I know

I have to sigh now
I have to sigh now

I'm so confused
I'm so confused




I'm so confused
I'm so confused

Overall Meaning

Jonathan Richman's song "I'm So Confused" expresses the confusion and conflict he feels in his personal life, specifically with regards to his love life. The lyrics describe the singer as feeling conflicted between wanting to be with someone and the fear of getting hurt. He is feeling delicate and unable to make decisions, leading him to be in a confused state of mind.


The line "I like to do stuff but I best go slow, I look around now dazed but I don't know" suggests that he wants to take life slow and not rush into things, but he is also unsure of what to do next. In the line "I think maybe I should just stay alone, but I'm too young to just stay home," Jonathan is trying to find a balance between being independent and wanting to be with someone. However, he is continuously changing his mind, leading to confusion and uncertainty.


Overall, "I'm So Confused" is a heartfelt portrayal of the confusion one can feel when navigating love and relationships. It is a relatable song that speaks to the inner turmoil many people experience during romantic situations.


Line by Line Meaning

Sometimes I think of only her
At times, I have this lady on my mind exclusively


Sometimes no
Other times, I don't think of her at all


I'm feeling delicate and this must show
Presently, I am experiencing a fragile emotional state, which is probably evident to others


I like to do stuff but I best go slow
I enjoy taking part in various activities, but I think it's best that I move slowly


I look around now dazed but I don't know
As I survey my surroundings, I feel confused and disoriented


I think maybe I should just stay alone
Perhaps it would be best for me to remain solitary


But I'm too young to just stay home
However, I believe staying at home would be an unsuitable choice as I am still young and need to explore the world


I have to sigh now
I can feel a deep sigh coming on


I must stay honest and not play by(?)
It's crucial that I remain honest and upfront when engaging with others


So when I need someone I say right at the start
Thus, if I require a person's presence in my life, I inform them at the very beginning


"You're thinking too much" I know "You're thinking about this too much" I know
Others might say that I am overthinking my situation, but I am aware of that


I'm so confused
I feel extremely perplexed


I'm so confused
I feel extremely perplexed


I'm so confused
I feel extremely perplexed


I'm so confused
I feel extremely perplexed




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Comments from YouTube:

@briteness

I've never seen a video like this before. But then again, Jonathan is in a class by himself. I could watch him dance for days. Thanks for posting this.

@ekolke

Love this and Jonathan Richman!! A true original!!

@AtrolleynaTrain

just found this guy, really impressed, great guitars and unique voice.

@coloritgreenbehappy

That signature Jonathan Richman hip sway is adorable and contagious af!

@8strings240

That's a pretty limber kick at the 1:38 mark. Dude is multi-talented!

@romeoantonio952

So unique. Jonathan is THE MAN.

@juancarlosgonzalezespino1840

Vaya video, me encanta, no lo conocía, desde ahora lo veré más veces. Gracias por el video

@mclff6926

This bass part is sick

@DisappointedDavid

Jonathan used to come into the bakery I worked at when he was in town for a show. Always such a nice guy who LOVED granola. He’d buy a couple hundred dollars worth every time, haha

@DanielFranc35

Richy as young and talented as ever!

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