True Love Is Not Nice
Jonathan Richman Lyrics


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Well it hurts from the bottom and it hurts down to your soul
That's because true love is not nice
And it brings up hurt from when you were 5 years old
That's because true love is not nice, no

Oh, pain pain pain
Ain't that just love's name
Love can bring up hurt from way down low
It now be emphasized, true love is just not civilized
True love is not nice, no no

Well you've been hurt before but now you're hurting so
True love is not nice
And if it's real love then man, hurt won't go
True love is not nice

Oh, pain pain pain. Rain rain rain
That's why you felt love's arrow and said ow




Well you knew from your first flirt that love was here to hurt
And that's because true love is not nice, no no

Overall Meaning

In "True Love Is Not Nice" by Jonathan Richman, the singer emphasizes the pain and hurt that come with true love. He begins by saying that true love hurts not only physically but also to the core of one's being. He believes that love can stir up the hurt from the past, even from childhood, which can be painful. The song suggests that true love is not just a feeling of happiness but can also bring up negative emotions and memories. The pain that comes with true love is not just temporary, but it can linger for a while.


The lyrics suggest that true love is not civilized, which echoes the idea that love can be primitive and uncontrollable. Love can hit someone like an arrow and cause pain, but it can also be an exhilarating and fulfilling experience. The lyrics talk about the pain in different forms, such as "pain pain pain," "rain rain rain," and "ow." The repetition of words emphasizes the message that love is not always pleasant.


Overall, the song emphasizes that true love is not just about the good feeling, but it can also be painful and bring up difficult emotions. The song concludes that true love is not nice, but it can be a beautiful experience.


Line by Line Meaning

Well it hurts from the bottom and it hurts down to your soul
True love is painful, penetrating deep into your soul.


And it brings up hurt from when you were 5 years old
True love has the ability to uncover old wounds and childhood memories.


Oh, pain pain pain. Ain't that just love's name
Pain is an inherent aspect of love.


Love can bring up hurt from way down low
Love can cause deep emotional pain.


It now be emphasized, true love is just not civilized
True love is not polite or polished, but raw and unrefined.


Well you've been hurt before but now you're hurting so
Past pain does not make current pain any easier to bear.


And if it's real love then man, hurt won't go
If love is true, the pain will not simply disappear.


Oh, pain pain pain. Rain rain rain
Just as rain falls from the sky, so too does pain accompany love.


That's why you felt love's arrow and said ow
The pain of love can hit us unexpectedly and sharply, like an arrow.


Well you knew from your first flirt that love was here to hurt
From the very beginning, love was associated with pain and heartache.


And that's because true love is not nice, no no
True, deep love is not easy or comfortable, but challenging and painful.




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JONATHAN MICHAEL RICHMAN

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