Wives And Lovers
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Hey! Little girl
Comb your hair, fix your makeup
Soon he will open the door
Don't think because there's a ring on your finger
You needn't try anymore

For wives should always be lovers too
Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
I'm warning you

Day after day
There are girls at the office
And men will always be men
Don't send him off with your hair still in curlers
You may not see him again

For wives should always be lovers too
Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
He's almost here

Hey! Little girl
Better wear something pretty
Something you'd wear to go to the city and
Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music
Time to get ready for love

Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music
Time to get ready for love

Time to get ready
Time to get ready for love




Time to get ready
Time to get ready for love

Overall Meaning

The song 'Wives and Lovers' by Jack Jones is a cautionary tale for married women, reminding them that they need to put in effort and be alluring to keep their partners interested. The opening lines of the song instruct the listener, presumably a married woman, on how to get ready for her husband's return home. She is urged to comb her hair, fix her makeup and prepare for a romantic evening. The lyrics then warn that just because she has a ring on her finger, she still needs to try to keep her partner's attention. The chorus repeats the central message of the song that wives should always be lovers too and that the woman should run to her husband's arms the moment he comes home.


The second verse reinforces the notion that men will always be men and that there will always be other women vying for their attention. The woman is advised not to let her appearance be the reason her husband strays. The chorus repeats, and the listener is reminded that her husband is almost home, and it's time to prepare for an intimate evening. The song ends with a repetition of the earlier verses, exhorting the listener to put in the necessary effort and get ready for love.

In conclusion, the song 'Wives and Lovers' has a message that is dated and objectifying, suggesting that it is mainly the woman's responsibility to maintain a healthy, loving relationship with her husband. It reinforces patriarchal stereotypes suggesting that the woman's worth is defined by how alluring she is to her partner. Overall, it is a product of a different time, and its message may be considered problematic today.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey! Little girl
Addressing the listener, most likely a wife, reminding her that she is younger than her husband and playfully calling her 'little girl.'


Comb your hair, fix your makeup
Encouraging the listener to take care of her appearance and make herself look good for her husband.


Soon he will open the door
Reminding the listener that her husband will be home soon, so she should be ready for him.


Don't think because there's a ring on your finger
Advising the listener not to take her husband's love for granted just because they are married.


You needn't try anymore
Emphasizing that the listener should continue to make an effort to please her husband, regardless of their marital status.


For wives should always be lovers too
Explaining that it is important for wives to maintain romantic relationships with their husbands even after marriage.


Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you
Encouraging the listener to show physical affection to her husband as soon as he walks in the door.


I'm warning you
Suggesting that the consequences of not following this advice could be dire or problematic.


Day after day
Acknowledging that life can be monotonous or repetitive.


There are girls at the office
Noting that there are attractive women around the husband in the workplace.


And men will always be men
Suggesting that men will always be tempted by attractive women, but reiterating that wives should still put in effort to keep their husbands interested in them.


Don't send him off with your hair still in curlers
Advising the listener not to let her appearance be a deterrent for her husband spending time with her or coming home to her.


You may not see him again
Imploring the listener to take advantage of any opportunities to be intimate with her husband, or else risk losing him to other women who are more attentive.


Better wear something pretty
Encouraging the listener to wear attractive clothing for her husband.


Something you'd wear to go to the city
Encouraging the listener to dress up in a way that would make her feel confident and attractive.


Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music
Setting the mood for a romantic evening with a loved one.


Time to get ready for love
Encouraging the listener to prepare herself both physically and emotionally for an intimate moment with her husband.


Time to get ready
Reiterating that preparation is necessary in order to maintain a healthy and romantic relationship.


Time to get ready for love
Emphasizing that the ultimate goal of the song is to encourage listeners to prepare themselves for healthy and mutually satisfying physical intimacy with their partners.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BURT BACHARACH, HAL DAVID

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Comments from YouTube:

@shjakes

This has to be the most misogynistic song that I still absolutely LOVE. It is truly the best orchestrated and vocalized version ever recorded!!

@shawnmcculley2995

The radical feminists hate this song.

@clarkewi

A masterpiece AND a time capsule.

@jacquelinelewis3131

Totally agree that Jack Jines version is the best

@scienz

there is an instrumental version with the only vocals being a chorus of girls singing "its time to get ready for love" at the end that is better but i only heard it once during a dj set 20 years ago and haven't been able to find it since

@oceanbnd

shjakes,,, I don’t think you understood the song or the lyrics to take misogyny from it.

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@RRHINE13

Jack Jones was the man. He didn't get enough credit. He was just as good, and in some songs (like this one) better, than the top crooners of his day.

@seishsmom638

I'm 58......this reminds me of my parents........Saturday nights........they would dress up....go out.......played all this great music on our hi/fi stereo. Life was so great back then........anything with Burt Bacharach.........love it.

@1894ron

Reminds me of my parents dancing in the living room to this on the hi-fi stereo around 1964 while me and my sister peeked through the vent in the hallway door. What memories! Thank you so much for the memory davidhertzberg1

@charlotte87x

Magic.

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