I Can't Make You Love Me
Josh Kaufman Lyrics


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Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices
Inside my head

Lay down with me
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close
Don't patronize me
Don't patronize me

'Cause I can't make you love me
If you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Something it wont
Here in the dark
In these final words
I will lay down my heart
And I feel the power
But you won't
No you won't
Oh

I'll close my eyes
Then I won't see
The love you don't feel
When you're holding me
Morning will come
And I'll do what's right
Just give me till then
To give up this fight
And I will give up this fight

'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Something it wont
Here in the dark
In these final words
I will lay down my heart
And I feel the power
But you won't
No you won't





'Cause I can't make you love me oh oh
If you don't

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Josh Kaufman's "Can't Make You Love Me" tell the story of a person who is in a one-sided relationship. The singer is pleading with their partner to be honest about their feelings, to hold them close and not to patronize them. The singer then admits that they cannot make their partner love them if they don't want to. The song's emotional intensity is highlighted by the repetition of the lyrics "can't make you love me if you don't." The verses' imagery of turning down the lights, voices in the head, and lying down to tell no lies all contribute to painting a picture of the emptiness the singer feels in this one-sided relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Turn down the lights
Reduce the brightness of the lights, creating a more intimate atmosphere.


Turn down the bed
Prepare the bed for an intimate moment.


Turn down these voices inside my head
Silence the emotional turmoil and confusion in my mind.


Lay down with me
Join me in a romantic and intimate moment.


Tell me no lies
Be truthful and sincere with me.


Just hold me close
Embrace me, providing physical and emotional comfort.


Don't patronize me
Don't treat me like a child or talk down to me.


Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
I can't force you to love me or feel a certain way towards me.


You can't make your heart feel something it won't
You cannot make yourself love someone or feel emotions that are not there.


Here in the dark, in these final words
This is a moment of vulnerability, where I am expressing my deepest feelings and desires.


I will lay down my heart, and I feel the power
I am putting my heart on the line, and acknowledging the strength it takes to do so.


But you won't, no you won't
But I am aware and accepting that you will not feel the same way towards me.


I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
I will try to avoid seeing the reality of your lack of love for me.


The love you don't feel when you're holding me
I am aware that the love and passion I desire is not reciprocated when we are physically close.


Morning will come, and I'll do what's right
With the light of day, I will accept the truth and move on from this unrequited love.


Just give me till then, to give up this fight
For now, let me hold onto hope and keep trying to win your heart, until morning brings clarity.


And I will give up this fight
Eventually, I will accept that I cannot force someone to love me and move on from this struggle.


Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
I cannot make someone feel a certain way towards me, especially if it is not love.


You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Neither of us have the power to control our emotions or force ourselves to feel love where it does not exist.


Here in the dark, in these final words
This is the end of our moment together, and I am acknowledging that our relationship will not last.


I will lay down my heart, and I feel the power
Even though I am heartbroken, I recognize the strength and courage it takes to let go and move on.


But you won't, no you won't
Even if I am ready to move on, you still won't feel love towards me or change your feelings.


Cause I can't make you love me, oh oh
I cannot force or convince you to love me, even if I wish I could.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, AMPLIFIED ADMINISTRATION
Written by: Allen Shamblin, Michael Reid

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Faithfully Yours

Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices
Inside my head
Lay down with me
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close
Don't patronize me
Don't patronize me
'Cause I can't make you love me
If you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Something it wont
Here in the dark
In these final words
I will lay down my heart
And I feel the power
But you won't
No you won't
Oh
I'll close my eyes
Then I won't see
The love you don't feel
When you're holding me
Morning will come
And I'll do what's right
Just give me till then
To give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Something it wont
Here in the dark
In these final words
I will lay down my heart
And I feel the power
But you won't
No you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me oh oh
If you don't



All comments from YouTube:

astralia akbar

I’m in 2021 and still love listening to him sing it on repeat. I decided to find the video again to watch. Josh, I hope you’re doing well.

Carlo Seno

2020, still the best rendition of this song i heard

Adrian Villafuerte

Jared Martinez lol teddy swims isn’t as vocally talented as josh Kaufman. Josh’s has a way bigger range and a lot more strength

BPark

Agreed ❤️

Kimberly Mason

#truth

rod_ trip LXVI

I've heard so many good versions too in The Voice Australia and the Japanese guy in Steve Harvey's show.

Vanessa Northrup

2021 still is

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Craig Tedeton

2022 and this is still in my mix! Love it!!

JH

I never comment on videos but this one is an exception. His voice is amazing and when he sings this it gives me chills! He is the best singer out of all the seasons.

Mars Swep

Jessica Harper Agree except Jesse and Anthony lol

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