01_Joss_Stone_-_The_Soul_Sessions_-_The_Chokin'_Kind
Joss Stone Lyrics


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I only meant to love you
Didn't you know it baby, didn't you know
Why couldn't you be content with the love I gave?
I gave you my heart
But you wanted my mind
Your love scares me to death, boy
It's the chokin' kind
That's all it is

So you can kill a girl with a bottle of poison or a knife
I know you can
But it'll hurt her more to take her pride and ruin her life
It's a shame, it's a shame, boy
Whatever it is boy I surely hope you find
I tell you that hat don't fit my head
It's the chokin' kind

It makes me wanna....

When you fall in love take a tip from me
If you don't like the peach, then walk on by the tree
That's what you better do honey, honey

Find what you want boy
Keep it, treat it sweet and kind
Let it breathe
Don't go making it the chokin' kind
Don't break my heart baby, baby
I know you love me truly, truly
Really I do honey
That your love scares me to death boy, yes it does




It's the chokin' kind
That's all it is, that's all it is

Overall Meaning

In Joss Stone's song "The Chokin' Kind," the lyrics express a love that is suffocating and overwhelming. The singer says that they only meant to love their partner, but their partner wanted control over their mind as well as their heart. The love is so intense that it scares the singer to death, hence it is called the "chokin' kind." The lyrics suggest that this kind of love is dangerous, and it can hurt more than physical violence like poison or a knife. It can ruin a person's pride and their life. The singer advises others to be careful when they fall in love and to find someone who won't suffocate them.


Overall, the song is about the toxicity of love, the kind that is controlling and overwhelming. The singer is warning others not to fall for this kind of love and to be careful when they do. The metaphor of the choking kind adds to the intensity of the lyrics and makes them more impactful.


Line by Line Meaning

I only meant to love you
I had great intentions of loving you


Didn't you know it baby, didn't you know
You should have known that I loved you


Why couldn't you be content with the love I gave?
Why weren't you satisfied with the love I offered?


I gave you my heart
I gave you my love and affection


But you wanted my mind
You demanded more than just my love


Your love scares me to death, boy
Your love terrifies me


It's the chokin' kind
Your love is suffocating and overwhelming


That's all it is
You think it's love, but it's just control and domination


So you can kill a girl with a bottle of poison or a knife
It's possible to murder someone through physical means


I know you can
I'm aware that you're capable of doing so


But it'll hurt her more to take her pride and ruin her life
However, it's worse to damage someone's self-respect and destroy their future


It's a shame, it's a shame, boy
It's unfortunate that you're behaving this way


Whatever it is boy I surely hope you find
I hope you discover whatever it is you're searching for


I tell you that hat don't fit my head
I'm telling you that your behavior doesn't suit me


It's the chokin' kind
Your love is smothering and overpowering


It makes me wanna....
It makes me want to escape your control


When you fall in love take a tip from me
If you're going to fall in love, listen to my advice


If you don't like the peach, then walk on by the tree
If you don't like what you see, move on and find something else


That's what you better do honey, honey
That's what you should do, my dear


Find what you want boy
Find what you truly desire


Keep it, treat it sweet and kind
Once you find it, cherish it and treat it well


Let it breathe
Allow it to grow and develop naturally


Don't go making it the chokin' kind
Don't turn it into something that's overbearing and stifling


Don't break my heart baby, baby
Don't hurt my feelings, my dear


I know you love me truly, truly
I know you have feelings for me


Really I do honey
I truly believe it


That your love scares me to death boy, yes it does
Your love frightens me greatly


It's the chokin' kind
Your love is oppressive and stifling


That's all it is
It's not true love, just unhealthy control




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