Chokin
Joss Stone Lyrics


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I only meant to love you
Didn't you know it babe
Didn't you know it
Why couldn't you be content
With the love I gave oh yeah
I gave you my heart
But you wanted my mind, oh yeah
Your love scared me to death, boy
Oh it's the chokin' kind
That's all it is

You can kill a girl
With a bottle of poison or a knife
I know you can
And hurt her more to take her pride
And run his life
Oh it's a shame boy
Whatever it is boy
I surely hope you find, oh yeah
I tell you that hat don't fit my head
Oh, it's the chokin' kind

It makes me want to
Oh yeah, oh listen to me
When you fall in love again boy
Take a tip from me oh yeah
If you don't like the peach,
Then walk on by the tree
That's what you better do, honey
Find what you want boy
Keep it, treat it, sweet and kind, oh yeah
Oh let it breathe, don't make it the chokin' kind
Oh no, don't break my heart baby
Oh no, I know you love me truly I do, honey
But your love scares me to death boy




It's the chokin' kind
That's all it is

Overall Meaning

The song Chokin' Kind by Joss Stone is a commentary on a relationship that has turned suffocating and oppressive. The chorus repeats that the love that the singer is receiving from her partner is the "chokin' kind." The singer regrets ever loving this person and wonders why her love wasn't enough for them. The singer is afraid of this kind of love and likens it to "a bottle of poison or a knife" that can destroy a person.


The first verse of the song presents the idea that the singer's love was not enough for her partner. She gave her heart away, but the partner wanted her mind. This pressure to give more than she was capable of giving is what creates the "chokin' kind" of love that the singer is describing. The second verse suggests that this type of love can be dangerous and can destroy a person's spirit. The singer advises her former partner to move on and find someone who better suits his desires.


One interesting fact about this song is that it was written by Harlan Howard and first recorded by Waylon Jennings in 1967. It has since been covered by numerous artists, including Joss Stone in 2007. Another fact is that the original version of the song had different lyrics and was written as a country tune, while Joss Stone's version incorporates elements of soul and blues music. The song has also been featured in several films and TV shows, including Mad Men and Big Little Lies.


Chords (source: Ultimate Guitar):
Verse: Em, G, D
Chorus: C, G, D
Bridge: Am, Em, C, G, D.


Line by Line Meaning

I only meant to love you
I had pure intentions of loving you


Didn't you know it babe
Did you not realize my love for you was genuine?


Didn't you know it
I thought it was obvious


Why couldn't you be content
Why weren't you satisfied


With the love I gave oh yeah
With the love I offered


I gave you my heart
I gave you my love


But you wanted my mind, oh yeah
But you wanted more than just my love


Your love scared me to death, boy
Your love made me feel overwhelmed and frightened, dear


Oh it's the chokin' kind
It's a love that's suffocating and overwhelming


You can kill a girl
You can harm a woman


With a bottle of poison or a knife
By poisoning her or by physically harming her


I know you can
I am aware that you possess the capability to do so


And hurt her more to take her pride
You can hurt her more by damaging her self-esteem


And run his life
You can control her life


Oh it's a shame boy
It's a pity, my dear


Whatever it is boy
Whatever the reason is, dear


I surely hope you find, oh yeah
I truly hope you discover, dear


I tell you that hat don't fit my head
I'm telling you that it doesn't suit me


Oh, it's the chokin' kind
It's a love that's suffocating and overwhelming


It makes me want to
It makes me feel like


Oh yeah, oh listen to me
Listen to my words, my dear


When you fall in love again boy
If you fall in love once more, my dear


Take a tip from me oh yeah
Take my advice, dear


If you don't like the peach,
If you don't enjoy something


Then walk on by the tree
Then leave it and move on


That's what you better do, honey
That's what you should do, dear


Find what you want boy
Seek out what you truly desire, dear


Keep it, treat it, sweet and kind, oh yeah
Keep it, cherish it, and treat it with kindness


Oh let it breathe, don't make it the chokin' kind
Allow it to have space and freedom, don't make it overwhelming


Oh no, don't break my heart baby
Don't hurt me, dear


Oh no, I know you love me truly I do, honey
I know you love me, my dear


But your love scares me to death boy
But your love makes me feel overwhelmed and frightened


It's the chokin' kind
It's a love that's suffocating and overwhelming




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Harlan Howard

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