Girlfriend on Demand
Joss Stone Lyrics


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In the beginning
You came on so strong
You were polite and full of charm
You got what you wanted
Then it wasn't very long
Before you dropped the act
And hot became lukewarm
You can tell everybody
That we're just fooling around
But baby don't fool yourself
I know what's going down

If you won't hold my hand
How can you call yourself my man
If I, if I can't meet your friends
And your family
How can I be your girlfriend on demand
If you won't hold my hand

Give me one good reason
I should sit around and wait
If you control my destiny
How can I trust in fate
Go ahead, take your time
I want you to be free
But I won't stay here by your side
While you're denying me

If you won't hold my hand
How can you call yourself my man
And you, see you don't understand
What this does to me
How it feels to be your girlfriend on demand
When you won't hold my hand

You whisper that you love me
But you won't say it out loud
You act like you're ashamed
To be with me
I want a man who's proud

Tell me to my face I'm not good enough
What could you possibly be thinking of
Why won't you look me in the eyes
When we're making love

If you won't hold my hand
Then how can you call yourself my man
And you, you don't understand
What this does to me
How it feels to be your girlfriend on demand
If you won't hold my,
Hold my hand





It's all I'm asking, baby
To hold my hand

Overall Meaning

Joss Stone's "Girlfriend on Demand" is a heartbreakingly beautiful song. The lyrics speak of a painful truth, about a relationship based on convenience and superficiality. The song is plaintive and powerful, with Stone's vocals full of emotion and longing.


The song starts by describing the beginning of the relationship, where the singer was swept off her feet by the charm and politeness of her lover. However, as time went on, the lover's true colors started to show, and the relationship became lukewarm. What was once a romantic and passionate bond soon turned into a convenient arrangement. The singer, who has genuine feelings for her lover, is hurt and frustrated by the lack of commitment and affection.


Throughout the song, Stone sings about the singer's struggles to reconcile her feelings with her lover's actions. She questions the very foundation of their relationship, wondering how she can be his girlfriend on demand if he isn't willing to hold her hand or introduce her to his friends and family. She longs for a man who is proud to be with her and affirm his love for her openly. The song ends with the singer pleading with her lover to hold her hand, a simple yet powerful symbol of connection and commitment.


Overall, "Girlfriend on Demand" is a poignant reminder of how important it is to be honest and vulnerable in a relationship. Without trust, affection, and mutual respect, even the most passionate romance can fizzle out into a lukewarm arrangement.


Line by Line Meaning

In the beginning
At the start of our relationship


You came on so strong
You were enthusiastic and energetic


You were polite and full of charm
You were courteous and delightful


You got what you wanted
You achieved your objective


Then it wasn't very long
A short time passed


Before you dropped the act
Before you stopped pretending


And hot became lukewarm
And your passion faded


You can tell everybody
You can inform anyone


That we're just fooling around
That we're casually dating


But baby don't fool yourself
But don't deceive yourself


I know what's going down
I understand the truth


If you won't hold my hand
If you won't show physical affection


How can you call yourself my man
How can you claim to be my partner


If I, if I can't meet your friends
If I'm not allowed to socialize with your friends


And your family
And your relatives


How can I be your girlfriend on demand
How can I be at your beck and call


Give me one good reason
Provide a reasonable explanation


I should sit around and wait
Why I should be patient


If you control my destiny
If you dictate my future


How can I trust in fate
How can I have faith in the unknown


Go ahead, take your time
Take all the time you need


I want you to be free
I want you to have your own freedom


But I won't stay here by your side
But I won't continue this relationship


While you're denying me
While you're rejecting me


You whisper that you love me
You say you love me softly


But you won't say it out loud
But you won't express it boldly


You act like you're ashamed
You behave like you're embarrassed


To be with me
To have a relationship with me


I want a man who's proud
I desire a confident man


Tell me to my face I'm not good enough
Convey to me directly that I'm unacceptable


What could you possibly be thinking of
What could be your thoughts on this matter


Why won't you look me in the eyes
Why won't you make eye contact with me


When we're making love
When we're intimate


It's all I'm asking, baby
It's my only request, my love


To hold my hand
To show me physical affection




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DANIEL TAYLOR MACKENZIE, JOSS STONE

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Comments from YouTube:

@keacreme

am living this. it sucks. she tells it true.

@b4b2getU

oh dear-is it going to be her...or me?

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