Stalemate
Joss Stone Lyrics


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Did I let you down? No
Did I give you up? No
So what's it all about now?
Was it not enough?
No, no, no

It's alright, yeah
It's okay, yeah
It's alright with me
I'll be fine, yeah
I don't mind, yeah
I'll pretend at least

But if you give me something, that I'll believe in
Give me something and I will wait
But if you give me nothing
I can't help feeling I'm in stalemate with you
Stalemate with you

Used to pick me up, yeah
Like a sunken pill
And I've been thinking it through
And we worked so well

But it feels wrong, yeah
When I'm strong alone, yeah
Strong alone by you
And the words you say, yeah
Just to get your way, yeah
Well they just won't do
You got to

Give me something, that I'll believe it
Give me something and I will wait
But if you give me nothing
I can't help feeling I'm in stalemate with you
Oh I'm in stalemate
Oh I'm in stalemate, baby
(Stalemate with you)

I need more
I need more
What are you waiting for?

It's so frustrating
(So frustrating, baby)
You got to want it
(Yeah)
I'm so frustrated with your love
What you do to me
Oh, yeah, yeah
Hey
You got me in stalemate
Ooh
Hey, hey, hey
You got me in stalemate
Hey yeah
Ooh, don't mug me, baby
Don't mug me, love
You breakin' my heart now




Don't you break my heart, no
Don't you break my heart

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Joss Stone's "Stalemate" explore a feeling of dissatisfaction and confusion in a relationship. The song poses the question of whether the singer has let their partner down or given them up, but ultimately concludes that it's unclear what the problem is. The repeated refrain of "It's alright" and "I don't mind" suggests a sense of resignation or complacency in the relationship, even if it's not fulfilling. Yet, the chorus also offers a glimmer of hope that things could improve if the partner were to give the singer "something to believe in" and break the stalemate.


The second verse of the song delves deeper into the singer's feelings, suggesting that while they once worked well together, something has changed. The partner's manipulation and lack of sincerity is called out: "And the words you say, yeah/ Just to get your way, yeah/ Well they just won't do." The frustration mounts in the bridge, as the singer declares, "I need more/ What are you waiting for?" The repeated use of the word "frustrating" drives home the sense of being stuck in a rut.


Overall, "Stalemate" is a poignant reflection on the complexities of relationships, particularly when communication breaks down and feelings go unexpressed. The lyrics highlight the importance of authenticity and openness in relationships, and suggest that progress can only be made by breaking through the stalemate.


Line by Line Meaning

Did I let you down? No
I am not responsible for your actions or choices.


Did I give you up? No
I did not leave you or abandon you.


So what's it all about now?
What is the current status of our relationship?


Was it not enough?
Were my efforts and love not sufficient?


It's alright, yeah
I am okay with the situation.


It's okay, yeah
I am accepting and understanding of our situation.


It's alright with me
I am at peace with the way things are.


I'll be fine, yeah
I will manage without you, and I will not let it affect me.


I don't mind, yeah
It does not bother me as much, and I am okay with it.


I'll pretend at least
I will put up an act of being okay even if I'm not.


But if you give me something, that I'll believe in
I want you to prove to me that you are committed to this relationship.


Give me something and I will wait
I am willing to give you a chance and wait for you to prove yourself.


But if you give me nothing
If you don't try to make this work, I feel stuck in this relationship.


I can't help feeling I'm in stalemate with you
I feel like we are stuck in an unchanging, unproductive relationship.


Used to pick me up, yeah
You used to make me feel better about myself.


Like a sunken pill
Like a pill relieved my pain.


And I've been thinking it through
I have been reflecting on our struggles.


And we worked so well
We used to work and understand each other.


But it feels wrong, yeah
Now it feels like our relationship is off.


When I'm strong alone, yeah
When I am by myself, I feel stronger and happier than in our relationship.


Strong alone by you
I feel stronger when I am away from the stress of the relationship with you.


And the words you say, yeah
The things you say to me are not enough to fix our relationship.


Just to get your way, yeah
You only say or do things to get what you want from me.


Well they just won't do
Your words and actions are not enough to save our relationship.


I need more
I need something different or more from you to repair our relationship.


What are you waiting for?
Can we work together to get our relationship back on track?


It's so frustrating
This situation is very difficult and challenging.


(So frustrating, baby)
This situation is very difficult and challenging to handle.


You got to want it
You have to be willing to put in the effort to make this work.


I'm so frustrated with your love
I am frustrated with the problems in our relationship.


What you do to me
This stalemate hurts my feelings and wellbeing.


Oh, yeah, yeah
Expressing agreement and understanding of the situation.


Hey
Attention-grabbing sound to refocus the conversation.


You got me in stalemate
The situation is stuck and unchanging, making it uncomfortable.


Ooh
Expressing frustration or discomfort.


Hey, hey, hey
Attention-grabbing sound to refocus the conversation.


Ooh, don't mug me, baby
Do not hurt me or take advantage of me in this situation.


Don't mug me, love
Do not harm or hurt me in this situation.


You breakin' my heart now
You are hurting me emotionally from this stalemate.


Don't you break my heart, no
Begging to not be hurt or pushed away.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC
Written by: JAMIE ALEXANDER HARTMAN, JOSS STONE, CAMILLA BOLER

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