You Had Me*
Joss Stone Lyrics


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You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here messing with my mind

Spitting in my eyes and I still see
Tried to keep me down
I'm breaking free
I don't want no part in your next fix
Someone needs to tell you this is it

Hey listen you'll be missin'
Out on all my love and my kissing
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down you're just no good to have around
Instead of making money you took mine

[Chorus:]
You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here messing with my mind
I've realized in time
that my eyes are not blind
I've seen it before
I'm taking back my life

You tried to trade on my naivete
But the things you do and say embarrass me
See once upon a time I was your fool
But the one I leave behind is you

Hey listen you'll be missin'
Out on all my love and my kissing
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down you're just no good to have around
Instead of making money you took mine

[Chorus]

Vodka and a packet of cigarettes
That's all it used to be but now
You're sniffing on snow when you're feeling low
Suffocating dreams that could have been
Maybe for a minute I was down with that
But it didn't take long for me to see the light
You swore you had control of it
But when I stepped back you slipped on your supply

[Chorus]

Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Ain't nobody got no business stressing all the time
Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life

[Chorus]

Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Ain't nobody got no business stressing all the time




Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life

Overall Meaning

Joss Stone’s song “You Had Me” is about a relationship that has gone sour. The lyrics describe the singer, who was once in a relationship with someone who is now out of control, and no longer wants them in their life or around messing with their mind. The first verse talks about how the other person has lost control and is now wasting their life and costing the singer. They no longer want to be a part of their partner’s fix and someone needs to tell them it’s over. The chorus repeats the sentiment of the singer not wanting this person in their life and taking back control of their own life.


In the second verse, the singer talks about how the other person tried to take advantage of their naivety but now their actions embarrass them. They were once in love but the one they leave behind is their foolish partner. The bridge talks about how the friendship has deteriorated due to substance abuse. What was once a harmless habit has now turned into something detrimental. The song ends on a positive note as the singer sings about taking their life back and not wanting to be stressed out all the time.


Overall, the song is empowering, with the singer taking control of their life and not being held back by a toxic relationship. The lyrics describe a situation where the singer has outgrown their partner and is ready to move on. The singer has a strong voice and emotive energy that bring power and weight to the words.


Line by Line Meaning

You had me
I was under your influence


You lost me
I am no longer under your influence


You're wasted
You have wasted your potential by getting involved in harmful activities


You cost me
You have caused me harm and loss


I don't want you here messing with my mind
I do not want you to affect my thoughts and feelings in a negative way


Spitting in my eyes and I still see
Despite your attempts to deceive me, I remain aware of the truth


Tried to keep me down
You attempted to prevent me from reaching my full potential


I'm breaking free
I am freeing myself from your influence


I don't want no part in your next fix
I do not want to be involved in your harmful habits


Someone needs to tell you this is it
You need to realize that your behavior needs to change


Hey listen you'll be missin'
You will regret not having me in your life


Out on all my love and my kissing
You will miss out on the affection I could have given you


Make your mistakes on your own time
Do not involve me in your harmful activities


When you come down you're just no good to have around
When you are no longer high/drunk, you are not a positive influence in my life


Instead of making money you took mine
You have used my resources for negative purposes


I've realized in time
Over time, I have come to understand


that my eyes are not blind
I am not ignorant of the truth


I've seen it before
I have experienced this type of behavior from you in the past


I'm taking back my life
I am regaining control over my life


You tried to trade on my naivete
You attempted to take advantage of my innocence and lack of experience


But the things you do and say embarrass me
Your actions and words are shameful and make me feel ashamed by association


See once upon a time I was your fool
I used to be easily fooled by you


But the one I leave behind is you
You are the one being abandoned in this situation


Vodka and a packet of cigarettes
You used to consume only alcohol and tobacco


That's all it used to be but now
You have moved on to more harmful substances


You're sniffing on snow when you're feeling low
You are using cocaine when you are feeling down


Suffocating dreams that could have been
Your harmful habits are preventing you from achieving your aspirations


Maybe for a minute I was down with that
I may have briefly considered engaging in your harmful habits


But it didn't take long for me to see the light
I quickly realized the negative consequences of those habits


You swore you had control of it
You claimed to be able to manage your harmful habits


But when I stepped back you slipped on your supply
When I distanced myself from you, you were unable to control your consumption


Taking it back I'm taking it back
I am reclaiming control over my life


Ain't nobody got no business stressing all the time
No one should be constantly stressed out




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JOSS STONE, FRANCIS EG WHITE, WENDY ANNE STOKER, BETTY WRIGHT

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@cecigalvan148

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind

Spittin' in my eyes and I still see
Tried to keep me down, I'm breakin' free
I don't want no part in your next fix
Someone needs to tell you this is it
Hey
Listen, you'll be missin' out
All my love and my kissin'
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down, you're just no good to have around
Instead of makin' money you took mine

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

You tried to trade on my naivety
But the things you do and say embarrass me
Seem once upon a time I was your fool
But the one I leave behind he is you
Hey
Listen, you'll be missin' out
All my love and my kissin'
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down you're just no good to have around
Instead of makin' money you took mine

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

Vodka and a packet of cigarettes
That's all it used to be but now
You're sniffin' on snow when you're feelin' low
Suffocatin' dreams that could have
Maybe for a minute I'd be down with that
But it didn't take long for me to see the light
You swore, you had control of it
When I stepped back you slipped on your support
Umm hmm

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind, oh

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Ain't nobody got no business, stressin' all the time
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind, ah

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Ain't nobody got no business, stressin' all the time
(Yeah)
(Yea yea)
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life



@yezikalove1

"You Had Me"

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here messing with my mind

Spitting in my eyes and I still see
Tried to keep me down
I'm breaking free
I don't want no part in your next fix
Someone needs to tell you this is it

Hey listen you'll be missin'
Out on all my love and my kissing
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down you're just no good to have around
Instead of making money you took mine

[Chorus]
You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here messing with my mind
I've realized in time
that my eyes are not blind
I've seen it before
I'm taking back my life

You tried to trade on my naivete
But the things you do and say embarrass me
See once upon a time I was your fool
But the one I leave behind is you

Hey listen you'll be missin'
Out on all my love and my kissing
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down you're just no good to have around
Instead of making money you took mine

[Chorus]

Vodka and a packet of cigarettes
That's all it used to be but now
You're sniffing on snow when you're feeling low
Suffocating dreams that could have been
Maybe for a minute I was down with that
But it didn't take long for me to see the light
You swore you had control of it
But when I stepped back you slipped on your supply

[Chorus]

Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Ain't nobody got no business stressing all the time
Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life

[Chorus]

Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life
Ain't nobody got no business stressing all the time
Taking it back I'm taking it back
Taking back my life



All comments from YouTube:

@AmericanIdolQueen84

I love joss stone she's amazing!!! Her voice is unique and I can pick it out instantly!!!! One of my favorite albums of all time from any artist

@NunyaBSwax-xr9gn

Unbelievable vocal prowess ❣️

@magalidream

I just found out that Joss was only 17 when this came out. That's rad, man. Not very many teenagers make it in the music business.

@andreapatane4204

My dad hasn't even listened to Joss Stone's music for decades and he seems to find her awesome. This song from Joss Stone sounds like a romantic opera to me, because she's referring to a dude that cheated her.

@jiverdude2775

I forgot about her but I heard this in a store awhile back and Googled it. Damn, she was 17 or so at the time, 2004 when she released it. Funky. This has a classic soul sound and feel, circa late 70's-early 80's. She's still in the game, 2022.

@lizaport747

Her voice❤️

@46356jocelyn

I love this song so much.

@LyndaGallagher-vo2bd

Phenomenal talent

@cecigalvan148

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind

Spittin' in my eyes and I still see
Tried to keep me down, I'm breakin' free
I don't want no part in your next fix
Someone needs to tell you this is it
Hey
Listen, you'll be missin' out
All my love and my kissin'
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down, you're just no good to have around
Instead of makin' money you took mine

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

You tried to trade on my naivety
But the things you do and say embarrass me
Seem once upon a time I was your fool
But the one I leave behind he is you
Hey
Listen, you'll be missin' out
All my love and my kissin'
Make your mistakes on your own time
When you come down you're just no good to have around
Instead of makin' money you took mine

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

Vodka and a packet of cigarettes
That's all it used to be but now
You're sniffin' on snow when you're feelin' low
Suffocatin' dreams that could have
Maybe for a minute I'd be down with that
But it didn't take long for me to see the light
You swore, you had control of it
When I stepped back you slipped on your support
Umm hmm

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind, oh

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Ain't nobody got no business, stressin' all the time
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life

You had me
You lost me
You're wasted
You cost me
I don't want you here, messin' with my mind, ah

I've realized
In time
That my eyes
Are not blind
I've seen it, before, I'm takin' back my life

Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life
Ain't nobody got no business, stressin' all the time
(Yeah)
(Yea yea)
Takin' it back, I'm takin' it back
Takin' back my life

@christinenarroway4136

DITTO ✌❣

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