Taking More and Giving Less
Jude Lyrics


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He said I'm a lover not a fighter
As he came into the room
The people clapped and they laughed
And they handed him a broom
She said we need a Superman
To clean up all this mess ..
He slowly started taking off her dress
He said I've started taking more and giving less

Yes yes yes
I leave it to you
To clean up this mess
I've started taking more and giving less
Yes yes yes

He was living in t he city
He was working with his hands
He was feeling ugly beautiful
So he gathered up a band
And they played for all those Lucifers
And he slapped away their hands
And he said you must confuse me with the rest
I have started taking more and giving less
Yes yes yes
I'll leave it to you
To clean up my mess
'Cause I've started taking more and giving less
Yes yes yes

He called her on the telephone
And she said she'd take a plane
He could not stand to be alone and to listen
-to the rain

So she drank up all his secrets
And she kissed a way his pain
Addicting him to something dangerous
He had started taking more and giving less
Yes yes yes

I'll leave it to you
To clean up my mess
'Cause I've s tarted taking more and giving less

My master now
Is my own happiness
I've started taking more and giving less
Yes yes yes
Yes yes yes
I've started taking more and giving less.

Now he is a captain
In his ship upon the sea
Sailing it to anywhere
That's where he wants to be
And all he ever needed
Was to know he could be free




So where he goes is anybody's guess
He has started taking more and giving less.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jude's song Taking More and Giving Less are poetic and layered, encompassing a range of themes and emotions. The song is sung from the perspective of a man who is grappling with the idea of love and intimacy, and the sacrifices that he must make to maintain a relationship. Throughout the song, the man struggles with his own fears and insecurities as he navigates the complex world of human relationships.


The song opens with the man stating that he is a lover, not a fighter. However, as he enters the room, he is handed a broom, which suggests that he is not living up to his romantic ideals. The man's lover tells him that he needs to be more like Superman, to clean up the mess that they have made. Ironically, the man starts taking off her dress as she says this, indicating that he is more interested in physical intimacy than emotional connection. The chorus repeats the line "I've started taking more and giving less", emphasizing the man's selfishness and lack of concern for his partner's needs.


The next verse introduces the man's band and their performance for the "Lucifers". The man snaps away at the people in the audience who are trying to touch him, demonstrating that he is defensive and wary of intimacy. He tells the audience that they must be confusing him with the rest, implying that he is different from other men. However, the chorus reiterates that he is still taking more and giving less.


In the final verse, the man calls his lover, who agrees to take a plane to see him. The woman becomes a confidante for the man, listening to his secrets and kissing away his pain. However, the man becomes addicted to this intimate connection, and the relationship becomes imbalanced, with the man taking more and giving less. The outro of the song emphasizes that the man's "master now is [his] own happiness", which suggests that he has ultimately chosen to prioritize his own desires over the needs of others.


Line by Line Meaning

He said I'm a lover not a fighter
I prioritize love and affection rather than violence and aggression


As he came into the room
Upon entering, the attention was drawn towards him


The people clapped and they laughed
The individuals present responded with humor and cheer


And they handed him a broom
They presented him with a simple task to endear him


She said we need a Superman
A figure with incredible strength and power can resolve our issues


To clean up all this mess ..
To rectify the current state of chaos and disorder


He slowly started taking off her dress
He initiated a physical intimate moment with her


He said I've started taking more and giving less
I'm becoming selfish and not reciprocating love and generosity properly


He was living in the city
He was residing within the limits of urban life


He was working with his hands
He used manual labor to earn his livelihood


He was feeling ugly beautiful
He was experiencing contradictions within self-image


So he gathered up a band
He assembled a group of musicians to form a band with him


And they played for all those Lucifers
They performed for those who are devilishly tempting and alluring


And he slapped away their hands
He pushed away their advances and efforts to exploit him


And he said you must confuse me with the rest
I am different from others and I won't fall for your tricks


I have started taking more and giving less
I'm becoming more self-centered and less giving in nature


He called her on the telephone
He initiated a communication through a phone call


And she said she'd take a plane
She agreed to travel by plane to reach him


He could not stand to be alone and to listen -to the rain
He was unwilling to be by himself and hear depressing sounds of the rain


So she drank up all his secrets
She acquired all his intimate details and vulnerabilities


And she kissed a way his pain
She distracted him from his sadness through physical affection


Addicting him to something dangerous
She became an unhealthy dependency for him


He had started taking more and giving less
He had become selfish and less generous in the relationship


My master now
My top priority and focus


Is my own happiness
Prioritizing my personal joy and contentment


Now he is a captain
He now holds a position of leadership and control


In his ship upon the sea
Traveling upon the vast and tumultuous ocean


Sailing it to anywhere
Going anywhere he desires without restrictions


That's where he wants to be
He is content in his current state of freedom and exploration


So where he goes is anybody's guess
His future and destination are uncertain and unpredictable


He has started taking more and giving less.
He has become more self-interested and less considerate of others




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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@BenBallard-hp8sk

Only just found this through your shorts and one of those YouTube rabbit holes late at night. I've just had my second boy (3 months old) and I have a 3nager (you'll find out what one of those is!! LOL). I've been through some hard knocks and some tough licks in life and at 47 (now) I thought I could deal with every situation possible. Then fatherhood came along and it taught me......that I know nothing about everything when it comes to being a Dad !! But that's part of the complete joy of being a Dad. It makes you look deep into those dark holes and locked up boxes in your head and re-examine EVERYTHING.

Your priorities get re-wired and f*cking fast, all those emotional barriers and boundary bricks you've built - they get torn down and demolished pretty sharpish, think you're one tough cookie already? NOPE! You become a raw bundle of emotion again and it all comes flooding out.

And BTW....... I was a big bawling mess of tears after you finished the chorus. Thanks for that! I'm now going to be playing this on repeat....My big little man is probably too young to understand this fully right now, but he's going to hear it, let's hope I can do it the justice it deserves when I sing it to him.

Thank-you for writing this song, from the bottom of my heart and the bottom of the MASSIVE bloody lump in my throat -

THANK-YOU Connor.

EDIT - I'm going to pass one on to you Connor (and anyone that's reading this in the comments) that really resonated with me when my first was born, it's by a guy called Sean Rowe. It's called "I'll Follow Your Trail". I hope you like it as much as I do.

https://youtu.be/vd7VqA0ZA-U



@Vuvalan

Lyrics:

Mmm, mmm, mmm, yeah

Call my name, I'll be there
Any night and any day
Take my hand, I got you
That'll always stay the same, yeah

Less of my time spent with myself
I wouldn't trade it for anything else
You got my eyes, I got your back
You and me, ain't nothin' better than that
I hope one day that you'll listen to this song
Keepin' us close when I been gone
Every word was written for you, yeah, yeah

When I go, just know I'll come back
If traffic's slow, just know I'd run back to you
I know this world can get kind of cold
Summer comes and it goes
Rain turns into snow and that's the way that it goes, yeah

Call my name, I'll be there
Any night and any day
Take my hand, I got you
That'll always stay the same, yeah

I can't wait 'til you're old enough
When we can sit and have conversations
Tell me all about what you want
From life and all of your aspirations
Show you my favorite movies
I make these songs while you sleep
Every word was written for you, yeah, yeah

When you go, I'll be right here
Pick up the phone, I'll be right there for you
I know this world can get kind of cold, yeah
Summer comes and it goes, yeah
Rain turns into snow, but pain turns into hope, yeah

Call my name, I'll be there
Any night and any day
Take my hand, I got you
That'll always stay the same, yeah

Ooh-ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh



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@michaellewis8935

Okay this made me cry. Im 26, single dad of three, and im bawling lol 😭😭😂♥️ this song is beyond beautiful and i hope its on apple music. I think i found a new song to show and devote to my daughters. This is beautiful. I had a heroin problem and im 3 years clean, and i wouldnt be here without my babies and the motivation i get from there undying love. This is beautiful, keep making music please, and take care of that baby♥️ you seem like a great dad. Its the most rewarding too me. Some say the opposite, but i disagree. I hope this song blows up, because you deserve it and have a voice, comparable to Ed Sheeran or Bruno Mars. Your family js a blessing. ♥️

@ConnorPrice_

Thank you so much for listening. So happy you like the track. And yes, it’s on all streaming platforms! You can click the link in the description for all that info 🙏🏼 all the best to you and your family ❤️

@michaellewis8935

Awesome thank you 🙏 my daughters love this song. I sang to them this morning and they love itt!!! Keep making music, i hope you make it big one day , your child and family should be beyond proud of you♥️♥️♥️♥️

@herika006

Congratulations on 3 years clean!

@michaellewis8935

Thank you so much Erica♥️ thank god and everyone around me who supported and continued to be there when im needed. This song hits hard because my kids are what help me pull through when my ex abandon me. They were all i had ♥️ being a dad is the most rewarding job ever

@seansnyder7744

bless your heart, your family, and the strides you're taking to be what you need to be for your own. Congratulations on your sobriety, it's an ever increasing challenge in these trying times.

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@BelFinnova

This song needs to hit all radio stations already!! 🥹

@ConnorPrice_

That’s what I’m sayin

@skitzophrenicperson

that is a goddamn fact

@Join_me_in_Minecraft

Yeah true if you can Conor do it this is so good

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