The Girl I Want To Be
Judie Tzuke Lyrics


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Have you seen her?
She's one in a million she says
She knows me well
Sometimes better than I do
And I look to her, for a way to learn
The reason, for it all
Sweetness in a hard shell,
How did she get so cool?

She sees what I disguise,
She looks through open eyes
She leads me when I'm blind,
Oh, not me - the girl I want to be

Have you been there?
She lives in an awesome place
With open windows
She sees everything clear
And she's not afraid, to be on her own
When I'd fall apart
Danger doesn't phase her,
How did she get to be so brave?

She sees what I disguise,
She looks through open eyes
She leads me when I'm blind,
Oh, not me - the girl I want to be

She stands up when I'd run,
I'm weak when she'd be strong
She's still there when I'm gone,
Oh, not me - the girl I want to be

Oh, she's one in a million
She knows me well
She's everything I'm not




She knows I'm not
The girl I want to be

Overall Meaning

In the song "The Girl I Want To Be," Judie Tzuke presents a depiction of a girl who is everything the artist aspires to be like. The girl is unique, confident, and independent- everything Judie Tzuke is not. Tzuke admires her and tries to learn from her. The song is about finding someone to emulate and look up to, someone who can guide you through life's complexities. Tzuke is asking the question, "how did this girl become so self-assured and fearless?"


The lyrics paint a picture of a girl who is not afraid to be different, who lives in a "creative" space, and who is not afraid to be herself. Tzuke tries to learn from this girl how to better understand the world and herself. The girl who Tzuke wants to be is also described as someone who sees right through the façade, who is able to look at things with open eyes, and who is not afraid to stand up for herself. Besides, the girl does not try to hide behind any disguise and faces the danger with bravado.


In conclusion, the song is about recognizing the qualities that make us aspire to want to be more like someone else. Tzuke is looking for guidance and inspiration, which she finds in the girl that she describes in the lyrics. She describes the girl as everything she wants to be but is not. The song is a testament to the human desire to be better and to achieve more. It's a depiction of the constant struggle we all face to become what we envision for ourselves.


Line by Line Meaning

Have you seen her?
Asking if anyone has seen this amazing person she admires so much


She's one in a million she says
She thinks this person is unique and special


She knows me well
This person understands her better than she understands herself


Sometimes better than I do
At times, this person knows her better than she knows herself


And I look to her, for a way to learn
She sees this person as an inspiration and mentor


The reason, for it all
She believes this person has the answers to life's questions


Sweetness in a hard shell
This person has a gentle nature despite a tough exterior


How did she get so cool?
She admires this person's confidence and attitude


She sees what I disguise
This person can see through her facade


She looks through open eyes
This person sees things objectively and without bias


She leads me when I'm blind
This person guides her when she can't see the way forward


Oh, not me - the girl I want to be
She aspires to be like this person but feels like she falls short


Have you been there?
Asking if anyone has experienced the same thing she has


She lives in an awesome place
This person appears to have an amazing life


With open windows
This person has an open and transparent nature


She sees everything clear
This person has a clear understanding of things


And she's not afraid, to be on her own
This person is comfortable being alone and independent


When I'd fall apart
She would struggle if she were in her shoes


Danger doesn't phase her
This person is brave and unafraid of danger


How did she get to be so brave?
She wonders what has made this person so courageous


She stands up when I'd run
This person is courageous when she herself would be fearful


I'm weak when she'd be strong
She feels like she is not as strong as this person is


She's still there when I'm gone
This person is dependable and loyal


The girl I want to be
This person embodies the kind of woman that she wants to be


Oh, she's one in a million
Reiterating that this person is incredibly special


She's everything I'm not
This person possesses qualities that she herself does not have


She knows I'm not
This person is aware that the singer doesn't feel like she measures up




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