You Know Who You Are
Judie Tzuke Lyrics


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I watch you go downhill and I can’t pretend
That you don’t mean anything to me, my old friend
When did it stop, it was all left unsaid
I thought you knew me better
Don’t you think I cared?
And if I try to help you, will you do the same?

’Cause I can see you falling in front of my eyes,
And I can’t keep stalling, it’s for you to decide

If you don’t start listening, we’re both gonna lose
And we only have each other left to accuse
I don’t know how to save you, tell me what to do

’Cause I can see you falling in front of my eyes,
And I can’t keep stalling, it’s for you to decide

Don’t want to play games, you know who you are
It’s the last chance saloon, and you’re at the bar

’Cause I can see you falling in front of my eyes,
And I can’t keep stalling, it’s for you to decide
And I still keep hoping that you’ll get back up
You’re a brother to me and I’m begging you to stop
’Cause I can see you falling in front of my eyes,




And I can’t keep stalling, it’s for you to decide
Live or die

Overall Meaning

The song "You Know Who You Are" by Judie Tzuke is a heartfelt and poignant track about a friend who is struggling with addiction. Tzuke watches helplessly as her friend spirals out of control and falls deeper into the grip of their addiction. The lyrics reveal the sorrow and frustration Tzuke feels, as she tries to help her friend but realizes that ultimately, the decision to get better is up to them.


Tzuke's emotional delivery and the haunting melody of the track make for a powerful listening experience. The chorus, "And I can see you falling in front of my eyes, and I can't keep stalling, it's for you to decide," packs a devastating lyrical punch. The repetition of the phrase emphasizes the heartbreaking inevitability of the situation.


The verses touch on the feeling of powerlessness and the sense of loss that comes with watching someone you care about suffer. Despite Tzuke's efforts to help, she realizes that she cannot save her friend from their addiction. The final lines of the song, "Live or die," are a stark reminder of the stakes at play.


Overall, "You Know Who You Are" is a deeply affecting song that captures the complexity of addiction and the impact it can have not only on the person struggling with it but also on their loved ones.


Line by Line Meaning

I watch you go downhill and I can’t pretend
I am witnessing your decline and I cannot hide from the truth.


That you don’t mean anything to me, my old friend
You are important to me, my long-time friend.


When did it stop, it was all left unsaid
Our communication broke down and we left things unsaid.


I thought you knew me better
I assumed you understood me more deeply than this.


Don’t you think I cared?
I cared deeply about you, don't you see that?


And if I try to help you, will you do the same?
If I extend a helping hand, will you do the same for me?


’Cause I can see you falling in front of my eyes,
I witness your fall and it pains me to see it.


And I can’t keep stalling, it’s for you to decide
I cannot delay any longer, you are the one who must take action.


If you don’t start listening, we’re both gonna lose
If you do not heed my words, we will both face a loss.


And we only have each other left to accuse
In the end, we will only be able to blame each other.


I don’t know how to save you, tell me what to do
I am at a loss as to how I can help you, advise me.


Don’t want to play games, you know who you are
I do not want to engage in games; you understand what I mean.


It’s the last chance saloon, and you’re at the bar
This is the final opportunity, and you are at a critical juncture.


And I still keep hoping that you’ll get back up
I continue to have faith that you will recover from this.


You’re a brother to me and I’m begging you to stop
You hold a deep connection with me, and I implore you to cease your downward spiral.


Live or die
It is a life or death scenario.




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@davidkeith9015

I bought this single in 1979 as a 21 year old in an Indepent record store in Rose Street Edinburgh I remember Judie was wearing army gear for promotion and I will hope to have this song played at my funeral which is quite immitent

@lyndaframe1986

❤ I was 26 and in the exact same street at Bruce's record shop and I'm nowhere near my exit from this beautiful planet ❤️ music 🎶

@davidkeith9015

@@lyndaframe1986 Thank you so much for reminding me that it was Bruce's record store in Rose Street it certainly takes me back to those wonderfully independent record stores that were like an Alladins cave to those supporters of great music Please take care and good to hear from you

@lyndaframe1986

@@davidkeith9015 I meant to say and same year 1979 (I turned 26). Amazing. Must have done something right. Music 🎶 love ❤️ life planet 🌍 🦅 🐿️

@garyneilson1833

I saw Judie sing this at Shrewsbury Abbey last weekend, you could have heard a pin drop whilst she sang it and then a standing ovation.

@alanholyhead1352

Beautiful song ❤️❤️

@stephenbailey6709

Absolutely brilliant, I,ve loved this song from the very first time I,ve heard it. Glorious ❤.

@stephenbailey6709

Loved this song from the first time I heard it. So much so I bought the album Welcome to the Cruise. Been a fan ever since. I,ll show you a sunset.

@stephenbailey6709

That haunting voice and music sets it up for that brilliant guitar solo at the end. I,ll show you a sunset. Haunting brilliant.

@brentleebowman3594

This artist is completely new to me...I just woke up and am having my first cup of coffee and WOW!!! This made my day!

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