That's the Kind of Woman
Julia Michaels Lyrics

Childhood picket fence, smells like confidence
She was brought up with a stable and secure upbringing, exuding self-assurance

Raised with a little more common sense
She was taught to make sensible decisions in life

Isn't always on defense
She doesn't feel the need to be constantly defensive

Sits up straight and knows how to take a compliment
She carries herself with poise and graciously accepts praise

Jealous but the right amount
She experiences jealousy in a healthy and balanced manner

Isn't scared of missing out, missing outs scared of missing her, yeah
She isn't afraid of missing out in life, as her absence would be missed by others

Doesn't buy things to fill voids
She doesn't use material possessions to try to fill emotional emptiness

Doesn't hate the sound of her own voice
She is comfortable and content with who she is and how she expresses herself

If the me I am Walked out that door That's the kind of woman I'd leave me for
If I were to see someone like her, with all her qualities, I would be willing to leave myself behind

Doesn't cry when someone leaves
She doesn't get overly emotional or excessively upset when someone departs from her life

Isn't contradictory
She doesn't contradict herself or engage in conflicting behaviors

Mind takes a break when she falls asleep
She is able to relax and let go of worries and concerns when she goes to sleep

Always takes her own advice
She follows the guidance and wisdom she gives to others

Crosses T's and cuts her ties
She pays attention to detail and isn't afraid to sever unhealthy connections

Figured out sympathize from empathize
She understands the difference between sympathizing with someone and truly empathizing with their experiences

Doesn't keep those letters in a drawer
She doesn't hold onto past relationships or dwell on nostalgic memories

Doesn't keep a closet full of things she bought and never wore
She doesn't accumulate material possessions that she never actually uses or benefits from

Gives all her attention to the people that are with her
She prioritizes being fully present and attentive to the people she is spending time with

She still loves to dance She still loves her sister
She maintains her passions and her close bond with her sister

If the me I am Walked out that door That's the kind of woman I'd leave me for
If I were to encounter someone like her, embodying all these traits, I would willingly leave my current self for her

Would I miss her? Maybe, a little bit, sure
I might miss her presence in my life, even if just to a small extent

Oh, I love myself, but I'd love her more
While I have self-love, I would have a stronger affection for her and the person she is

Yeah, that's the kind of woman I'd leave me for
Indeed, she possesses the qualities that would make me choose her over myself