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Fairy Angel

2y↑1.6K

*For anyone who's in a rush or doesn't want to watch the whole video*

1. 0:44 - You daydream about them
2. 1:11 - You get jealous of their partners
3. 2:09 - You can't wait to see them
4. 2:38 - You want to be more intimate with them
5. 3:11 - You're overly affectionate
6. 3:39 - You talk about them constantly
7. 4:10 - You're not interested in anyone else
8. 4:36 - It's never enough

Dat Boi

2y↑3.5K

1. you daydream about them 0:44
2. you get jealous of their partners 1:11
3. you can't wait to see them 2:09
4. you want to be more intimate with them 2:38
5. you're overly affectionate 3:11
6. you talk about them constantly 3:39
7. you're not interested in anyone else 4:10
8. it's never enough 4:36
I hope I could help!

Lukáš Císar

2y↑7

Well, I do like myself, but I doubt that somebody would love me who is good at being sadistic and extremely envious especialy on the internet

So it isn't possible for me to find a partner

Nobody likes [The great evil] these days

I'm keep trying to be unacceptable and extreme, because this world sucks

God damn it, who would even care?

Nobody, I guess :)

Gibran Escobell - Self Improvement -

2y↑780

TIME STAMPS HERE so you do not have to scroll
1. You daydream about them 0:44
2. You get jealous of their partners 1:11
3. You can't wait to see them 2:09
4. You want to be more intimate with them 2:38
5. You're overly affectionate 3:11
6. You talk about them constantly 3:39
7. You're not interested in anyone else 4:10
8. It's never enough 4:36

Thanks to the original poster. Dat Boi

chandrani roy

2y↑15

I and my best friend both have feelings for each other for over 2 years now...
And recently admitted to each other (which i thought of never doing so, bec i always thought it was one sided, but after confessing first, it turns out she was the first to catch feelings)

Although having mutual feelings we decided to stay friends only and not going into dating or relationship nd all....

And to be honest it's a bit tough for me moving on...
Like we didn't start anything only, so what to even end and move on from?
And also i don't want to cut off all connections because she's my best friend and i want to continue this friendship...

Ppl talk abt unrequited love in best friends..
But what abt mutual but not going into it?

raidenzg0releakz

2y↑1

This is a question about an ex-partner from a polyamorous relationship (Person B) who is still friends with me. I feel multiple types of tertiary attraction, but usually attribute anything close to romantic attraction to “it’s just another hyperfixation, it will probably pass over me once I get into something else”(I am autistic, and attraction for me comes in phases. I am in Metal Gear Solid and SCP foundation hyperfixations currently.) (It’s also notable that I have severe trust issues, have been diagnosed with depression and osdd 1-b along with the autism)

My parents never had a good relationship with each other or me, and I haven’t had an actual healthy partnership with someone except for this person. This person was my hyperfixation for a while until I got into Metal Gear, and we were dating. It was perfect until Person C showed up in our lives. Person C threatened self-harm and was overall a shitty person towards me and Person B, and basically killed my already dwindling feelings toward Person B, since I was then head over heels obsessed with Raiden (I still am now!)

I broke up with Person C, who proceeded to stalk me. Person B, who was being controlled by Person C, tried to get me back into the relationship with person C, and said “now we aren’t in a proper relationship” and stuff like that. The entire conversation with them was so stressful that an alter had to come out to pretend to be me so that I was able to be more stern with the fact that I wasn’t getting back with Person C. I then broke up with Person B peacefully and we’re still friends.

I noticed that while I was with Person B romantically, Person B wasn’t themself. They completely changed themself and seemed extremely depressed, most likely to please Person C, and it carried over onto me.

This breakup only happened less than a month ago.

Now that Person B and I are just friends again, I’m starting to feel the romantic? Queerplatonic?? I can’t tell?? Feelings toward them again, but these feelings are tainted with a hatred for the idea of committing myself to a romantic partner again.

I always have felt as if I’m trapped when I’m in a romantic partnership, but always seem to be able to have crushes until they’re reciprocated. That means that my romantic feelings completely fade and turn into friendship feelings once they’re reciprocated.

What do I do? Am I some type of aro or do I just have trust issues? What is going on? Who am I? What am I supposed to be? Is any of this even real?

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Psych2Go

2y↑1.6K

Have you ever love your best friend? Also Merry Christmas!

Sajovu

2y↑44

no i dont have friends lmfao

Izuku Midoriya

2y↑35

Hey! I've always loved y'all's vids,and they helped me a LOT but I have a request for the next vid, can y'all make one wich subject's is about a homosexual relationship? Like maybe how to confess or just some emotional support for ppl who don't have supportive surroundings, that'll really make my day, thanks for y'all's amazing content! 💜

kaeya's

2y↑13

Merry Christmas!! This channel helped me through this pandemic but yes.. I loved my bff but the problem is that he already have a lover🥲 But brrr I can say that he doesn't want her, HEHEHEHHE (ik this is cringe but HAHAHA just wanna share it:>)

kat

2y↑3

merry Christmas!!

SUBHOJIT Dasgupta

2y↑2

Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 ❤ ♥

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Vanessa Walsh

2y↑9.5K

Historians: It's just an extremely close friendship.

•Commen98•

2y↑289

"Buddies"

¡Windup!

2y↑205

Disney right there 100%

Katie369

2y↑301

Oh my god, they were roommates

Mina

2y↑34

Might be writing an autobiography lol

Voltage Storm

2y↑47

Its just really REALLY close

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Soul

2y↑5K

I'm just in love with the thought of being in love

Lilly Wolf468

2y↑76

ikr. Same.

x.RainPuddle.x

2y↑25

Same

The Celesteial

2y↑79

It's a waste of time and in the end will hurt either you or the other party through the passing of either

Hueso

2y↑51

Love can also hurt you. It can feel good and when it doesn’t go as planned it’s the worst pain imaginable.

vang-tou Lee

2y↑65

No, you guys want love. You just dont want all the things that come with it. Its alright to have your fun and explore the waters. But one day y'all will wish for something more and deeper. That is when you really desire for something real.

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Josh-A

2y↑3.2K

I came here knowing I have all 8 of these signs, yet also knowing it's something that's one-sided only, and cannot be something beyond a friendship.
It was an equally beautiful and painful video to watch, but to anyone out there going through this same type of thing, rest assured you're not alone on this feeling...

Omar Ishan

2y↑53

Thanks my G, I feel you❤❤

Owen Xu

2y↑32

+ the distance, I can never be sure

HannahBanana

2y↑18

I feel you ack-

kaveh loml

2y↑42

I'm glad I'm not the only one :')

Wan Amirrudin

2y↑10

I can see the signs in my friend.. what should i do now

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Cool_Guy_86

2y↑4.1K

This can definitely happen, but it's also possible to let go of the romantic feelings and move on from your crush while still being friends. It's very hard to do though. This happened with a boy I met a few years ago. I think there was "something there" between us, but he didn't want to act on it. So after a while, I moved on, and met my current boyfriend and fell in love. I'm still friends with the first boy, but now I don't have any romantic feeling for him. I just accepted that we are friends, and that we are probably better off that way. Yes, sometimes I do wonder what it would have been like if we were more than friends, but it's not something I focus on or day dream about. I just see him as a friend now.

•have u heard of among us gregory•

2y↑46

good on you 💖

Brainiac Computer

2y↑124

This is exactly what I need to do. I missed my shot with a good friend of mine. Whenever I see her, I just feel different. But I know the person in front of me is just that: a person. But then I do a total 180 and see them in a different light. It’s weird. And yet I know that it’s better for me to cut my losses and move on, it’s just been difficult.

TØP & Tacos

2y↑87

I am currently working on letting go of romantic feelings for my best friend rn. Thanks for sharing your post, it’s encouraging for others going through this

Brandon Leung

2y↑30

I have a friend that me like, but me no think she like me 😢. I see her, I get nervous, sometimes she stares at me (not cold, but not warm either, it's hard to explain, ig like a really nice and warm version of a "what a he doing here" stare), it's hard for me to tell. As a TV show once said, the [other gender] species is hard to understand (that was from Stranger Things btw). I barely talk to her irl, but we talk a lot on IG, she gave me many mixed signs (obvious signs of, I like you, or stay away from me, we're just friends). Also I had a dream about her 2 days ago and now I'm really concerned for my well-being, she makes me want to see tomorrow, when I can glance at her during math class 😁 or any other places in my school. I like her so much but I don't think she likes me back (considering she doesn't care much for relationships as she has never been in one (or so she says), but I'm hoping to change that).

In summary, idk if girl likes me or not, getting mixed signals and she gives me courage. What do I do?

Sorry it was long, I was pouring out my feelings 😁

Pauli 5634

2y↑29

I rather not. Even though she said "we can still be friends", I already know what that means: I'm the safe guy or the ego boost

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Fairy Angel

2y↑1.6K

Lala Monroe

2y↑6

They you

Tree duck

2y↑16

Welp .-. Looks like i'm all of these XD

Food

2y↑20

I live for these types of comments, seriously thank you for being you <3

Soumya UwU

2y↑6

You're an angel omg thank youuuu💗

Ellie_The_Duckling77

2y↑4

Yeah I got most of them, especially the first one, third one and maybe the sixth one.

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Booogar BOI

2y↑1.1K

The sweetest love is the friendship kind in my opinion

fxDELTAx

2y↑103

I have a permanant table at the Friendzone. I will pull up an extra chair.

Phil Rei

2y↑13

Oh man I can agree

Crispy Clips

2y↑7

Thanks

vang-tou Lee

2y↑57

@fxDELTAx if she friendzones you then just leave her lol. Or push it more and show her that you want her. Friendship does not mean friendzone. You can be friends with your lover. Its honestly more fun that way.

Adwoa Agyeman

2y↑7

Exactly and the one that started as friendship

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Pedro Carvalho

2y↑694

Then, they reject you, and you spend months thinking about them, while suffering. I hate being in love.

Mohim Brood

1y↑40

I am experiencing that right now. It sucks cuz she randomly stopped all form of contact. I never thought she would do this to me :(

Jen Shaw

1y↑32

Months? Try years ☹️

Meghan Howell

1y↑4

Lol yeah ❤

Nick Lopez

1y↑2

Real

Zoey Coleman

1y↑3

True...💔

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Regina Perez

2y↑335

But the worst part is falling in love with them knowing they don't feel the same

farah gazzah

2y↑3

ahhhh

Yes

2y↑36

DUDE... Okay let me tell you my story, 4 years ago i fell in love with a girl but i didn't had the courage to talk to her untill 2 years ago. Over the past 2 years we have become best friends, but i always thought she didn't love me the way i did. But recently she said that she worries too much about me, cares a little too much and thats why she thinks that she likes me too... Im not sure whats gonna happen now but all im saying is, never lose hope, and dont assume anything before you even try. Cheers!

Carolyn

2y↑2

@Yes omg update??

Yes

2y↑21

@Carolyn well, were both in 10th grade which is like an important grade in our country... So me and her have both decided to wait till 10th grade ends, but yea it is confirmed now, she actually said "im sure i like you" soo now waiting 2 months till the grade ends is no biggie:)

Carolyn

2y↑6

@Yes awww glad to hear something is working out for someone 💕

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Victoria Mihailova

2y↑470

8 out of 8 and about the affectionate part- I've tried to hide my feelings in the past from my crush so he won't reject me and that meant not touching him at all because my love would have become quite obvious. Now, he has rejected me twice and I have such a hard time moving on. This video is slightly bittersweet but also a reminder that I SHOULD move on. I cannot keep standing in the same place while waiting for him to change his mind and decide to love me. It is a painful experience but one I have decided I cannot keep ignoring. So, wish me luck in learning how to only love him as a friend. Just the thought is painful...

Frustrated AF

2y↑22

I understand you so much. My crush has also rejected me twice and now we don't meet at all, because of him moving places. I have had a crush on him for 5 years and I don't even know if I love him, because I just can't seem to get over him.

asdfgh

2y↑1

I feel you

Asphn Lere

2y↑9

Mm I don't really have any kind of experience but honestly if someone doesn't care about you then just leave him as a boy I can tell because many of friends are similar to one's who you are talking about because those kind only care for themselves

AimedX3

2y↑11

I relate to this by a lot, i have spent 3 months trying to move on from my crush and finally did, after crying almost every night trying to forget the feelings and the good memories she built inside me, although i still wish she accepted me back then and i still really wish that she changes her mind some day, we are still friends but we barely talk because our interests are different.

Ellen Setteducati

2y↑8

Asif Achi said it very well. And I would ask if maybe the pain itself will show you what to do, rather than the thought *you should*? The video is not about convincing ourselves to love a crush as a friend but about realizing we are in love with a friend, and it looks mutual in the animation. If we are rejected, we have feelings about that. We may also feel bad if they don't care how we feel -- if they only care for themselves. We can honor our feelings; there is no obligation to stay. We can move on to look for mutual love. We can take some time for ourselves until we know how we feel and what we need. ❤️

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Dat Boi

2y↑3.5K

Supescute

2y↑18

thx

Greenstone51

2y↑12

Thx :)

Melanie Martin

2y↑3

I'm lost!🦁🦁🦁🤷‍♀️

content deleted

2y↑8

20 hours ago???

Angela

2y↑19

Thanks timetraveler

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Krioda - International Dating Channel

2y↑24

Thanks for such a deep list of signs. I also think that love it's not only passion or sex. Love is wider and includes all types of friendship, all kinds of intimacy, mutual respect etc.

💞 As we see there is platonic relationship. Platonic love refers to a love that is about sharing friendship or focusing on the higher selves that can be obtained in a relationship that is sex-free. When you are in a platonic relationship, you may feel that it is a much larger investment than any other relationship before. This can be intimidating to anyone who believes they may be in a platonic relationship.

Platonic and romantic relationships can coexist peacefully if you manage these carefully and with great consideration.

Gibran Escobell - Self Improvement -

2y↑906

You will all find the love one, yes you, but remember in order to be loved you must love and respect yourself, the person you attract is a reflection of the love you feel for yourself.

WillowRose34

2y↑10

Maybe that's why she didn't date me?

Lukáš Císar

2y↑7

Vinicius Kowalski Ashtear

2y↑15

That's simply not true. You may be your perfect self and have bad luck.

James San

2y↑4

Self respect is not love but having honour and that is art forgotten today

Vinicius Kowalski Ashtear

2y↑8

This sounds a lot like that "you get what you send to the universe" pseudo-science mumbo jumbo.

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Jacob Stoecker

30w↑2

Thank you very much for reminding me the true feelings of love. It's easy to mix liking someone with loving them and vice versa. I've only fallen in love once and this was all exactly how I felt. I'm excited to get deeper into psychology to understand more about the concept of love

Dee0342

2y↑551

Ah yes, I once knew what friendships were like. Little did I know it was the first step towards love. Now I have neither. Merry Christmas.

Talia

2y↑29

oh no :( i hope you find someone special, who won't leave you

Random Serbian Guy

2y↑11

This hits hard

Garim Eragonols

2y↑38

The risk of trying to change friendship into love relationship is losing the friendship. I know that very well...

SoldierOfFate

2y↑32

@Garim Eragonols I confessed to a friend over the summer and she said this to me. She's afraid of losing that friendship (I wasn't friendzoned though, since she said "It's not about you, but rather I'm not interested in a relationship at the moment and I'm very grateful we are still friends despite the pandemic separating us" and my other friends told me that I still have chances) and I fully respect her boundaries.

I dunno, perhaps she's trying to test me to ensure I'm not one of those "how dare you reject me when I was so nice to you!?" kind of guy. Because those are the types of people you AVOID like the plague.

datanotfound

2y↑17

@SoldierOfFate While I don't know your entire situation, it seems to me like this girl is being genuine. And whether or not you decide to take the relationship a step further, it sounds like you have a good friend there

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Hyperfixation_Central

2y↑187

Peice of advice for those watching: in middle or high school, a close friendship is much more valuable than romance, especially since at that age the romance is half baked
(Coming from a high schooler)

BotWMaster :D

1y↑1

Yeah I completely agree, right now I have feelings for my closest friend but honestly I feel like I don’t need a romantic relationship any time soon, whilst I do have those desires the logic isn’t there. I’d rather wait til college or university age and if we are still friends and I still have those desires, I’d pursue it then, when it is more likely to somewhere . Right now I’m more than happy with our platonic companionship and I will just see where it goes from there when I feel ready to pursue something (Coming from another high schooler)

Wybie :]

1y↑14

God, this actually helps me alot-
I'm on the aromantic spectrum, and though I know the conditions it takes for me to catch feelings, they've- so far- always manifested differently for each person. This actually helped me find the base line(things I've felt each time, despite the bigger differences which are why I have a hard time telling it's a crush). And it's honestly helping so much having that knowledge now, seeing as I've been really confused about my feelings for a friend for quite a while now.
Thank you for the help.

Niamh Flynn

Im also on the aromatic spectrum and my friend recently is having trouble with a potential crush. They don’t know whether they like them platonically or romantically and it made me realise that I don’t actually know the difference either. I wanna red and help them but this is making me believe perhaps maybe I’ve felt romantic attraction too and just thought this is how besties are meant to be. This doesn’t make me think of anyone in particular but it would be useful for me to know if the situation ever arises.

iceesky

as a demiromantic i think ive also developed feelings for a friend, which i've never even considered at first. it sucks asf cuz I'm also asexual and they're not, so it would be unfair to force my feelings and orientation on them

Gabriel Alen

2y↑215

I have struck a 7/8 and can tell that my friend has being doing pretty the same as me, and we both know about that.
The thing is that she's kinda traumatized of being in a romantic relationship with a "best friend", because her last relationship was with a guy she thought was perfect for but put her in the emocional gutter, let's say.
I really like her and am not interested in anybody else, and she seems to like me as well, she's in a trip rn and bought 2 pink quartzes, one for each one of us, I caught myself smiling at the cellphone, I hate when that happens.
I'm about to send her "Never gonna give you up~Rick Astley" to her with the translation so that she can get what I feel. Regards from Brazil to y'all
Update, 4 months later: it all went down the drain, in a friendly way, but it wasn't working anymore. I griefed a while but I'm doing good now, so good that I met someone who is far more understanding and loving than my friend was, I'm truly in love now.

Michael Kochalka

2y↑27

That's actually quite genius, in case for example one dindn't like it or you feel you made a mistake, you could always say they got rickrolled.

vang-tou Lee

2y↑17

You can just try to convince you aren't like her last. If shes scared about that then be patient and stick by her side. Don't get friendzoned but don't try to push it too hard either. She obviously likes you, shes just isn't ready.

just your local commeter :D

2y↑9

best way to rickroll

Gabriel Alen

@Michael Kochalka lmao imagine

Gabriel Alen

@vang-tou Lee I've waiting for some time, actually, but it feels like it's gonna get set in motion soon (I hope

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Viza Wuzzy

2y↑272

just remember unrequited love exists. it’s the worst feeling in the world but it will pass. had a FAT crush on my best friend for over a year but she didn’t feel that way back and we are still good friends. you can make it through. now i’m dating someone never thought it would happen.

Wenoswatch Le Pignouf Etanche

2y↑7

I don't know how you guys can still be friends with someone who has rejected you. Don't you have any pride ?

Sarana Tari

2y↑58

@Wenoswatch Le Pignouf Etanche do you have any VALUE in friendships? Like wow. I can’t imagine dumping a friend that I care deeply for just because they didn’t like me back in a romantic way. That’s not their fault. Rejecting someone romantically isn’t the same as rejecting them platonically

Video games And stuff!

2y↑1

I have a crush on my 25 year old teacher, I’m 18

Nandana R Krishna

2y↑9

@Sarana Tari I see a matured person here.

EkTwRLoveGarlic

2y↑1

@Sarana TariEhm, it still hurts you know?

Some people may be able to move on, others don't, and it's perfectly fine to leave a good friendship if you want something more.
And I think women have a much easier time to move on as you have options for other relationships, much more than other men.

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Jasmine Ye

1y↑4

I came here because I wondered what people would do differently as friends vs lovers because I can’t imagine being in love with some one I wasn’t already friends with, or in love with platonically before. While following along, I definitely am sure that my feelings with all of my close friends aren’t romantic but deep platonic love. I am grateful for everyone I have in my life but I am also , especially after watching this video, looking forward to having such a special relationship with someone in the future.

neoCHAOSitizen

31w↑3

My very first love started from friendship too, we just immediately clicked and I honestly have no idea how and where it came from. Then slowly it went from "No way I don't like him" to "Maybe he'd be nice to date" to "I am in love help-" kinda thing. He was literally all over my mind and it made me feel so giddy and happy just to think of him and I. Ik for a fact that the feeling is mutual, but sadly we cannot be together due to certain disagreements. We never confessed and we're still friends but there is this heavy tension between us every time we interact. Currently in the process of trying to get over him and putting the effort on myself <3

Gibran Escobell - Self Improvement -

2y↑780

Anubonek

Too late

Gibran Escobell - Self Improvement -

2y↑8

@Anubonek Sometimes the others get lost in comments.

Random person

Lonely Gorilla [2] *right

no.

2y↑2

Lonely Gorilla [2] So whattt?they commented this to help others smhhh

Notus

@no. its literally ctrl c + ctrl v

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Electric Ninja

2y↑198

I didn’t know my friend had a boyfriend until one day they just mentioned it casually in a conversation like it was the most obvious thing in the world, and while I had previously known that I only had a chance, it really did hurt even though I wasn’t directly rejected or anything. I feel like I met most of the things on this list and while it may have just been liking them a lot, I feel like it could have grown into something much deeper. I truly am happy for her and her boyfriend as they are both my friends and I have always been glad that they are happy together and would never interfere with their relationship, but for a few days I was just left thinking about it, and not blaming anyone because I know everyone was right there, but being confused on as to what to do next. I feel like I have gotten better now, and I am still friends with the people, but it does sometimes feel weird when I talk to her by myself.

Captain Panda

2y↑2

That normally occurs when you are not direct with your feelings and intentions at all. I know it hurts but you will feel better if you cut that friendship

Owlsworthy

2y↑23

I wouldn't cut ties with them as was suggested.. It sounds like you're well on your way to processing your feelings. From what you have written, you sound like a very well adjusted person who is capable of thinking things through. It will get easier with time. Wish you luck.

Electric Ninja

2y↑8

@Owlsworthy thank you, I still plan on keeping in contact but it still feels weird sometimes when I’m just with her

Rebecca Webb

Have you told her

airbatt

2y↑2

Same, it sucks knowing you could be with them but alas, stay strong...

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emma

2y↑65

It's so comforting to know that a lot of people in the comments section are also going through similar situations on this matter 😊 merry xmas btw, have a good one :)

fel

2y↑33

This may have made me realize I like a friend in a more intimate way. I’ve always thought I felt no romantic attraction, but that applied to boys, not the girls I liked in the past(I thought my past crushes were all fake and made up, however, the female ones were real).
It’s interesting, and I’m unsure what to do with the information, but it’s nice to notice the feelings. They may pass anyway, like they did with my last crush, but they may not and that’s ok to.

DHS-Clan

2y↑184

I met my best friend (girl) a few months ago and we have never talked before so i thought it will be kind a weird but it was the complete opposite. In the first moment there was a big connection. We both felt it. It was like magic. After some fun trips with my bike i soon started to develop deeper feelings for her. (Like everything that was mentioned in the video) i couldn't tell her because i didn't want to ruin our friendship so i waited until the right moment...
I told her everything about my feelings but she didnt feel the same way but we stayed close friends until the day i invited her to a party and she got to know my other best friend (boy) better.
Now we barely have contact and she is 24/7 at my friends house and even slept there a couple of times (like today on Christmas :c) She refused that they have something romantic but i cant believe that... I get extremely jealous even now when i think about it. What's that kind of a friend who know that you have feelings for her and still meet her everytime. I told her that its really hurting me to see her with someone else because of our special emotional connection but it seems like she didnt care at all. She broke my heart not only in a romantic way but also the friendship.
People seems to change quickly these days and some friends are just rats. I dont know why im writing this but who ever read my little text have a great new year. Christmas this year sucks 🥲
Sry for my bad English btw :)

SoldierOfFate

2y↑35

To start, your English is better than the majority of people out there. Secondly...I know the rats part all too well.

I had to cut ties with a very close friend earlier this month when I learned he was a dishonest, deceitful, and downright insane person (he supports the idea of murdering police and military servicemembers in their homes while doing unspeakable things to their loved ones) that was talking behind my back while twisting stories to suit his agenda. But I knew what was going to come when he can't even look in my direction or put his phone down when I am talking to him in a 1on1 conversational environment.

Cutting him out of my life wasn't easy, but it had to be done. Other people have told me he has shown hints of jealousy because it became apparent I was more likeable as a person compared to him.

DHS-Clan

2y↑1

@SoldierOfFate thank you for your words 🙏 i hope i'll get through this. Its just hurting...

druthi Bhargav

2y↑20

She doesn't deserve you....so don't waste ur Christmas on someone who didn't deserve u......stay strong 💪💪

DHS-Clan

2y↑1

@druthi Bhargav thx mate 🙏

druthi Bhargav

2y↑2

@DHS-Clan happy to help 😁......hope ur doing well

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Wolfman Ash

2y↑174

I’ve always kind of doubt whether or not i actually like my crush, or I’m just telling myself that. But after relating to every sign, I’m sure of my feeling, and have a clear head. Thanks!

🗝️IDk?🗝️

2y↑5

this is too relatable :'(

Kamisato Elias

2y↑1

If you have to ask then, you probably don’t truly love them, it might just be a little crush or attraction. You should know without a single doubt you love them.

remi gilchrist

2y↑12

Close conscious friendships can have alot of love..... especially if youve done alot of work on yourself and you are able to express that love. But when does it cross over into romantic from platonic.......is the question. Theres always love. Its just the type of love and the intensity. 🥰

Delta TheEvil

2y↑292

Most of those signs are what made me realise I was falling for my current boyfriend... And the Stardew Valley reference was the icing on the cake since we literally got married in this game for fun.

Raiza

2y↑12

That is so cuteeee <3

Poro Poro

2y↑2

only dubs

potterhead

2y↑8

Wow..I wish even I can find true love one day♥️

Ru. M.

2y↑5

I married him , in stardew valley, animal crossing, SL, but he now treats me like a guy friend after 5 yrs.

Kamisato Elias

I need mine to get Stardew Valley omg

SarahM46

1y↑16

One of my friends is 100% into me but I'm aro ace (he knows), except I still really like receiving physical affection like snuggles and caresses so I gladly accept the attention.
Came here to double check that it's still not romantic on my part and it definitely isn't. I guess my feelings and behaviors are a reflection of what I would like some of my platonic relationships to be like, but don't often get to express because of society's perception that that level of physical closeness between adults has to be romantic
Very confusing times
Thanks for reading if you made it this far

Kamy KC

43w↑1

You what? Poor guy, hope he find someone that actually matters

ꨄ︎ᴍɪxxᴊᴇᴀɴꜱꨄ︎

30w

fr ppl say stuff like "just friends" and all that bc they think love is always romantic

joeyraggs

2y↑4

Definitely applies to me. I have a friend that I’m falling for, but I’m a lot older than her. Because we’re friends she talks to me about her dates. It’s hard listening to that. But I never confronted her with my feelings. I think she’d be shocked or even betrayed and I don’t want to lose her as a friend. Also, I think I know her answer, she’s not interested in me that way. If she was, then why would she talk to me about her dates, and who she likes or doesn’t like? So I’d rather just let it go. At least I’m walking away from this with some more insight: if someone I like from the start or simply attracted to, and she wants to hang out, I’m going to ask: you mean a date? If she says no, then I’ll have to say that I find them attractive and that I’ve been through this before, and don’t want to do so again. Maybe we can come to an agreement. We can make it a sort of date, if there are any fireworks, great. If we don’t then we can remain friends. If I still feel something but she doesn’t, then it should be goodbye.

Karen Dong

2y↑7

friends to lovers is sweet, but when it doesn't work out, you lose the friendship too.

🤍 Primadonna 🤍

31w↑3

It scares me to death

Billiam Boehme

2y↑65

Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love. - Charlie Brown

Ilike peanutbutter

2y↑9

The fun which is there in friendship is not in love. After lots of ups and downs i am finally well and happy now. 😊
Thank you Psych2Go for guiding me in my dark times, not at the beginning but at least i could have the taste of happiness in this couple of months . nd yeah Merry Christmas to all of you. 😇.

Belle

2y↑86

Thank you!! This video could not have come at a better time for me!

DIY kat

2y↑2

Same only to realize that it checked every boxes for the person I had in mind! Except I don’t feel butterflies when I see them because I’m very comfortable around that person!❤️Merry Christmas!

ClassyGreyDove

2y↑9

it’s been a long 5 months but I’ve done it! (mostly) I have moved on from unrequited feelings and kEpt the friendship! <3 very proud of myself ^^ you know you’ve moved on when you are ready and open for feelings for other people, and no longer feel strong emotions about said unrequited feelings, at least for me. There’s always the grieving process but acceptance and moving forward is a wonderful stage to be at 🥰 even if there will always be a part of me that wonders “what if” and a part of me that remembers what it was like to have those beautiful feelings. Good luck to fellow hearts going through this process <3 you can do it!

Judyta Grześków

Well done, wish you luck in your next endeavors ;3

Florian Pierre DUMONT

I experienced most of this a few weeks ago, on vacations with an old friend from highschool. I was wondering a few weeks before I came to her house if I was or not feeling something "more" towards her, yet I felt it was a little bit immoral or dishonnest for acting like that towards her, and I worked on suppressing these feelings in order not to parasite thegood time we had together. But after a few days with her, I had the "thunderstrike" in my heart and mind like a revelation, and I knew it was love. For the next two weeks, we had long conversations, with confidences, or plans for me to come to live in her area, activities, work together, how we imagined our friendship and vacations together in near future, and had a lot of little attentions, surprises, and demonstrations of kindness such as emotionnal support, advices, long hugs and little kisses almost all the time, that gave me the impression something was really building up. The day I went home, we have had a final conversation, and what is still making me think is the fact that, about the things we did, and the emotions we had, she didn't gave me a clear answer such as yes or no, but more something that sound like a "not yet" or "I'm not ready now but offer me a little more time". Nowadays, we both agreed to give each other a little time without talking to "clear" our feelings and make up our minds before talking seriously about it. So, who knows......?

Injamul Haque Molla

1y↑1

I think there is nothing wrong with telling someone you have a crush on them.

Elisabeth J.V. Beardsell

46w

Friendship and love are connected!❤

Yes

2y↑9

This is really what i needed. Me and my (girl) best friend were discussing about this just a while ago, that maybe our bond is something more than friendship since we care so much about each other. As for me, i had liked her ever since we became friends, but now i think she also likes me back, or at least she thinks so.
Thats why im going to send this vid to her rn, thanks ! :)

Mariz Calma

My partner and her friend 💔

LaSirenaVarada

2y↑18

Getting married with your best friend is great, and more if he's the love of your life too... ❤️❤️

SiimplyGabi #takingabreakmightbequitting

2y↑38

U guys seriously deserve so many more subs! Y’all are so smart to figure this stuff out! This has really helped me throughout life. Have the best, safest christmas ever!

多田野飴 Just a Candy

48w

I’m here because I’m aro and want to understand why some/most people draw a line between best friend and romantic partner. In my POV, anyone who has chemistry with someone else of the gender they’re attracted to can just date and maybe spend the rest of their lives together. However, this helps me understand that people can enjoy the company of a person while not really feeling like wanting more intimacy with them.

No1zzle

2y↑81

I need a video on how to tell a love avoidant loves you because they fear intimacy and won’t directly do the obvious things like touch and flirt or give compliments. Thanks!

Anissa Yogasara

Me too!!! Psych2Go needs to make this! ✨❤️

Her_Majesty_Gaming

Yessss I wanna know about avoidant too

Sailor Saturn

that was done already

CyberneticSquid

2y↑70

What would you advise for someone who thinks they might be attracted to someone, and knows that someone is attracted to them, but doesn't think they're capable of handling a romantic relationship?

A.O.T Jahad

2y↑2

I'm in the same situation

SenaSong212

2y↑22

I’d say figure out why you feel you aren’t ready for a relationship. Make a specific list and see if the things on the list just come down to fear, or if there are real things that you still need to work through before a relationship. Once you do that write down the reasons you’d want a relationship with that specific person, and see if it’s worth taking that leap. I personally didn’t feel fully ready for a relationship, but I’m so glad I decided to move past that fear. Just figuring out the reasons behind your feelings can be very helpful. Hope everything goes well!

Jamie Law

2y↑11

Accept that attraction is a normal feeling and is not the only criterion for a potential life-partner. In all parts of life, everyone will feel attraction to other people. We can find others attractive, even when we're in a loving, romantic, and commited relationship with an attractive partner. (Healthy couples acknowledge this). That's because there are so many different traits that make up a healthy & romantic relationship. Attraction is just one small piece of it, but does not stand alone in warranting a relationship. For your situation, it's totally cool to acknowledge your attraction for eachother and admire and flirt – at least until the other necessary traits develop. If done with mutual respect and with clear boundaries, flirting can be sustained and not hurt anyone's feelings. If and when it comes to a need for a decision, i.e all the necessary pieces arrive, have open conversation.

CyberneticSquid

Thanks to the both of you for your advice :)

Alexia Francalanza

2y↑6

same here. i opened up about it with them just one week ago. he’s attracted to me too but he is not ready and not even god knows when he will be. his ex was a mad manipulative abuser and he’s got big ass trauma for it.
it’s complicated bc he gets high paranoia for the slightest stuff, he’s mad scared of losing me, it’s been 9 months of us hanging out everyday. but he said that the first step into a relationship would also be the first into loosing each other.

so A, i don’t think anymore this is the right timeline, one of the many realities where we’re allowed to be lovers.
but i swear on my life you will never ever lose me. your value as a friend is huge, i refuse to not be happy with that only bc “i want more xdxd”

sorry guys for the oversharing but i just needed to do that

Angela Khalil

2y↑15

Lately I've been feeling so attached and affectionate towards my bestfriend, it sucks since I know he doesn't feel the same and I am overly emotional about everything. If he sits with my sister, I get jealous, if he doesn't text back immediately I get sad.
It is not as easy as it looks like, friendship turned into love when you both know you can't be together...
I honestly feel so sad lately, so angry and I wish all these feelings can go and we can go back being careless friends and soulmates.

Michael Statilko

2y↑2

I relate to 3 and 8 A LOT!!

Park Mani

2y↑34

Some Friends are more than Love❤️

Phil Rei

2y↑3

Exactly, I see I'm not alone

vang-tou Lee

Yes they are. but it wouldn't hurt to actually be in love though.

Red Moon Gaming

50w

I can say for sure some of this signs are relatable, and actually how I ended up finding out that the person I usually hang out with, actually liked me, starting off as friends who were in the same arma 3 discord server, ended up confessing similar feelings to each other

Gar Misra

2y↑3

I've been in love with my close friend. i wouldn't say she was my best friend. I wanted things to move further but didn't force the issue, because she was dealing with a lot of stuff. it took me long time to get over. But the only thing that was missing was the spark of attraction, because she wanted someone more assertive and confident who would make the move, and I had missed my chance because I was getting over someone else at that time too.
One of my big regrets, but our lives have turned very different directions since then.

Gold Medalist P.U. Official

1y↑2

Friendship can't be defined by any boundaries...

Ethan Mastercrafter

2y↑3

I've had a hard time questioning my feelings... in terms of love, even at one point got it mixed being romance and just love for a very close friend... it be confusing times for me

gamer game play

2y↑55

Everything you just said is exactly what is happening to me right now but I'm not giving up though I'm trying my best to go slowly you know I don't know exactly everything I'm not the smartest I might be saying this wrong but I don't know but this actually is 100% amazing I love this channel

ᥲꫀt𝗵ꫀɾ𝗂𝗎𝗆

2y↑36

I’ve been friends with my s/o and I would always talk about her constantly. Only then she confessed to me three months ago. I realized almost all of this applies beforehand and still does-

vang-tou Lee

2y↑7

Awwww so cute. I would honestly think I died and went to heaven if someone i liked confessed to me.

ᥲꫀt𝗵ꫀɾ𝗂𝗎𝗆

2y↑2

@vang-tou Lee awwhe ! Well I hope you’ll find them someday ! (๑´`๑)

JustAlpha

2y↑1

I wish you two a happy life! Don't take this for granted and keep working/maintaining this! :)

Stephanie Darling

2y↑1

I think this is exactly how love needs to be at least for me

STVNIX

2y↑16

Thank you, Psych2Go, for still giving me hope.

chandrani roy

2y↑15

C Sch

2y↑2

You shouldn't surpress your feelings
I had it happen too
I regret not giving in to a lady who wanted me when I wanted her too
It's the single thing I really regret in my life

meii

2y↑9

"Better to have an enemy than a fake lover."

☝️FreddieStone☝️

After 30yrs of friendship, my bestie til this day still makes me blush. I am so madly in love with her but don't know how to approach her about my feelings, I'm pretty sure she can see it right through me lol!😌💙

iwivera

2y↑1

30 years? I am doing this for 12 years only and at this point I wonder if it isn'i too late to confess.

Lady Sabe

2y↑10

Remember, love yourself before loving somebody else. ❤️ & you're worth it !

Viku Swavy

2y↑1

I've thought of lots of pairs of topics to put a spectrum & slider in between to ponder on, but I never thought that the pair could be love and friendship. Something in my mind declares this impossible. I guess it's my socialization & the "friends" vs. "dating" thing I learned growing up American. Now that you pointed this out to me, I feel like it's some really good knowledge, particularly that the slider can be far on one end or the other with these two topics puts a lot of things into perspective for me. I feel like I've been informed of something I've been wondering about for years and years since I was a kid. Thank you!

Niko Miyamina

2y↑3

Me and my friend finish each other's sentences, say the exact same thing, and often hold hands, but we remain friends because we understand that it wouldn't work out between us

PYROLORD6

2y↑6

These videos always pop up when I need them the most, thank you.

Psych2Go

2y↑1

Glad you like them! Do any of these points apply to you?

floatingyunsan

Well I mean, here is the thing though, sometimes one realises that actually even if one does get jealous of their partner that if you love them as long as their happy that's all that matters ❤️

Eyerys Ember

I'd like to see one of these about ethical nonmonogamy in regards to having an intimate friendship but feeling like you are falling in love

Wendy Chavez

2y↑3

My partner started out as a very good friend. He was in process of breaking up with someone for the second time when we met, but we clicked so profoundly and became good friends--mostly online. Several years later, I invited him to a company karaoke night that he accepted, and clicked perfectly again. At that time he was breaking up with the same lady for the third time, so our friendship had its limits, but we've been getting closer every day since. After 6 months I realized that I was basically living at his place, so we talked about it and became officially a couple, and 5 years later are still deepening our connection every day.

Belana Restuccio

2y↑2

As a bisexual middle school girl it’s hard to like anyone. Especially girls. They don’t know their sexuality yet or if they do, they most likely don’t like you or your relationship wouldn’t work. I’m too young to start a relationship but I’m too mature to not do anything about my feelings. I want to do something subtle but I feel as though we’ll spend the rest of middle school and highschool together whether or not we have a romantic relationship or not. Our parents are old ish friends and they are pretty good. If anyone has any advice at all, please inform me.

Killian Whipp

2y↑4

This is very helpful and I love watching your videos my ex has been showing some of these signs so thanks for your helpful tips

Vfx Star

1y↑53

Don't laugh but when I look into her eyes it's like I can see her soul and just like her, It's beautiful

B.S.

1y↑19

That actually sound really sweet dude, I hope she likes you back

I. L.

1y↑1

We won't laugh man, we won't. Hope you both will be happy

Nina *

51w

Did u got together?

raidenzg0releakz

2y↑1

Saurabh Lanjewar

1y↑1

I think I have a crush on a girl who is British, and I'm basically an Indian. So, there's a bit of cultural difference.
5 months back, I met her for the 1st time when I was on train journey, I chatted her randomly, and eventually she gave her number, after which we usually chat on social media. Her chats are a bit cute to my liking. She usually ends her messages with 'xxx' and 'xx'. I have tried to meet her casually a couple of times(not as a date), just to get to know her better. But she just liked my message and didn't reply, and till now I haven't been able to meet her after the 1st random meeting.
I'm a bit confused, whether I should pursue her further.
If anyone could help or guide me on this, I would be extremely grateful.

Thanks!

Ιωάννης Βογιατζής

One side of love is friendship

Rose

2y↑18

I hope to find a love like this. Friends first then love.

Manboss52 Gaming

2y↑2

same i have my fingers completely crossed

Rose

Same.

AtuN PaNdA

All of this 8 sign was my own sign but its not easy for the other side to accept our feelings to them :') if they are, you are lucky enough, goodluck 💪🏻🔥

Achilles

47w

Last couple weeks I confessed feelings to my friend I said im ok with being friends but I want something more with her if she is available in the future she said thank you and it was prob the best thing to strengthen our friendship

Anime_theatre_lover4321

1y↑1

My friend admitted on Valentine’s Day that he had a crush on me. I saw it coming since he would hang with me more than anyone else outside my theatre (I don’t have school friends because I’m homeschooled) but I told him that I thought of him as a best friend and that’s what we’ve been ever since

Kai The Angry Pomeranian

2y↑1

"We are just friends!! It's not funny!!" - Me and my best friend as we unknowingly fell for each other over the span of 6+ months

thai

2y↑2

Psych2go always getting it right 🥺💝💘💗

rainy. days ☂️

1y↑10

I literally match up with all of these signs 😂😂

Insert Something Original

I think point 3 and 4 aren't completely correct, as I personally find myself doing these two with my three closest friends. I personally need deep intimate conversations with my friends to feel connected and spending time with them means the world to me, but I guess it depends on what needs you have too

Jeremiah Glogg

2y↑1

This past August, I met a girl who showed all 8 signs listed in the video. It was only natural that I reciprocated these feelings. Only to find out she was only using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous. It crushed me both psychologically and emotionally because she would've been my first girlfriend (I'm 25). Now I don't really want to date anyone. I have no desire to. Not now at least.

Versa Holubec

That's what I needed 😌 🙌 🙏 praying for.

A Geves

The character designs in this one are so cuuute! Lovely videos as always <3

just a little fliying bug

2y↑4

When i feel bad and lonely, i always think abt the person i like, and having a future with them! I make pretty unrealistic ideas in my mind, but the thing is that Psych2go tells me that everything is working haha (the person i like is one of my friends lol)

Daddy Raksa

2y↑4

It's so hard when you and her complete eachother so much. I'm head over heels for her and since she's in a relationship (a toxic one) I don't confess my feelings because I'd rather be friends than confessing and getting separated. But I she's the one for me. I haven't felt this about any other human being during my almost 25 years on this planet. It's just heartbreaking tbh.

Ricardo Rivadeneira Muñoz

2y↑1

Me not just crushing but in love with my crush confirming all the signs ♥️

Neon_Nyan

2y↑9

Idk why but whenever I have a crush on someone I watch these vids and see if anything applies to our friendship lol

Caurbine

Romantic chemistry and emotional depth are two different things. You can have a deep connection but no chemistry

Kelley Popkowski

2y↑4

I think its a weird balance. Love comes out of building a friendship. I have men that are JUST my friends. I love them as they are..but I wouldnt touch them with a 5 foot pole(in a sexual manner or think of them in THAT way.) Opening your heart to someone emotionally and physically IS love. Feeling jealous is also love,but how 1 manages the jealousy is important. You always want the best for them and it can turn creepy/controlling fast.

BelgianWaffle butknot Belgian

2y↑51

Is there a way you guys could do "it's not love but friendship" feel like that would help me and alot of people.

Thank you and merry Christmas <3

C Sch

2y↑1

It's already somewhere on the channel

Han H

24w

I loved the small animation at the ending! So cute, it made me happy

Madhumitha M

The hardest part is you are in a relationship with someone and you realize suddenly that you are in love with your best friend.

Sujit gaming

2y↑1

I do every and every single point of it ❤️❤️😀

leahtheshowchoircrackhead

the fact that all of these are true for me and my friend and we acknowledged we have feelings for each other but agreed to stay friends :(

Aq ua

1y↑1

It’s tricky when you know they also have that deep emotional connection with you and have a soft spot towards you as well but you don’t know if they wonder if they like you. It’s odd cuz we’re both just friends but at the same time we feel very safe around each other. He likes someone else and I’ve found other guys cute and I see them as potential partners but ion entertain the idea since I just got out of a long term relationship. Idk man feelings are confusing

Spiritual Health

2y↑18

Love has the power to heal the body, mind and the soul🙏🌺🌿

Matheus

2y↑5

That explains why i am sick af

しゅにシュニ

2y↑1

@Matheus I appreciate this comment so much. Merry christmas BTW!🎅🎄🎁🥛🍪🦌

keiron.

2y↑3

It does if you can actually feel loved Lol

Matheus

2y↑3

@しゅにシュニ you Shouldn't. That was not a positive message

しゅにシュニ

2y↑4

@Matheus Correct, but it felt honest and i related to it. Helped me not feel so alone. That's why i appreciate it man.

Nathalie Lazo

2y↑79

Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️

MarioMaster 101 😊

2y↑1

Thanks

sandwich3,000

2y↑1

aww thats so sweet you too!

Tim BM

2y↑1

Thanks, now I am crying...

The Celesteial

2y↑1

Or the person reading this doesn't care what others think due to the lack of the ability to and doesn't care about success, instead caring about survival