Dad
K's Choice Lyrics


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I was a kid you were my dad
I didn't always understand
I wanted freedom you got mad
You were concerned I got upset

I didn't recognize you yet
And did you cry I know I did
When I lied to you
I didn't want to hurt you

I just never knew I did
You never told me that you loved me
I know you didn't know how
I guess that shows we're much the same

'Cause I love you too and until now
I've never said those words out loud
I hope you're proud
To be my dad

What are your secrets, do you pray
Is there a god that shows your way
I wish I knew
Do you have crazy fantasies

What happens in your dreams
I want to know
I guess you'll always be a mystery to me
But you taught me how to value life





And what else do I need
I have a dad who watches over me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Dad" by K's Choice explore the complicated relationship between a child and their father. The singer is reflecting on their experiences growing up, and how they didn't always understand their father's actions. There was always a tension between the singer's desire for freedom and their father's concern for their safety. This caused conflict between them, with the singer getting upset when their father tried to impose rules and limits.


However, as the singer grows older they begin to see their father in a new light. They recognize that he was just trying to protect them and keep them safe. They also acknowledge that they didn't always appreciate him as much as they should have. The line "I didn't recognize you yet" suggests that the singer is now able to see their father as a complex individual with his own fears, hopes, and struggles. They are able to look back on their childhood with greater understanding and empathy, even though there were times when they didn't get along.


Despite the challenges they faced, the singer still loves their father deeply. The final lines of the song express gratitude for having a dad who watches over them, and a hope that their father can be proud of them. Overall, the song is a heartfelt tribute to the complicated, emotional, and ultimately enduring bond between a child and their father.


Line by Line Meaning

I was a kid you were my dad
The singer is reflecting on the past when they were a child and their father was in their life.


I didn't always understand
The singer acknowledges that they had difficulty understanding their dad's perspective and actions when they were younger.


I wanted freedom you got mad
The singer wanted more independence while their father was concerned for their safety and well-being.


You were concerned I got upset
The father's concern caused the artist to react with frustration and anger.


I didn't recognize you yet
The artist did not fully understand or appreciate their father's presence and influence in their life at the time.


And did you cry I know I did
Both the singer and their father experienced emotional distress during their interactions and disagreements.


When I lied to you
The singer acknowledges that they were not always honest with their father in the past.


I didn't want to hurt you
Although the artist lied, they did not intend to cause harm to their father.


I just never knew I did
The artist realizes that their actions could have been hurtful, even if they did not intend them to be.


You never told me that you loved me
The artist recognizes that their father did not express love and affection in a way that they could understand or appreciate.


I know you didn't know how
The singer acknowledges that their father may not have known how to express his love or emotions.


I guess that shows we're much the same
The artist realizes that they and their father are similar in their struggles with communication and expressing emotions.


'Cause I love you too and until now
The singer admits that they have not always been able to express their love for their father, but are doing so now.


I've never said those words out loud
The singer has not verbally expressed their love for their father in the past.


I hope you're proud
The singer expresses their desire for their father to be proud of them and their accomplishments.


To be my dad
The artist acknowledges and appreciates the important role that their father has played in their life.


What are your secrets, do you pray
The artist wonders about their father's personal thoughts and beliefs, including whether or not he prays.


Is there a god that shows your way
The singer questions their father's religious beliefs and whether or not they have guided his life.


I wish I knew
The singer expresses a desire to understand their father on a deeper level.


Do you have crazy fantasies
The artist wonders about their father's imagination and whether or not he has wild or unconventional thoughts.


What happens in your dreams
The artist is curious about their father's subconscious thoughts and experiences.


I want to know
The artist expresses their desire to connect with their father on a deeper level and understand him more fully.


I guess you'll always be a mystery to me
Despite their curiosity, the singer acknowledges that their father may always be somewhat of an enigma to them.


But you taught me how to value life
The artist recognizes and appreciates their father's influence in teaching them the importance of valuing and cherishing life.


And what else do I need
The singer acknowledges that their father's lessons and influence are the most valuable things they could have received.


I have a dad who watches over me
The singer expresses gratitude for having a father who cares for and protects them.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GERT BETTENS, SARAH BETTENS

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Comments from YouTube:

Stephan Vredeveldt

This song means a lot to me. I'm a 45 year old schizophrenic and my dad still is taking care of me in any way he can. Love him to death.

Simon Hulsebos

lost my father in a car accident, this song was played on the funural. i cry every time i hear this song...

Philip Van der Veken

+ไซมอน กลับเนื้อกลับตัว I know all too well what you mean and how you feel. I've lost my father 14 years ago because of cancer, when I was 23. Had to say a few words on his funeral, but wasn't able to, so just had this song played to express my feelings and tell something about our bond. Even now, just like you, I can't listen to it without crying.

Hara H.

K's choice is such a great band,i still listen to their songs.Its the first time tho that I am listening to this song.

Karlien Haelterman

Thx, Sam! Mijn vader stierf in november. Kort ervoor heb ik hem dit lied gestuurd. Het bracht ons dichter bij elkaar. <3

blondieSpicy

Wow.. Beautiful !

Dol

my dad is why im all upset and depressed

Terry Goard

I miss him

John Smeltzer

I love you😍

Wendy Testaburger

💙