How Many Times
K-Ci & JoJo Lyrics


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How many times you're gonna let him use you
You'd think that you would know by now
How could you let him treat you so bad
How many times will you let him break your heart
I heard he lied to you
I heard your love he abused
Don't say it isn't so
I see it in your eyes
It's something you can't hide
How many times you gonna let him use you
You'd think that you would know by now
How could you let him treat you so bad
How many times will you, let him break your heart
He gives you lonely nights
And he can hear you cry
And love you he denies
He's never gonna change
He just can't accept the blame
How many times you gonna let him use you
You'd think that you would know by now
How could you let him treat you so bad
How many times will you, let him break your heart
Girl dry your eyes
Get up off your face
Don't be ashamed. find someone else new
Someone who'll appreciate you
Always love you
How many times you gonna let him use you
You'd think that you would know by now




How could you let him treat you so bad
How many times will you, let him break your heart

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to K-Ci & JoJo's "How Many Times" offer a poignant message about a woman who is repeatedly mistreated by her partner but cannot seem to break away from him. The song's opening line, "How many times you're gonna let him use you," sets the tone for the rest of the song. The songwriters are encouraging this woman to wake up and recognize that she deserves better treatment, and that her partner will continue to mistreat her as long as she allows it.


The lyrics then ask a series of rhetorical questions that highlight the woman's confusion and inability to leave her partner. The singer wonders how she can let her partner "treat you so bad," and "break your heart" repeatedly. The lyrics also suggest that the woman's partner is cheating on her, which is something she may know but refuses to accept.


The song's chorus repeats the question of "how many times" she will allow her partner to hurt her before she decides to leave. The final verse offers some hope, as the singer encourages the woman to "get up off your face" and find someone new who will appreciate and always love her.


Overall, the song is a powerful message of empowerment for anyone who is in an abusive or toxic relationship. It encourages individuals to recognize their self-worth and make the difficult decision to leave a situation that is harmful to their well-being.


Line by Line Meaning

How many times you're gonna let him use you
The singer questions how many times the listener will allow themselves to be taken advantage of by their partner.


You'd think that you would know by now
The singer believes that the listener should have learned from past experiences and not allow their partner to continue treating them poorly.


How could you let him treat you so bad
The singer questions how the listener could allow their partner to mistreat them in such a way.


How many times will you let him break your heart
The singer wants to know how many times the listener will allow their partner to hurt them emotionally.


I heard he lied to you
The singer has heard that the listener's partner has been dishonest with them.


I heard your love he abused
The singer has heard that the listener's partner has mistreated their love for them.


Don't say it isn't so
The singer wants the listener to accept the truth about their partner's behavior towards them.


I see it in your eyes
The singer can tell from the listener's expression that they are going through a difficult time.


It's something you can't hide
The singer believes that the listener's pain is visible and cannot be concealed.


He gives you lonely nights
The listener's partner causes them to feel lonely at night.


And he can hear you cry
The listener's partner is aware of the emotional pain they are causing them.


And love you he denies
The listener's partner is not reciprocating their love for them.


He's never gonna change
The singer believes that the listener's partner will not change their ways.


He just can't accept the blame
The singer feels that the listener's partner is not taking responsibility for their actions and behaviors.


Girl dry your eyes
The singer is encouraging the listener to stop crying and be strong.


Get up off your face
The singer wants the listener to pick themselves up and move forward in their life.


Don't be ashamed. find someone else new
The singer is reassuring the listener that they should not feel ashamed and should try to find a new, better partner.


Someone who'll appreciate you
The singer wants the listener to find someone who will value and appreciate them.


Always love you
The singer hopes that the listener will find someone who will always love and cherish them.




Lyrics Β© BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: KENNETH EDMONDS, EMANUEL OFFICER, JORGE CORANTE

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Comments from YouTube:

Mehrunissah93

The emotions in the vocals are spectacular. 😍

lovinkels

This song has been playing over and over in my head. I am dying for another K-ci and Jojo album. Come on guys!

TheColtonBoyd

I love this music in general. These guys are incredible.

Miss Tre

I listened to this album religiously when it came out. I love this song so much. Makes me a hypocrite for the situation I've found myself in πŸ˜”

Marinda Johnson

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William Morrow

Man these two brothers can sing their asses of they compliment each other very well! Now this is love music!:)

Chidi Okadigbo

I love this song, a good song for a lady who is going through emotional stress, ladies know your worth

MultiDamages

Man this is surely a cut from throwback!!! I used to cry & sing this all the time!!! A true love song & sad too...... GoneΒ K-CI & JOJO y'all did the thang on this one!

MOON GODDESS

I love this song!!

Andrea Kellum

God knows this song helped me get through so many dark days...

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