Love 'Em All
K. Michelle Lyrics

Heart beats, but I don't feel
I am emotionally detached and do not feel any real connection with the men I am seeing.

I touch, but it ain't real
I engage physically with the men I am seeing, but it does not hold any true meaning for me.

They say I move too fast
Others judge me for the speed at which I move from one man to another.

Going man to man
I am constantly dating and seeing different men, rarely sticking with one for long.

Always holding a new hand
I am always in a new relationship, rarely staying with one man for longer than a short period of time.

Why can't they understand
I wish others could see my perspective and understand why I date the way I do.

Sex is irrelevant
Physical intimacy with these men means nothing to me and is just a game.

Just a game in my head,
I view physical intimacy with men as a game in my mind, something to pass the time.

I'm playing and I'm winning
I feel like I am in control of my dating life and 'winning' by not getting attached to any one man.

Oh I broke another heart today
I ended a relationship and hurt another man's feelings today.

Oh and I didn't care I just walked away
I am emotionally detached and did not feel remorse or sadness about ending the relationship.

'Cause they think I love 'em
The men I date believe I am invested in our relationship and feel true love for them.

But I love 'em all, love 'em all ye-yeah
In reality, I do not feel true love for any of the men I date and am just going through the motions.

I need another one to get over the other one
I quickly move on to another relationship to distract myself from the one I just ended.

They all wait for my call
The men I date wait for me to initiate plans and communication with them.

They all want me to fall
The men I date want me to fall in love with them and become invested in our relationship.

All these men, they're a mess
The many men I see are emotionally unstable because of my detachment and lack of true investment in our relationship.

Want me like the rest
Men continue to date me, hoping that I will be different than my previous relationships and become truly invested.

I'm continuing not giving my best
I am not putting forth the effort required to make a real emotional investment and connection with the men I date.

Maybe one day I'll settle down
At some point in the future, I may decide to stop playing the dating game and commit to one man.

But for now
At this moment, I am content with my current lifestyle and have no plans to change it.

I'll just play around
For now, I will continue to date around and have fun with the men I am seeing.

And I'll make them feel good
I will continue to engage with the men I date physically to make them feel wanted and desired.

That's how I get 'em
I lure men in with physical attraction and the promise of a relationship, but do not actually invest emotionally.

Making all feel special
I make the men I date feel important and desired to keep them interested in continuing to see me.

Then I'll forget 'em
Regardless of the connection I have built with the men I date, I will quickly forget them when our relationship ends.

So I won't hurt
I detach myself emotionally from the men I date to avoid getting hurt when the relationship ends or to avoid hurting them myself.

I keep a lot of them
I continue to see multiple men at the same time, never fully investing in any one relationship.