I Wanna Know
Kandi Lyrics


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If you got kids back home, I want to know
If you don't, I want to know
If you're straight or you ain't, I want to know
If you're broke, I want to know
I want to know, I want to know, I want to know
I want to know, I want to know, I want to know

If you want to be with me, I gotta know
What you doin', where you goin', what you havin'
Who you love, who you like, who you're seein'
Before I let you in
'Cause I learned from my past, oh yes I did
Met a guy that I liked, he was my type
But he lied 'bout his wife
And he tried to play me, play me

(Now all alone, was he gone)
Way before he told me 'bout that
I can't believe he did me like that
Something I shoulda known, oh yeah
(But I've learned my lesson)
Not again will I be naive
I need to know the secrets y'all keep
'Cause what I don't know could come back on me

If you got kids back home, I want to know
If you don't, I want to know
If you're straight or you ain't, I want to know
If you're broke, I want to know
I want to know, I want to know, I want to know
I want to know, I want to know, I want to know

If you want to fall in love, gotta be aware
'Bout the life that your lover's been leadin'
So you know if you're gonna be schemin'
Or if she gonna dog you out
'Cause I know I've had my share, oh yes I did
Did me wrong, stayin' at some woman's place
I'm scared he was not a closet case
Still was cheatin' but not that way

(Now all alone, was he gone)
Way before he told me 'bout that
I can't believe he did me like that
Something I shoulda known, oh yeah
(But I've learned my lesson)
Not again will I be naive
I need to know the secrets y'all keep
'Cause what I don't know could come back on me

If you got kids back home, I want to know
If you don't, I want to know
If you're straight or you ain't, I want to know
If you're broke, I want to know
I want to know, I want to know, I want to know
I want to know, I want to know, I want to know

Ladies, oh ladies
Gotta know the partners he's had
So later on, you won't be mad
Findin' out what you don't know
And fellas, oh fellas
Check for that Adam's Apple
So you won't be on no talk show
Findin' out what you don't know

If you got kids back home, I want to know
If you don't, I want to know
If you're straight or you ain't, I want to know
If you're broke, I want to know




I want to know, I want to know, I want to know
I want to know, I want to know, I want to know

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Kandi's song "I Wanna Know" highlights the importance of honesty and transparency in relationships. Kandi emphasizes the need for her partner to reveal all facts about his life to her before she accepts him into her life. She asks for information such as if he has kids, if he is straight, if he is financially stable, and warns about the consequences of not being open about one's life. Kandi speaks from personal experience, having had a partner who withheld information from her that caused pain and heartbreak.


Kandi's "I Wanna Know" is a cautionary tale about the importance of knowing who you are getting into a relationship with. It reminds us that honesty is key to a healthy relationship, and that withholding information can have terrible consequences. The song implies that it is better to be single and honest about your life than to be in a relationship built on deception.


Line by Line Meaning

If you got kids back home, I want to know
I need to know if you have any children living at home


If you don't, I want to know
I need to know if you do not have any children living at home


If you're straight or you ain't, I want to know
I need to know if you are heterosexual, homosexual, or another sexual orientation


If you're broke, I want to know
I need to know if you are financially struggling


I want to know, I want to know, I want to know
I am stressing the importance of knowing these things before pursuing a relationship


If you want to be with me, I gotta know
Before we can be together, I need to have this information


What you doin', where you goin', what you havin'
I need to know what you are doing, where you are going, and what you are having in terms of experiences and pleasures


Who you love, who you like, who you're seein'
I need to know who you love, who you like, and who you are seeing romantically or sexually


Before I let you in
I cannot allow you into my life or heart until I have this information


'Cause I learned from my past, oh yes I did
I have had negative experiences in the past that have taught me the importance of knowing these things


Met a guy that I liked, he was my type
I once met a man who I was attracted to and interested in


But he lied 'bout his wife
However, he lied to me about being married


And he tried to play me, play me
He attempted to deceive and manipulate me


(Now all alone, was he gone)
I am now alone and he is no longer in my life


Way before he told me 'bout that
I learned about his dishonesty long after he had already left me


I can't believe he did me like that
I am shocked and hurt that he treated me in such a way


Something I shoulda known, oh yeah
I realize now that I should have been more cautious and aware of his behaviors


(But I've learned my lesson)
I have learned from this experience and will not let it happen again


Not again will I be naive
I will not be gullible or easily deceived in the future


I need to know the secrets y'all keep
I am aware that people often keep secrets and I want to know them before becoming involved with them


Ladies, oh ladies
This message is particularly directed towards women


Gotta know the partners he's had
It is important to know who your partner has been with in the past


So later on, you won't be mad
This information can prevent future surprises or disappointments


Findin' out what you don't know
Discovering unknown information in a relationship can often be painful or difficult


And fellas, oh fellas
This message is also directed towards men


Check for that Adam's Apple
A humorous reference to checking if a potential partner is actually male


So you won't be on no talk show
So you won't be humiliated or embarrassed on a television show like the Jerry Springer show




Lyrics Β© BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: KANDI L BURRUSS, KEVIN JEROME BRIGGS

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