Real Friends
Kanye West (feat. Ty Dolla Sign) Lyrics


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Real friends, how many of us?
How many of us, how many jealous? Real friends
It's not many of us, we smile at each other
But how many honest? Trust issues
Switched up the number, I can't be bothered
I cannot blame you for havin' an angle
I ain't got no issues, I'm just doin' my thing
Hope you're doin' your thing too
I'm a deadbeat cousin, I hate family reunions
Fuck the church up, I'm drinkin' at the communion
Spillin' free wine, now my tux is ruined
In town for a day, what the fuck we doin'?
Who your real friends? We all came from the bottom
I'm always blamin' you, but what's sad, you're not the problem
Damn I forgot to call her, shit I thought it was Thursday
Why you wait a week to call my phone in the first place?
When was the last time I remembered a birthday?
When was the last time I wasn't in a hurry?

Tell me you want your tickets when it's gametime
Even to call your daughter on her FaceTime
Even when we was young I used to make time
Now we be way too busy just to make time
Even for my

Real friends
I guess I get what I deserve, don't I?
Word on the streets is they ain't heard from him
I guess I get what I deserve, don't I?
Talked down on my name, throwed dirt on him

I couldn't tell you how old your daughter was
Couldn't tell you how old your son is
I got my own Jr. on the way, dawg
Plus I already got one kid
Couldn't tell you much about the fam though
I just showed up for the yams though
Maybe 15 minutes, took some pictures with your sister
Merry Christmas, then I'm finished, then it's back to business
You wanna ask some questions 'bout some real shit?
Like I ain't got enough pressure to deal with
Please don't pressure me with that bill shit
Cause everybody got 'em, that ain't children
Oh you've been nothin' but a friend to me
Niggas thinkin' I'm crazy, you defendin' me
It's funny I ain't spoke to niggas in centuries
To be honest, dawg I ain't feelin' your energy
Money turn your kin into an enemy
Niggas ain't real as they pretend to be

Lookin' for all my real friends
How many of us? How many of us are real friends
To real friends, to the real end
'Til the wheels fall off, 'til the wheels don't spin
To 3 A.M., callin'
How many real friends?
Just to ask you a question
Just to see how you was feelin'
How many?
For the last you was frontin'
I hate when a nigga text you like, "what's up, fam, oh you good?"
You say, "I'm good" then great, the next text they ask you for somethin'
How many?
What's best for your family, immediate or extended
Any argument, the media'll extend it
I had a cousin that stole my laptop that I was fuckin' bitches on
Paid that nigga 250 thousand just to get it from him
Real friends
Huh?

Real friends
I guess I get what I deserve, don't I
Word on the streets is they ain't heard from him




I guess I get what I deserve, don't I
Talked down on my name, throwed dirt on him

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Real Friends" by Kanye West ft. Kendrick Lamar delve into the difficulties of maintaining true friendships in the fast-paced, success-driven world of the music industry. The song explores the concept of real friendship and questions the motives of those who surround us. The opening lines of the song, "Real friends, how many of us? How many of us, how many jealous?" highlight the difficulty of finding genuine friends who are not jealous of one's success.


The chorus repeats the phrase "I guess I get what I deserve, don't I?" which suggests a feeling of being let down by those who are supposed to be real friends. The verses touch on various issues that come with success, such as trust issues and losing touch with old friends. Kanye expresses his frustration with himself and his friends for not making enough time for each other and getting caught up in superficial conversations.


The line "Money turn your kin into an enemy, niggas ain't real as they pretend to be" further emphasises the idea that money and fame can distort relationships and turn close friends into enemies. The song ends on a note of hopelessness, with Kanye wondering "How many real friends?" and admitting that he is not sure he has any.


Overall, "Real Friends" is a reflection on the emptiness and loneliness that can come with success and the importance of true friendship in one's life.


Line by Line Meaning

Real friends, how many of us?
How many of us can truly call each other real friends?


How many of us, how many jealous? Real friends
There are not many of us who are real friends. We may appear to be happy for each other, but how many of us are honest about our jealousy?


It's not many of us, we smile at each other
We may smile and act friendly, but there are only a few truly close friends among us.


But how many honest? Trust issues
Among those few close friends, how many of them are truly honest and open with each other? Trust is a difficult thing to establish.


Switched up the number, I can't be bothered
I changed my phone number to avoid people that I didn't want to talk to. I can't be bothered to deal with them.


I cannot blame you for havin' an angle
I can understand if you have your own motives or interests in our friendship.


I ain't got no issues, I'm just doin' my thing
I don't have any problems with anyone. I'm just focused on my own goals and priorities.


Hope you're doin' your thing too
I hope that you're also pursuing your own goals and interests.


I'm a deadbeat cousin, I hate family reunions
I'm not a great family member. I don't have a lot of interest in attending family gatherings.


Fuck the church up, I'm drinkin' at the communion
I'm being disrespectful by drinking during communion at church.


Spillin' free wine, now my tux is ruined
I spilled the free wine during communion and now my tuxedo is stained.


In town for a day, what the fuck we doin'?
I'm only here for a short time, why are we wasting it on something pointless or unimportant?


Who your real friends? We all came from the bottom
Who can you truly call your real friends? We all started from humble beginnings.


I'm always blamin' you, but what's sad, you're not the problem
I often place blame on you for things that aren't your fault. It's sad that I can't see that you're not the real problem.


Damn I forgot to call her, shit I thought it was Thursday
I forgot to call someone and I was confused about what day it was.


Why you wait a week to call my phone in the first place?
Why did you wait so long to call me?


When was the last time I remembered a birthday?
I can't remember the last time I actually remembered someone's birthday.


When was the last time I wasn't in a hurry?
I can't remember the last time I wasn't in a rush or hurry.


Tell me you want your tickets when it's gametime
Let me know when you want your tickets when the game is about to start.


Even to call your daughter on her FaceTime
I should make an effort to call your daughter on FaceTime to stay in touch.


Even when we was young I used to make time
Even when we were young, I made an effort to spend time with you.


Now we be way too busy just to make time
Now we're too busy to make time for each other.


For the last you was frontin'
The last time we talked, you were acting fake or insincere.


I hate when a nigga text you like, "what's up, fam, oh you good?"
I dislike when someone texts me with a casual greeting and then asks for something.


You say, "I'm good" then great, the next text they ask you for somethin'
You say that you're doing fine, but then they ask for a favor in the next text message.


What's best for your family, immediate or extended
When making decisions, should you prioritize your immediate family or extended family?


Any argument, the media'll extend it
Any disagreement or conflict can easily be blown up or exaggerated by the media.


I had a cousin that stole my laptop that I was fuckin' bitches on
My cousin stole my laptop that I used to sleep with multiple partners on.


Paid that nigga 250 thousand just to get it from him
I paid my cousin a quarter of a million dollars just to retrieve my laptop from him.


It's funny I ain't spoke to niggas in centuries
It's strange and amusing that I haven't talked to some people in a very long time.


To be honest, dawg I ain't feelin' your energy
To be honest, I'm not feeling positive or good vibes from you.


Money turn your kin into an enemy
Money can cause your own family members to become your enemies.


Niggas ain't real as they pretend to be
People are often fake or insincere, despite how they might act.


Lookin' for all my real friends
I'm searching for all of my true and genuine friends.


To real friends, to the real end
Here's to my true and loyal friends, until the very end.


'Til the wheels fall off, 'til the wheels don't spin
I'll be friends with you until our lives or friendship comes to an end.


How many real friends?
How many of my friends are truly genuine and loyal?


Just to ask you a question
I'll call you just to ask a simple question and check on you.


Just to see how you was feelin'
I'll call to see how you're doing and feeling.


Talked down on my name, throwed dirt on him
People have been speaking negatively about me and spreading lies or rumors.


I guess I get what I deserve, don't I?
I suppose I am experiencing negative consequences for my own actions or behavior.


Word on the streets is they ain't heard from him
People are saying that they haven't heard from me in a while.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: KANYE WEST, MICHAEL DEAN

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