Love Is
Kate & Anna McGarrigle Lyrics


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It can be really difficult to change
It usually feels very hard and strange
Sometimes you just, have to take a chance
And plow forward without a backward glance
But this is not a love song
Even though we've known each other for so long
We've both been hurt before
We've watched someone walk right out the door
No, this not a love song
Because that would just feel so wrong
I'd have to admit it's true
That maybe, I love you.
It's scary to give someone else your trust
All those feelings are very hard to adjust to
It's almost like jumping off a cliff
Just have to put your trust into "what if?"
But this is not a love song
Even though we've known each other for so long
We've both been hurt before
We've watched someone walk right out the door
No, this not a love song
Because that would just feel so wrong
I'd have to admit it's true
That maybe, I love you
No, this is not a love song
Even though we've known each other for so long
We've both been hurt before
We've watched someone walk right out the door
No, this not a love song
Because I don't know what to do
Why is it so hard




To say those three words
I love you

Overall Meaning

The song "Love Is" by Kate & Anna McGarrigle is a beautiful ode to the power of love. The lyrics convey a sense of comfort, security and happiness that arise from a conscious, real and deep connection between two people. The opening lines "It feels so good when love is a conscious thing / Less pretentious and real baby" suggest that love is not something that happens by chance, but is something that can be consciously chosen and developed. The use of the word 'pretentious' implies that love cannot be superficial or fake, but must be genuine and honest. The song asks if the listener feels the same way and declares that at the moment, nothing else matters.


The chorus of the song ("Love is alive...") conveys a sense of joy and playfulness that is associated with being in love. The repetition of the phrase "and we look alike" suggests that the two people in the relationship are deeply connected and share a common sense of identity. The lyrics also paint a picture of a carefree and indulgent lifestyle ("Sleep all day and we'll eat in bed / We'll make love until this mood is spent") that is often associated with being in love and having no responsibilities.


The final verse ("And it gets so creepy trying to justify...") subtly alludes to the downside of casual relationships and one night stands. The lyrics suggest that these fleeting encounters are unfulfilling and leave people feeling guilty and alone. The song, therefore, celebrates the depth and intimacy of a long-term committed relationship that is built on love, trust and understanding.


Line by Line Meaning

It feels so good when love is a conscious thing
Love is most fulfilling when both partners are fully aware and present in the relationship.


Less pretentious and real baby
Intimacy and authenticity are more important than superficiality.


Do you feel like I do?
Are we on the same wavelength emotionally and physically?


I know its vague by definition, but whether real or just imagined
Love can be difficult to define, but its existence can be both tangible and intangible.


Honey right now I don't care
The current moment is all that matters, and love is more important than anything else.


So if I change I'll give you a warning
I will communicate changes in myself or our relationship and not leave you in the dark.


Until that time then just be adoring
In the meantime, let's enjoy our relationship without worries or insecurities.


Love is alive, and we look alike
Our love is thriving and apparent in our similarities.


Are we dressed alright, well go out tonight
Let's not worry about appearances and just enjoy the night out together.


Sleep all day and well eat in bed
Our love is so comforting and enjoyable that we want to spend all our time together.


Well make love until this mood is spent
Our physical intimacy is aligned with our emotional connection.


So kick your boots off and leave them by the door
Let's relax and make ourselves at home without worry or formality.


You wont be needing them anymore
Our love is so warm and intimate that we don't need any barriers or distance.


I know you feel like I feel
I understand that our emotions are mutual and equal.


Cause I can fake it or lose it completely
Either we have genuine, deep love, or we don't have it at all.


Whenever your lying beside me
Being next to you is the epitome of love and happiness.


The world outside can go to hell
Our love is so perfect and wonderful that external problems and concerns are insignificant.


And it gets so creepy trying to justify
Attempting to rationalize or explain away superficial relationships feels uncomfortable or unnatural.


One night stands are just too freaky, too bizarre
Casual hookups don't provide enough emotional intimacy or connection for us.


Scattered clothes and a telephone number tattooed to your palm
Reminder of a shallow, meaningless encounter with someone else.


And in the morning you wake up too alone, feeling guilty
The aftermath of a one night stand leaves a sense of loneliness and shame, highlighting the importance of genuine love and connection.


Love is alive
Our love is vibrant and thriving, bringing us great joy and fulfillment.


Dressed alright, well go out tonight
Our appearance isn't as important as our love and relationship.


Sleep all day, and well eat in bed
Being together in the comforts of our own space is the essence of our loving relationship.


Well make love until this mood is spent
Our physical intimacy is emotional and reflects the love and connection we share.




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Written by: Katherin Ivanov

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Harvey Jones

Love Is Lyrics
Love is a shiny car
Love is a steel guitar
Love is a battle scar
Love is a morning song

Love is a twelve-bar blues
Love is your blue suede shoes
Love is a heart abused
Love is a mind confused

And love is the pleasures I'm told
And for some love is still a band of gold
My love has no reason, has no rhyme
My love cross the double line



Love is a mine of gold
Love is a man to hold
Love is a drowning soul
Love is it's own reward

And love is the pleasures I'm told
And for some love is still a band of gold
My love has no reason, has no rhyme
My love cross the double line

And love is the pleasures I'm told
And for some love is still a band of gold
My love has no reason, has no rhyme
My love cross the double line

Oh, my love cross the double line
Oh, my love cross the double line



All comments from YouTube:

Kauan R. M. Klein

Hauntingly beautiful lyrics. Sometimes people just nail it. This is one of those times. "Love is a mental ward, love is a drawn sword, love is its own reward". Apostle Paul himself couldn't have said it better.

Cristiano Santana

Quem veio aqui por conta do Renato Russo dá um joinha.

Valdirene Lima

Linda canção

Jericho50

Brilliant writing, as usual from the national treasures.

Harvey Jones

Love Is Lyrics
Love is a shiny car
Love is a steel guitar
Love is a battle scar
Love is a morning song

Love is a twelve-bar blues
Love is your blue suede shoes
Love is a heart abused
Love is a mind confused

And love is the pleasures I'm told
And for some love is still a band of gold
My love has no reason, has no rhyme
My love cross the double line



Love is a mine of gold
Love is a man to hold
Love is a drowning soul
Love is it's own reward

And love is the pleasures I'm told
And for some love is still a band of gold
My love has no reason, has no rhyme
My love cross the double line

And love is the pleasures I'm told
And for some love is still a band of gold
My love has no reason, has no rhyme
My love cross the double line

Oh, my love cross the double line
Oh, my love cross the double line

Martin Unwin

You've got most of the lyrics about right, with the notable exception of the third verse. The correct lyrics are several shades darker than your rendition of them:

Love is a minor chord
Love is a mental ward
Love is a drawn sword
Love is its own reward

Tracy Weed

So lovely, simple yet a cautionary tale!

The Count Fo Ertwenty%

Loved it so much still do blown away by how great they are

The Count Fo Ertwenty%

Exactly what you would want from the McGarrigle sisters, something so haunting and poignant and haunting

The Count Fo Ertwenty%

Love is my brother Brendan

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