Ball And Chain
Kathy Mattea Lyrics


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I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
You were the one to blame for tearing my world apart
I got a heart so true, you got a heart of ice
A little more love from you, it could have been paradise
I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
And if it's all the same, maybe we should part
You had to tie me down inside a cage of doubt
I'm sick of being kicked around so this is where I get out

I got a ball and chain hanging around my heart
And if it's all the same, maybe we should part
And I'm singing, do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do, yeah
I'm singing, do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do

Oh baby, you tried to hold me but you were slowly
Driving me insane
Oh baby

I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
You were the one to blame for tearing my world apart
I got a heart so true, you got a heart of ice
A little more love from you, it could have been paradise

I couldn't take your pain, you couldn't take my love
So I'm gonna quit this game 'cause baby I've had enough
I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
And if it's all the same, maybe we should part
And I'm singing, do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do, yeah
I'm singing, do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do

I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart





And I'm singing, do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do, yeah
I'm singing, do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do

Overall Meaning

The song Ball and Chain by Kathy Mattea explores the idea of being trapped in a relationship and wanting to break free from it. The "ball and chain" in the lyrics symbolizes the weight and burden of the relationship that the singer can't seem to escape. The song speaks to the pain of being in love with someone who doesn't reciprocate the same level of commitment and love, making the singer feel trapped and helpless.


The lyrics suggest that the relationship has become toxic, with the singer feeling trapped in a "cage of doubt" and being constantly "kicked around". The singer blames the partner for the pain and misery they caused and wants to break free from the relationship before they go insane. The chorus "I'm singing, do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do, yeah" represents the singer finding a way to cope with the pain by singing which is a classic coping mechanism.


Overall, the song Ball and Chain is a poignant representation of a love that has gone sour and turned toxic, leaving the singer feeling trapped and helpless. The lyrics paint a picture of an emotionally abusive relationship and the importance of breaking free from it to preserve one's emotional well-being.


Line by Line Meaning

I got a ball and chain, hanging around my heart
I feel weighed down by emotional burdens because of you


You were the one to blame for tearing my world apart
You were responsible for ruining my life


I got a heart so true, you got a heart of ice
I have a pure heart, but you have a cold and unfeeling one


A little more love from you, it could have been paradise
If you had shown me even a small amount of affection, our relationship could have been perfect


And if it's all the same, maybe we should part
I think it might be best for us to break up


You had to tie me down inside a cage of doubt
You made me feel trapped and insecure in our relationship


I'm sick of being kicked around so this is where I get out
I'm tired of being mistreated, so I'm ending this relationship


I couldn't take your pain, you couldn't take my love
I couldn't handle the emotional turmoil you put me through, and you were unable to accept my feelings for you


So I'm gonna quit this game 'cause baby I've had enough
I'm going to end this relationship because I can't take it anymore




Writer(s): Elton John, Gary Anthony Osborne

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