Who Am I
Katy B Lyrics


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I got this pain and I don't know what to do with it
I got this pain, but I just can't go through with it
I can't let go, so you just take the best of me
I can't let go, 'cause I don't know who else to be

Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Tell me
Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Baby
Who am I if you're not loving me?
Tell me
'Cause you and me, that's my identity

I feel so cold
'Cause I know that you be lovin' somebody new, babe
Well that's the word around town
I feel so cold
And I don't even know what I'm supposed to do now
Thought you were holding me down (you don't care)
'Cause I see the look in your eyes, baby
Actions speakin' louder than words lately (you don't care)
Something's telling me that I should still be fighting for you

Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Tell me
Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Baby
Who am I if you're not loving me?
Tell me
'Cause you and me, that's my identity

Take me back
To the day your heart belongs to me
Take me back
Only your touch, boy, can set me free
There's no test
He can't love you like I do
There's no test
'Cause all of me, I gave to you, you

Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Tell me
Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Baby
Who am I if you're not loving me?
Tell me
'Cause you and me, that's my identity

I don't know who I am if I ain't in your arms, baby
(La, la, la) I don't know, I don't know
(La, la, la) I don't know who I am if I ain't in your arms, baby
(La, la, la) I don't know, I don't know

Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Tell me
Who am I if I ain't loving you?
Baby
Who am I if you're not loving me
Tell me




'Cause you and me, that's my identity
That's my identity

Overall Meaning

The song "Who Am I" is a heartfelt ballad about the uncertainties of a breakup. The lyrics express the singer's struggle to define their identity outside of the relationship they had with their significant other. They feel lost and in pain, unable to let go even though they know they should. They are grappling with the fact that their sense of self is tied up in this other person, and they don't know who they are without them.


The chorus repeats the same questions, "Who am I if I ain't loving you? Baby, who am I if you're not loving me?" These questions lay bare the singer's insecurities and need for validation from their relationship. They don't know what their life is supposed to look like without their significant other, and the idea of that unknown future is overwhelming.


In the bridge, the singer asks to be taken back to a time when their love was strong and real, but they know deep down that it may be too late. The repeated phrase "I don't know" emphasizes the singer's confusion and vulnerability.


Overall, "Who Am I" is a poignant exploration of what it means to lose a sense of self in a relationship and the difficulty of finding one's identity after a breakup.


Line by Line Meaning

I got this pain and I don't know what to do with it
I am experiencing emotional pain and don't know how to cope with it.


I got this pain, but I just can't go through with it
Despite feeling emotional pain, I am hesitant to take action to address it.


I can't let go, so you just take the best of me
I am unable to move on from our relationship, allowing you to take advantage of me.


I can't let go, 'cause I don't know who else to be
My identity is so tied to our relationship that I am lost without it and unable to move on.


Who am I if I ain't loving you?
My identity is so tied to loving you that I am lost without it.


Tell me
I am seeking answers and guidance to help me understand who I am without our relationship.


Baby
An affectionate term used to address my partner.


Who am I if you're not loving me?
Without your love and affection, I am struggling to understand my identity.


'Cause you and me, that's my identity
Our relationship defines who I am and without it, I am lost.


I feel so cold
I am emotionally distant and hurt by the thought of you loving someone else.


'Cause I know that you be lovin' somebody new, babe
I am aware that you have moved on and are now in love with someone else.


Well that's the word around town
There is gossip and rumors circulating about your new relationship.


And I don't even know what I'm supposed to do now
I am lost and unsure of how to move on from our relationship.


Thought you were holding me down (you don't care)
I believed that you were committed to our relationship, but now I feel like you no longer care.


'Cause I see the look in your eyes, baby
I can discern through your nonverbal communication that you are no longer in love with me.


Actions speakin' louder than words lately (you don't care)
Your actions demonstrate that you no longer care about our relationship.


Something's telling me that I should still be fighting for you
Despite everything, I still have a feeling that I should try to win you back.


Take me back
I am asking you to reconsider our relationship and take me back.


To the day your heart belongs to me
I long for the time when you were completely invested in our relationship and in love with me.


Only your touch, boy, can set me free
I believe that your love and affection are the only things that can give me emotional freedom and happiness.


There's no test
I believe that no one else can love you in the same way that I do.


He can't love you like I do
I think that no one else can love you as deeply and passionately as I do.


'Cause all of me, I gave to you, you
I have given all of myself to our relationship and to you specifically.


I don't know who I am if I ain't in your arms, baby
My sense of self and identity are so closely tied to being with you that I am lost without it.


(La, la, la) I don't know, I don't know
I am struggling to understand who I am without our relationship.


That's my identity
Our relationship is such a large part of who I am that it defines my sense of identity.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: PHILIP MECKSEPER, THOMAS WESLEY PENTZ, KATIE ANNE BRIEN, CRAIG ASHLEY DAVID

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