February 2019 saw the release of Kehlaniโs third mixtape While We Wait, which served as a prelude to what would be their second album It Was Good Until It Wasnโt. The highly-anticipated album was released on May 8, 2020 to positive reception, with the album cover and music videos being shot in their home due to the COVID-19 pandemic at the time.
On April 29, 2022, Kehlani released their third album Blue Water Road, with features from Blxst, Justin Bieber, Syd, Jessie Reyez, Ambrรฉ and Thundercat.
Can You Blame Me
Kehlani Lyrics
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Rather go at it, then not speak at all
How you made me feel is dangerous
Oh, you know
I would rather argue than me sleep alone
Rather call you out than no one call my phone
Hold my grudge instead of havin' none to hold, none to hold
'Cause you made me fall in it
Yeah, you're the reason I got a weakness, oh, no
You drive me crazy, still that's my baby
Can't get enough of you
Baby, it's somethin' that you do
Can't get enough of you
Baby, it's somethin' that you do
Say it umpteen times
You think I'ma leave, but I'm never gonna jump sides
We been on a rough ride
Still ride shawty with a nigga through the long nights
And it's always two rights
Playin' games with our hands tied
Who else can I confide in?
Don't want a war tryna win a fight, and yeah, you got it
Cover my phone up
Hopin' you decide to just show up
Rather say it all to your face
I rather we act like grown ups
Sometimes I block all your calls
You start hittin' my girls up
Talkin' 'bout, "Where's my baby?"
And that's when I soften up
Yeah, you know
I would rather argue than me sleep alone
Rather call you out than no one call my phone
Hold my grudge instead of havin' none to hold, none to hold
'Cause you made me fall in it
Yeah, you're the reason I got a weakness, oh, no
You drive me crazy, still that's my baby
Can't get enough of you
Baby, it's somethin' that you do
Can't get enough of you
Baby, it's somethin' that you do
You're the only one for me, only one for me, oh
Only one for me, only one for me, yeah
Only one for me, only one for me, oh
The lyrics of Kehlani and Lucky Daye's song "Can You Blame Me" describe a complex relationship between two people who argue and clash but also can't live without each other. Kehlani admits that she needs her partner as her "safe haven" while also acknowledging that the way he makes her feel can be dangerous. Despite the fights and the moments when she blocks his calls, Kehlani would rather argue with him than sleep alone, call him out than have no one call her phone, and hold a grudge than have nothing to hold. She even covers her phone hoping he will show up, and softens up when he asks about her. The chorus emphasizes that he is the reason she has a weakness and she can't get enough of him, even though he drives her crazy sometimes.
The song captures a common dynamic in relationships where the tension and intensity can be both exhausting and exhilarating. The lyrics suggest that Kehlani and her partner have history and a strong connection that transcends their fights. They seem to know each other well, even though they annoy each other at times, and can't imagine being with anyone else. Despite the risks and the doubts, they are committed to each other, and the song expresses their passion and loyalty.
Overall, "Can You Blame Me" portrays a nuanced and relatable exploration of love, conflict, and compromise. The lyrics capture the push and pull of relationships, and how sometimes the things that make us vulnerable and scared are the same things that make us feel alive.
Line by Line Meaning
I need you here, my safe haven (safe)
You are my comfort and security in this unpredictable world.
Rather go at it, then not speak at all
I prefer to have conflicts and discussions with you rather than avoiding them altogether and keeping silent.
How you made me feel is dangerous
You have the ability to make me feel emotions so deeply that it can become risky for me.
Oh, you know
You are aware of our connection and the dynamics of our relationship.
I would rather argue than me sleep alone
I would choose fighting with you over being separated from you and sleeping alone.
Rather call you out than no one call my phone
I would prefer to confront you rather than have no one reach out to me and hear my thoughts and feelings.
Hold my grudge instead of havin' none to hold, none to hold
I would keep my anger instead of having no emotions related to our relationship.
'Cause you made me fall in it
I am in this emotional state because of your actions towards me.
Yeah, you're the reason I got a weakness, oh, no
Your presence and impact on my life have made me vulnerable since I cannot resist you.
You drive me crazy, still that's my baby
You make me feel insane, but I still love you like you are my child.
Can't get enough of you
I need more of you in my life to feel complete.
Baby, it's somethin' that you do
Your behavior or actions cause me to feel this way about you.
Say it umpteen times
I will keep repeating my thoughts on our relationship endlessly.
You think I'ma leave, but I'm never gonna jump sides
Although you might believe I will leave you, I will never choose someone else over you.
We been on a rough ride
Our relationship has faced many challenges and difficulties.
Still ride shawty with a nigga through the long nights
I will continue to support you and stand by your side during the tough times.
And it's always two rights
We both have valid points during our arguments and discussions.
Playin' games with our hands tied
We continue to play this game even though we are in a situation where we cannot win.
Who else can I confide in?
I only trust you enough to share my deepest thoughts and feelings.
Don't want a war tryna win a fight, and yeah, you got it
I do not want to start a conflict just to win an argument, and you understand that.
Cover my phone up
I intentionally ignore your calls and texts.
Hopin' you decide to just show up
I secretly want you to surprise me with your presence.
Rather say it all to your face
I would rather be honest with you in person than behind your back.
I rather we act like grown ups
I believe we should behave maturely and handle our relationship like responsible adults.
Sometimes I block all your calls
Occasionally, I cannot handle our issues and choose to distance myself from you.
You start hittin' my girls up
When I ignore you, you attempt to contact my friends to find out what is going on with me.
Talkin' 'bout, "Where's my baby?"
You refer to me as your child and wonder where I am when I do not respond in our relationship.
And that's when I soften up
When you show your love and concern for me, I will lower my defenses and become more open to you.
You're the only one for me, only one for me, oh
You are the only person I want to be with and love.
Only one for me, only one for me, yeah
You are the only one who can fill the void in my heart and soul.
Only one for me, only one for me, oh
My love and affection are reserved solely for you.
Lyrics ยฉ Universal Music Publishing Group, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Royalty Network, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andrew Wansel, Daniel Klein, David Brown, Dustin Bowie, Kehlani Parrish, Matt Campfield, Michael MacGregor, Nija Aisha-Alayja Charles, Samuel Wishkoski
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@rodzvany
daye was perfect for this track, his sound makes this song all the more better
@YAYAEKOTV
https://youtu.be/CSXYzLy8SB4
@Enzoh685
Lucky is the real deal! ๐ฏ๐ฏ
@tayveonmcdougall124
rosa salvaje thatโs why I clicked lol
@masterakashortyrawcrosby7286
rosa salvaje pause she is very talented canโt take from her she fire regardless she up one
@charismapruitt4377
Fr ! Fit right in !
@muhhh4758
I canโt get enough of Kehlani... this album is fire๐ฅต
@masterakashortyrawcrosby7286
Maya L very much she is one up deserving of album of the year or Grammy award or something way up
@catherinem.6290
HEAT ๐ฅ
@kellienicole4416
On repeat!!!