Deserve Better
Kehlani Lyrics


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Girl I've become, girl I've become
Girl I've become, girl I've become

Let me ask you first, what did you think when you saw me?
Was I something that you wanted
Or only just another cure for lonely?
Another you don't plan on catching after throwing? (no)
Spent a lot of time, fixing my heart
Gathering my peace of mind
And I worked so goddamn hard

Now, I love the girl I've become
Now, I love the girl I've become
Oh, no, no, no, I finally know the wrong that was done
Finally know the wrong that was done
And I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better, yeah-yeah
I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better

Now let me get this straight
You said you had ideas for us, wanted to travel the world
And provide a shield for all of the crazy things
That comes with this game we play
All this other shit that the people say is
They don't know how we live, they don't know how we love
You said it so well can't believe I was so dumb
But all I'm tryna say is I'm not crazy
I finally know my self worth, baby, yeah

Now, I love the girl I've become
Now, I love the girl I've become
No-whoa, finally know the wrong that was done
Finally know the wrong that was done
I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better
Now, I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better

Yeah-yeah




Ooh, I deserve, I deserve (nah)
I deserve better baby, yeah-yeah

Overall Meaning

In Kehlani's song "Deserve Better," she addresses a past lover who treated her poorly and did not appreciate her worth. She questions his intentions, asking if he truly wanted her or if he simply viewed her as a distraction from his loneliness. She then reflects on the time she spent trying to fix her heart and achieve inner peace, and how hard she worked to become the strong and confident woman she is now. Kehlani is proud of the "girl she's become" and acknowledges that she didn't always know her true value, but she finally understands that she deserves better than what her ex-lover offered.


The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "I deserve better" multiple times, emphasizing Kehlani's newfound self-worth and determination to not settle for less than she deserves. She then recounts how her ex-lover promised her the world, but ultimately did not follow through on his words. Kehlani realizes that she was foolish to trust him, but she has since grown and learned to value herself. The song displays a powerful message about the importance of self-love and the courage it takes to leave behind toxic relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl I've become, girl I've become
The singer acknowledges that she has grown and developed into a different person.


Let me ask you first, what did you think when you saw me?
The singer is curious about the initial impression she made on the listener.


Was I something that you wanted?
The singer wonders if she was desired by the listener.


Or only just another cure for lonely?
The artist questions if she was only used as a temporary distraction from loneliness.


Another you don't plan on catching after throwing? (no)
The artist suggests that the listener used her and had no intention of pursuing a real relationship.


Spent a lot of time, fixing my heart
The singer has invested time and effort into healing herself emotionally.


Gathering my peace of mind
The singer has worked on finding inner peace and a sense of calm.


And I worked so goddamn hard
The artist has put in significant effort to reach a point of self-love and self-worth.


Now, I love the girl I've become
The artist is proud and accepting of the person she has become.


Oh, no, no, no, I finally know the wrong that was done
The artist has come to the realization that she was mistreated in some way.


Finally know the wrong that was done
The singer has gained clarity about a situation that was previously uncertain or confusing.


And I deserve better, better, better
The artist recognizes that she deserves to be treated with more respect and care.


Now let me get this straight
The singer is about to clarify a misunderstanding or miscommunication.


You said you had ideas for us, wanted to travel the world
The singer reminds the listener of previous promises and plans that were made.


And provide a shield for all of the crazy things
The singer expected protection and support from the listener in difficult situations.


That comes with this game we play
The artist refers to the difficulties that come with being in a relationship or involved with someone romantically.


All this other shit that the people say is
The artist doesn't care about what others say or think about her relationship.


They don't know how we live, they don't know how we love
The singer believes that outsiders cannot truly understand her relationship or the dynamics between her and the listener.


You said it so well can't believe I was so dumb
The singer realizes that she was foolish to believe the listener's promises and expectations.


But all I'm tryna say is I'm not crazy
The artist wants to make it clear that she is not overreacting or irrational for wanting better treatment.


I finally know my self worth, baby yeah
The artist has developed a sense of confidence and respect for herself.


I deserve better, better, better
The artist repeats her belief that she deserves to be treated with more respect and care.


Now, I deserve better, better, better
The singer emphasizes that her standards and expectations have changed.


I deserve better baby, yeah-yeah
The artist affirms her belief that she deserves to be treated better.




Lyrics Β© CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Kehlani Parrish, Nathan Payton

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@shee1659

Girl I've become, girl I've become
Girl I've become, girl I've become
Let me ask you first, what did you think when you saw me?
Was I something that you wanted?
Or only just another cure for lonely?
Another you don't plan on catching after throwing? (no)
Spent a lot of time, fixing my heart
Gathering my peace of mind
And I worked so goddamn hard
Now I love the girl I've become
Now I love the girl I've become
Oh no no no, I finally know the wrong that was done
Finally know the wrong that was done
And I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better, yeah yeah
I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better
Now let me get this straight
Said you had ideas for us, wanted to travel the world
And provide a shield for all of the crazy things
That come with this game we play
All this other shit that the people say is
They don't know how we live, they don't know how we love
You said it so well can't believe I was so dumb
But all I'm tryna say is I'm not crazy
I finally know my self worth baby
Now I love the girl I've become
Now I love the girl I've become
No, I finally know the wrong that was done
Finally know the wrong that was done
I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better
Now I deserve better, better, better
I deserve better
Yeah, yeah
Ooh, I deserve, I deserve (nah)
I deserve better baby, yeah



@gabrielaneves6356

Let me ask you first, what did you think when you saw me?
Was I something that you wanted?
Or only just another cure for lonely?
Another you don't plan on catching after throwing?
Spent a lot of time, fixing my heart
Gathering my peace of mind
And I worked so goddamn hard
Now let me get this straight
Said you had ideas for us, wanted to travel the world
And provide a shield for all of the crazy things that come with this game we play
All the shit that the people say is
They don't know how we live, they don't know how we love
You said it so well can't believe I was so dumb
But all I'm tryna say is I'm not crazy
I finally know my self worth baby



All comments from YouTube:

@hussainasaad8848

2020 and this is finally starting to hit different now that i’ve experienced life

@andrea.xqueenx._1950

so trueπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

@felishaperez9918

Who you tellin? Lollll

@chastisedbyyah

And life will keep me showing how you deserve better, better better you deserve better 😘

@GAWDIIIS

exactly!!! 2022

@derellsaunders1283

2022 now I’m still man

@derheasmith9238

Did anyone notice that at 0:34 she says gathering my piece of mind.. then in 2017 she releases SSS with a song named Piece of Mind... :/

@yngvinyl

someone's paying attention hmmmmm

@Princess_Casey_

People be Hating on Kehlani and calling her a sound cloud artist but the truth is she's so damn amazing.. I love this song.. Fuck the haters.

@KMills350

I think the ones that are calling her a sound cloud artist defiantly haven't listened to her music coz all her songs are so good

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