In And Out
Keith Sweat Lyrics


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Telephone, two way, pager, cell phone, e-mail, fax, home mail gram
These are just some of the ways people communicate what's on their mind
But instead you got me guessing, stressing girl you messing up my flow
I might as well give this thing up 'cause I just don't know which way to go
If you ain't trying' to be with me
Then why don't you just up and leave
But if you truly want to stay then just let me know
You can't keep on running in and out, out of my life
Into my bed, or out of my heart, and into my head
You can't keep on runnin' in and out
Want you stay so we can work things out

Roses, candy, diamonds, first class flights, and five star vendor
There were nothing you wanted girl that I would not do for you
All I get is fuss and fighting, bitching, complaining yeah
If you ain't feelin' me no more, you know what you need to do
If you ain't tryin' to be with me
Then why don't you just let me be
But if you truly want to stay then just let me know

You can't keep on running in and out, out of my life
Into my bed, or out of my heart, and into my head
You can't keep on runnin' in and out
Want you stay so we can work things out

Listen girl, I'm just a man, doing all I can
Girl, I understand sometimes it ain't easy
Everywhere I go, everybody know
Ladies at my show tryin' to get at me
But I'm down for you
Nothing I won't do, but you gotta choose either you're in or out girl
Make up your mind because you're wasting time
Do you want me girl like I want you?

You can't keep on running in and out, out of my life
Into my bed, or out of my heart, and into my head




You can't keep on runnin' in and out
Want you stay so we can work things out

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Keith Sweat's song "In And Out" are an expression of romantic frustration and confusion that many people can relate to. The song is addressed to a lover who is behaving in an unpredictable and inconsistent manner, making it difficult for the singer to understand their feelings or intentions. The lyrics begin by listing various modes of communication, suggesting that the singer has tried everything to get through to their partner, but to no avail. Instead of being straightforward, the lover is being vague and leaving the singer to wonder what they really want. The singer is tired of the uncertainty and is ready for a clear answer, one way or the other.


Throughout the song, the singer tries to make their case for a committed relationship by listing all the things they've done for their partner, but again, their advances are met with resistance, causing frustration and resentment. Despite all this, the singer still wants to make it work and is willing to wait for an answer, but not indefinitely. They warn their partner that they can't keep running in and out of their life, playing with their emotions and leaving them in a constant state of confusion. The singer wants their partner to choose and commit to either being with them or leaving for good.


Overall, "In And Out" is a relatable and heartfelt plea for clarity and commitment in a relationship. The singer is tired of being strung along and wants their partner to take responsibility for their feelings and actions.


Line by Line Meaning

Telephone, two way, pager, cell phone, e-mail, fax, home mail gram
These are just some of the ways people communicate what's on their mind


But instead you got me guessing, stressing girl you messing up my flow
You're not communicating with me clearly and it's causing me anxiety and confusion


I might as well give this thing up 'cause I just don't know which way to go
I'm considering giving up on this relationship because I don't know what to do


If you ain't trying' to be with me
If you don't want to be with me


Then why don't you just up and leave
Then why don't you just leave me


But if you truly want to stay then just let me know
If you want to stay with me, just tell me and we can work things out


You can't keep on running in and out, out of my life
You can't keep coming in and out of my life


Into my bed, or out of my heart, and into my head
Sleeping with me one moment, then disregarding my feelings and causing me emotional stress the next


Want you stay so we can work things out
I want you to stay so we can fix our relationship


Roses, candy, diamonds, first class flights, and five star vendor
I've given you everything you could possibly desire


There were nothing you wanted girl that I would not do for you
I would do anything for you


All I get is fuss and fighting, bitching, complaining yeah
But all you give me is complaints and arguments


If you ain't feelin' me no more, you know what you need to do
If you don't have feelings for me anymore, you know what you have to do


Then why don't you just let me be
Then why don't you just leave me alone


Listen girl, I'm just a man, doing all I can
I'm trying my best to make this work


Girl, I understand sometimes it ain't easy
I know that relationships can be difficult


Everywhere I go, everybody know
Wherever I go, people know who I am


Ladies at my show tryin' to get at me
Women at my concerts try to come onto me


But I'm down for you
But I only want to be with you


Nothing I won't do, but you gotta choose either you're in or out girl
I'm willing to do anything for you, but you have to decide if you want to be with me or not


Make up your mind because you're wasting time
Decide what you want because we're just wasting time if we can't work things out


Do you want me girl like I want you?
Do you have feelings for me like I have feelings for you?




Lyrics © Ultra Tunes, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: D JENKINS, KEITH SWEAT, KEITH D SWEAT, W WELLS, WAYNE WELLS

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