Better
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We got back it's not the same
And I'm afraid to say it out loud
Then you replied, could I've done something
You got some nerve asking me now

Though I'm in love with it
I will amputate
I care enough not to keep you around
Is it rough for you? I can't bare the wait
You looking me when I let you down

Tell me, is this how it goes when you let
Someone know that they gave it their best
But you still gotta roll
Remember I told you that we would be closer
If we took some time further apart

Didn't it make you better?
Aren't we better now?
I know it made me better
Aren't we better
Now?

Been six months since my birthday
And it feels good to hear your voice
We took a ride through the hills we played
All of the reasons I made that choice
We go around the bend
Only to reveal what we couldn't see before
We're better off as friends
Baby you can't stay
We both know we're not there anymore

Tell me, is this how it goes when you let
Someone know that it's all for the best
We cut and we grow
Remember I told you that we would be closer
If we took some time further apart

Didn't it make you better?
Aren't we better now?
I know it made me better (I know, I know)
Aren't we better now? (aren't we better now?)

Been around the block once or twice
Breaking up in the middle of the night
No way (no way)
So how we fix that (so how we fix that)
Better talking than we used fight
Still fill me up when my money ain't right, oh no (oh no)
All the things it had to be baby
Start your fight
I could've waited all day, all night (Could've been forever)
Told you that I needed time
There's a lot to think about while you wait, wait, wait, wait
Tell me one more time

Didn't it make you better?
Aren't we better now?




I know it made me better
Aren't we better now?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Kelela's "Better" explores the aftermath of a breakup and the emotional complexities that come with it. The opening lines suggest that the two lovers broke up and when they got back together, everything was different. However, the singer is afraid to say it out loud, indicating a potential fear of losing the relationship again. The next line, "Then you replied, could I've done something," is a touchy subject that highlights the blame game that often follows the end of relationships. The singer then confesses that she is in love with the situation, but she is still willing to let it go because the relationship is not healthy.


The chorus, "Didn't it make you better? Aren't we better now? I know it made me better. Aren't we better now?" suggests that the breakup was necessary for the growth of the individuals, and now they are in a better place. The second verse highlights that she is happy to hear from her partner after six months. They take a ride through the hills, and the singer reminisces about all the reasons she made the choice to be with her partner before. However, it's clear that they are not the same people, and they are better off as friends.


The bridge highlights that there were issues in the relationship, but they have learned to communicate better. The singer acknowledges that they used to fight, but now they talk. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus and the same questions posed, didn't it make you better? Aren't we better now? Overall, the song explores complicated and nuanced emotions that come with relationships and breakups.


Line by Line Meaning

We got back it's not the same
After taking time apart, we realize that the relationship has changed and evolved.


And I'm afraid to say it out loud
I fear admitting that the relationship has changed and that we may not be the same as we once were.


Then you replied, could I've done something
You try to make amends by asking if there was anything you could have done differently to keep the relationship intact.


You got some nerve asking me now
I am hesitant to forgive you easily and am not afraid to speak my mind about your audacity.


Though I'm in love with it I will amputate
Despite still loving you, I know that it is best to cut this relationship off and move on.


I care enough not to keep you around
I care about you enough to not hold onto a relationship that is no longer right for us.


Is it rough for you? I can't bare the wait
I wonder if it's difficult for you to accept the end of this relationship because I am struggling with it as well.


You looking me when I let you down
You look at me with disappointment after I let you down by ending our relationship.


Tell me, is this how it goes when you let Someone know that they gave it their best
Is this common when you try to end a relationship and let the other person know that they did everything they could?


But you still gotta roll
You still need to move on and continue with your life.


Remember I told you that we would be closer If we took some time further apart
I previously mentioned that taking a break could make our relationship better in the future.


Didn't it make you better? Aren't we better now?
Taking time apart has allowed us to grow and become better individuals, and this can lead to a better relationship if we decide to reconcile.


I know it made me better Aren't we better Now?
I am aware that being apart made me a better person, and I believe it could do the same for us as a couple.


Been six months since my birthday
It has been six months since the last time we spoke.


And it feels good to hear your voice
It is refreshing to hear your voice again and reconnect.


We took a ride through the hills we played
We went on a drive through the area where we used to spend time together.


All of the reasons I made that choice
I am remembering and reflecting on why I chose to end our relationship in the first place.


We go around the bend Only to reveal what we couldn't see before
As we progress, we are able to see things in the relationship that we could not see before.


We're better off as friends
We are in a better place when we remain friends instead of trying to be in a romantic relationship.


Baby, you can't stay We both know we're not there anymore
We understand that the romantic aspect of our relationship is over, and it is best to move on from it.


We cut and we grow
We endured emotional pain while growing and improving ourselves as individuals.


Been around the block once or twice Breaking up in the middle of the night
I've been through multiple breakups and breakups that were sudden or unexpected.


No way (no way) So how we fix that (so how we fix that) Better talking than we used fight
We cannot continue our old patterns and need to communicate better and avoid fights.


Still fill me up when my money ain't right, oh no (oh no) All the things it had to be baby
You still make me feel happy and fulfilled even when things in my life are not going well.


Start your fight I could've waited all day, all night (Could've been forever) Told you that I needed time
I had to fight the urge to reconcile with you immediately and could have delayed telling you that I need time to think things over.


There's a lot to think about while you wait, wait, wait, wait Tell me one more time
I need more time to reflect and sort out my thoughts, please try to understand and respect my need for more time.




Lyrics © WARP MUSIC LIMITED, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Alexey Anatolievich Sushon, Dominic Mocky Salole, Kelela Mizanekristos, Romy Anna Madley Croft

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naomi’s diary

these harmonies feel like a bulb lit in my stomach

Ricky Toussaint

I LOVE this song but ooo baby that harmony

MayaNotMya _

This deserves WAYYY more views

Maarteb Lalala

appreciate this one... wow her singing is so awesome :)

MayaNotMya _

Still coming back bc this song still hurts more than 2020

Jaleel 25

Damn these lyrics !!!!! So so deep

SV

she sounds amazing

Kenni G

love this song

Simon Linder

Favourite from the album 💯

L.H71

Iconic Kelela

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