Because Of You
Kelly Clarkson(саксофон) Lyrics


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I will not make
The same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break
The way you did, you fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known
Better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life
Because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid





Because of you
Because of you

Overall Meaning

In "Because Of You," Kelly Clarkson describes how her past experiences and childhood have affected her current outlook and behavior in life. She pledges to not make the same mistakes as her parent or anyone else who has caused her pain before, and as a result, she has become guarded in her actions and relationships with others. She feels afraid and finds it difficult to trust anyone after witnessing and experiencing such pain and hurt in her past. The song also touches on the theme of emotional abuse as she talks about being forced to fake a smile and hide her emotions to avoid being seen as weak.


Line by Line Meaning

I will not make The same mistakes that you did
I will learn from your mistakes and not repeat them


I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery
I will not allow myself to suffer the same pain you did


I will not break The way you did, you fell so hard
I will not be as fragile as you were and crumble so easily


I've learned the hard way To never let it get that far
I've learned from personal experience to prevent things from escalating


Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk
I am cautious and stay within my comfort zone because of the impact you had on me


Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
I have adopted a defensive attitude because of your actions towards me


Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
I struggle to trust myself and others because of the scars you left on me


Because of you I am afraid
I am fearful because of the pain you caused me


I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out
When I make mistakes, you are quick to criticize and blame me


I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I suppress my emotions because of the shame you instilled in me for being vulnerable


I'm forced to fake A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
I put on a facade of happiness to hide the pain you caused me


My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with
My heart was never whole because of the hurt you inflicted on me


I watched you die I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I witnessed your pain and suffering that led to your demise


I was so young You should have known Better than to lean on me
I was too young and immature to handle the burden of your problems


You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain
You were consumed by your own pain and never considered the impact it had on others


And now I cry in the middle of the night For the same damn thing
I now suffer from the same pain and struggles you went through


I try my hardest just to forget everything
I attempt to forget the pain and trauma you caused me


Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in
I struggle to form meaningful relationships with others because of the trust issues you left me with


Because of you I'm ashamed of my life Because it's empty
I feel ashamed of my life because it lacks the joy and fulfillment that should be present


Because of you I am afraid
I am still fearful because of the impact you had on my life


Because of you Because of you
The effects of your actions continue to haunt and define me




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DAVID HODGES, KELLY CLARKSON, BEN MOODY

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@leighhoppins9273

And you know I have never experienced abuse and I hope I never do. But I have seen it on YouTube people that I have experienced situations that aren’t good

And you know even if their life isn’t good you know and it’s such a lonely place that you feel nobody cares

There is always somebody that cares and life can be great life can be full positivity and kindness loving compassion. Is just how you choose to live it

You can live life being kind to people and laughing and cracking funny jokes and using funny statements to get you by in life

Or you can live in misery and be miserable and be a nasty person you know. Life is the individual person chooses to live their life

Nobody else made them live that way no matter how bad the situation was in their past. You know nobody’s forcing and telling you how to live in the future it’s all up to you

It’s your choice and only you can choose how you live in the future.



@cristinacavalli97

I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid

Because of you (oh)
Because of you (mm, oh)



@pallomaaquino9237

I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself 'cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way, to never let it get that far

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh
Every day of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

I watched you die (I watched you die)
I heard you cry
Every night in your sleep
I was so young (and you're so young)
You should have known better (I was too young for you)
Than to lean on me

You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain (you never saw me)
And now I cry
In the middle of the night
For the same damn thing

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid

Because of you
Because of you



All comments from YouTube:

@notVulture

Every children deserves a parent, but not all parents deserves a child...
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@terabyte2307

Your words should get repeated......children should not bear the burden....kids....just want "parents" to care........

@ghazalysi6574

my parents don't...wish I wasn't born

@lisamalabonmanoban1481

Precisely

@helenebennie3961

@@ghazalysi6574 that is terribly destructive to your self esteem. Hard to reach out and seek the people who will love you after that - that is the point of the song. Do you mind me asking how old you are?

@ghazalysi6574

​@@helenebennie3961 nobody likes me tbh...even my friends, I'm always the last priority to them which I don't blame them because when my mom can say such terrible stuff to me how can I blame strangers...the point of this song for me is to never have a child and never make someone live through this hell, I mean this world... and I'm 23 btw I just graduated from university

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@jipsigal

I was a ‘daddy’s girl’, growing up in the 60’s-70’s. Everytime my mom and dad had a fight, I saw my dad getting his keys and I would run outside and climb in the car ahead of my dad. He’d get in, look at me, and say ‘as long as you’re quiet’ and allow me to ride along, where he’d go for a coffee and get me a chocolate milk. I saw him simmer down, become calm, and after a bit we’d go home.
My mom, God Bless her in her pain, would snap at me, saying I was ‘taking sides’.
I was able to tell her, some years later before she passed (rather suddenly) from pancreatic cancer:
Mom. I wasn’t taking dad’s side. I just wanted to be with him to make sure HE CAME HOME.

This song encapsulates so many memories, so much pain…

@koodeyta

😢😢

@user-od2um9mw8o

Boy! That is a beautiful story. A movie story. Just awesome!

@jatinsharma5024

🙏🫡 How are you now?

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