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Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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Here's the thing, we started out friends
It was cool but it was all pretend
Yeah, yeah, since you been gone

You're dedicated, you took the time
Wasn't long till I called you mine
Yeah, yeah, since you been gone
And all you'd ever hear me say
Is how I picture me with you
That's all you'd ever hear me say

But since you been gone
I can breathe for the first time
I'm so moving on, yeah yeah
Thanks to you
Now I get
What I want
Since you been gone

How can I put it, you put me on
I even fell for that stupid love song
Yeah, yeah, since you been gone

How come I'd never hear you say
I just wanna be with you
Guess you never felt that way

But since you been gone
I can breathe for the first time
I'm so moving on, yeah yeah
Thanks to you
Now I get
I get what I want
Since you been gone

You had your chance, you blew it
Out of sight, out of mind
Shut your mouth, I just can't take it
Again and again and again and again

Since you been gone (since you been gone)
I can breathe for the first time
I'm so moving on, yeah yeah
Thanks to you (thanks to you)
Now I get
I get what I want

I can breathe for the first time
I'm so moving on, yeah yeah
Thanks to you (thanks to you)
Now I get (I get)
You should know (you should know)
That I get
I get what I want

Since you been gone




Since you been gone
Since you been gone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of “Since U Been Gone” by Kelly Clarkson describe a woman who had a relationship with someone she believed was her friend. They started out as friends, but she began to develop romantic feelings for him, and they became a couple. The relationship, however, was based on pretense as it was all pretend from the start. The woman would constantly talk about how she envisioned her future with the man, but he never reciprocated.


The chorus of the song mentions how the woman can finally breathe and move on since the man has been gone. She gets what she wants, and she’s grateful to him for leaving. She can no longer stand to hear him speak, and she’s finally free from his grasp. The verses explain how the man may have been a deceitful lover, who wouldn’t be honest about his feelings for the woman. The bridge is a fitting end to the song as it explains how much the woman has grown since the man left, and how much that growth makes the difference.


Overall, “Since U Been Gone” is about getting over a relationship that may not have been true love. It’s about ridding oneself of toxic relationships and gaining one’s independence. It’s a song about overcoming difficulties and growing into a better, more mature person.


Line by Line Meaning

Here's the thing, we started out friends
We began our relationship as friends.


It was cool but it was all pretend
Our friendship was initially exciting, but it was a facade.


Yeah, yeah, since you been gone
Things have changed since you left.


You're dedicated, you took the time
You were devoted and committed to our relationship.


Wasn't long till I called you mine
I claimed you in a romantic sense soon after we began seeing each other.


And all you'd ever hear me say
My conversations with you were always centered around my desire to be with you.


Is how I picture me with you
I constantly imagined us together.


But since you been gone
My situation has changed since you left.


I can breathe for the first time
I finally feel as though I can live my life freely without worrying about my relationship with you.


I'm so moving on, yeah yeah
I'm in the process of letting go and moving on with my life.


Thanks to you
I owe this newfound freedom to your absence.


Now I get
I finally understand


What I want
What I really want from a relationship.


How can I put it, you put me on
You had a strong influence on me and my emotions.


I even fell for that stupid love song
I was so smitten with you that even sappy love songs made sense to me.


How come I'd never hear you say
I never heard you express a desire to be with me.


I just wanna be with you
You never indicated that you wanted a relationship with me.


Guess you never felt that way
I suppose you never had romantic feelings for me.


You had your chance, you blew it
You had an opportunity to be with me, but you messed it up.


Out of sight, out of mind
Since you left, I am no longer thinking about you.


Shut your mouth, I just can't take it
I don't want to hear anything you have to say.


Again and again and again and again
This situation keeps repeating itself.


You should know
I want you to be aware of this.


That I get
That I finally understand


I get what I want
What I really want from a relationship.


Since you been gone
My life has changed since you left.




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@racheldobrikno1493

I swear this is the only break up song that’s makes me WANT to move on .
I’m motivated. 💀🔥

@paulaeasther4388

I feel the same way!! This song makes me feel better!!

@willmacrealtalk4754

I wish I had a girlfriend period, then I can fully comprehend the magnitude of this song!

@savannahwatson5180

Same , this is the only one that really makes me feel better .

@erinhickman6892

Rachel Dobrik same😩

@stephaniebaptista7076

@@willmacrealtalk4754 i never had a bf before But i did have a crush almost Everyday we would make Eye contact but I haven't been doing so well after seeing him with a girl after school and I've never acted like this 😔

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