Breaking Your Own Heart
Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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Shaking your head like it's all wrong
Before you're here you're already gone
And even with the light all around you
You're all alone in the dark.

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

Too many tears, too many falls
It's easier here behind these walls
But you don't have to walk in the shadows
Life is so hard.

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

You're breaking your own heart.
It's not too late, I'm still right here.
If only you'd let go of your fears

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.





You're breaking your own heart

Overall Meaning

Breaking Your Own Heart by Kelly Clarkson portrays the painful message of self-sabotage; when someone is so consumed by their own self-doubt and fear, they prevent themselves from experiencing love and happiness. The opening lines, "Shaking your head like it's all wrong, Before you're here you're already gone," indicate that the singer is stuck in a cycle of self-defeat; they are already convinced that things will go wrong before they even give it a chance. The metaphor of being surrounded by light but still feeling alone in the dark highlights the idea that even though there may be opportunities for love and happiness, this person may not be able to see them because of their fears and limiting beliefs.


The chorus repeats the phrase "breaking your own heart" to emphasize the idea that the singer's self-doubt and self-sabotage is the cause of their own heartbreak. They want and crave love, but when it comes close enough, they push it away, unable to see the beauty that is there. The line "The very thing you've been the most afraid of, You've been doing it from the start" suggests that this self-sabotage is a long-standing pattern and will continue unless the singer learns to recognize and break the cycle.


The final verse serves as a message of hope and possibility for the singer to break free from their fears and overcome their cycle of negative self-talk. The lines "It's not too late, I'm still right here, If only you'd let go of your fears" suggest that there is still a chance for this person to find love and break free from their negative pattern of thinking.


Line by Line Meaning

Shaking your head like it's all wrong
You're doubting everything about your life and decisions.


Before you're here you're already gone
You're emotionally distant from everything and everyone around you.


And even with the light all around you
You have positive things in your life, but you can't seem to appreciate them.


You're all alone in the dark.
You feel isolated and disconnected from others, even during happy moments.


Taking it too far down the lonely road
You're taking risks and making decisions that will only lead to further isolation.


You say you just want love
You want to be loved and accepted, but are afraid to let anyone get close to you.


But when it's close enough you just let it go
You push away potential relationships and opportunities because of your fear of vulnerability and rejection.


The very thing you've been the most afraid of
Your fear of being hurt and rejected has caused you to hurt and reject yourself.


You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.
You've been self-sabotaging and hurting yourself for as long as you can remember.


It's not too late, I'm still right here.
There are people who care about you and are willing to help you.


If only you'd let go of your fears
You need to let go of your fear of vulnerability and open yourself up to the possibility of love and connection.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JENNIFER HANSON, MICHAEL LOGAN

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Jason Smalls

[Verse 1]
Shaking your head like it's all wrong
Before you're here, you're already gone
And even with the light all around you
You're all alone in the dark

[Chorus]
You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down a lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough, you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start
Breaking your own heart

[Verse 2]
Too many tears, too many falls
It's easier here behind these walls
But you don't have to walk in the shadows
Where life is so hard

[Chorus]
You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down a lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough, you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start
Breaking your own heart
You're breaking your own heart


[Bridge]
It's not too late, I'm still right here
If only you'd let go of your fears

[Chorus]
You're breaking your own heart
Taking your own heart down a lonely road (Down a lonely road)
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough, you just let it go (You just let it go, you just let it go)
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start
Breaking your own heart

[Outro]
You're breaking your own heart



Pierre Ochoa

Shaking your head like it's all wrong
Before you're here you're already gone
And even with the light all around you
You're all alone in the dark.

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

Too many tears, too many falls
It's easier here behind these walls
But you don't have to walk in the shadows
Life is so hard.

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

You're breaking your own heart.
It's not too late, I'm still right here.
If only you'd let go of your fears

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

You're breaking your own heart



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Jason Smalls

[Verse 1]
Shaking your head like it's all wrong
Before you're here, you're already gone
And even with the light all around you
You're all alone in the dark

[Chorus]
You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down a lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough, you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start
Breaking your own heart

[Verse 2]
Too many tears, too many falls
It's easier here behind these walls
But you don't have to walk in the shadows
Where life is so hard

[Chorus]
You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down a lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough, you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start
Breaking your own heart
You're breaking your own heart


[Bridge]
It's not too late, I'm still right here
If only you'd let go of your fears

[Chorus]
You're breaking your own heart
Taking your own heart down a lonely road (Down a lonely road)
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough, you just let it go (You just let it go, you just let it go)
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start
Breaking your own heart

[Outro]
You're breaking your own heart

Mary Ann Brown

This song is outstanding! It's as if she has reached into my chest and pulled out my heart to examine it.

Sonia Choto

It’s 2022 and I love this beautiful song!

Adolfo Sierra

This hits so hard. I got covid pretty bad a few months ago..almost didn't make it. Now battling long covid and have become really scared to leave my house. I have become lonely and basically breaking my own heart. I must face the world without any fear of any variants and just trust in God that I will completely heal soon

Fabricio FZ

All I can say is THANK YOU! His music moves people, calms the spirit and definitely gave me the strength to keep looking for my place in the world.

aquariusxx

This song should’ve been huge. One of my favorites on stronger!

Flávio

"The very thing you've been the most afraid of, you've been doing it from the start: breaking your own heart" so relatable 😭

meggi dankert

Love this Song ❤️

Pierre Ochoa

Shaking your head like it's all wrong
Before you're here you're already gone
And even with the light all around you
You're all alone in the dark.

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

Too many tears, too many falls
It's easier here behind these walls
But you don't have to walk in the shadows
Life is so hard.

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

You're breaking your own heart.
It's not too late, I'm still right here.
If only you'd let go of your fears

You're breaking your own heart
Taking it too far down the lonely road
You say you just want love
But when it's close enough you just let it go
The very thing you've been the most afraid of
You've been doing it from the start, breaking your own heart.

You're breaking your own heart

Emma Charlotte

Eres la mejor entrenadora de la voz! Tu voz es hermosa 😍 saludos desde Ecuador

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