Don't Be A Girl About It
Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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Any chance you get to play the warn out pity card
Any opportunity to push my buttons hard
It's getting old, your "poor me" thoughts
Believe me, boy, when I say "so what"

This broken record thing has got to stop
I'm losing interest in your pillow talk
And oh it's not looking good
And oh I'm not in the mood
And oh I can't get through
To you

Don't be a girl about it
'Cause I didn't say yes
Don't be a girl about it
'Cause I wouldn't pretend
Don't be a girl about it
Now you're whining again
Don't be a girl about it
You're such a girl about it

Now you're up in arms because I say we're not working out
You wonder if I loved you from the start, well I tell you what
I knew a guy who changed my world
And then he grew into a little girl

This metamorphosis is just too much
You're crossing lines that I just can't let go on

And oh it's not looking good
And oh I'm not in the mood
And oh I can't get through
To you

Don't be a girl about it
'Cause I didn't say yes
Don't be a girl about it
'Cause I wouldn't pretend
Don't be a girl about it
And now you're whining again
Don't be a girl about it
You're such a girl about it

And oh I'm sleeping with the enemy oh oh
And oh I'm counting sheep while you're in love

I guess it's true that love can grow in different directions
I chose the high road and you chose to be a girl
I know you're mad at me now
It's all my fault somehow
Here comes my favorite part
You're so misunderstood

And oh it's not looking good
And oh I'm not in the mood
And oh yeah I'm so through
To you

Don't be a girl about it
'Cause I didn't say yes
Don't be a girl about it
'Cause I wouldn't pretend
Don't be a girl about it
And now you're whining again
Don't be a girl about it
You're such a girl about it

And oh I'm sleeping with the enemy oh oh




And oh I'm counting sheep while you're in love
Don't be a girl about it

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Kelly Clarkson's song "Don't Be a Girl About It" express the singer's frustration with a partner who regularly plays the victim and tries to make her feel guilty. She calls out the partner for constantly playing the "pity card" and pushing her buttons. The singer is tired of her partner's constant whining and self-pity and warns him not to act like a girl. The partner's behavior has caused a rift in their relationship, but the singer has chosen to take the high road.


The verses describe the partner's behavior in detail, with the first verse addressing his tendency to play the victim and the second describing how he has grown into a "little girl." The chorus warns the partner not to act like a girl and to stop whining, while the bridge acknowledges that love can grow in different directions, but the singer has chosen to move on.


Overall, the song is a powerful message about taking ownership of one's behavior and not playing the victim. It highlights the importance of equality in a relationship and the need to communicate openly and honestly.


Line by Line Meaning

Any chance you get to play the warn out pity card
You always play the same card of self-pity whenever there's a chance


Any opportunity to push my buttons hard
You love to annoy or provoke me whenever you can


It's getting old, your "poor me" thoughts
Your constant self-victimization is becoming very tiresome


Believe me, boy, when I say "so what"
Your attempts to make me feel guilty or sorry for you aren't working


This broken record thing has got to stop
You need to stop repeating the same thing over and over again


I'm losing interest in your pillow talk
I'm getting bored of hearing you talk about the same thing in bed


Now you're up in arms because I say we're not working out
You're getting upset because I'm saying we're not compatible


You wonder if I loved you from the start, well I tell you what
You're questioning whether I ever truly loved you, but let me tell you


I knew a guy who changed my world
I once met someone who had a profound impact on me


And then he grew into a little girl
But then he became emotionally immature and needy like a child


This metamorphosis is just too much
Your transformation from a confident man to a needy, emotional person is too extreme


You're crossing lines that I just can't let go on
You're behaving in a way that I can't tolerate or ignore anymore


And oh I'm sleeping with the enemy oh oh
I'm in a relationship with someone who is now my adversary


And oh I'm counting sheep while you're in love
I'm lying in bed struggling to sleep while you're happily in love


Don't be a girl about it
Don't act in a weak, childish or emotional way


'Cause I didn't say yes
You're upset because I didn't agree with you or do what you wanted


'Cause I wouldn't pretend
I'm not going to pretend to feel something I don't for your benefit


And now you're whining again
You're complaining or moaning again like a child


You're such a girl about it
You're acting in a typically feminine or weak way


I guess it's true that love can grow in different directions
People can fall out of love and develop different interests and priorities


I chose the high road and you chose to be a girl
I'm taking the mature, rational approach while you're being emotional and needy


I know you're mad at me now
I understand that you're angry with me at the moment


It's all my fault somehow
You're blaming me for everything, even if it's not entirely my fault


Here comes my favorite part
I'm being sarcastic when I say this


You're so misunderstood
You think I don't understand you, but really it's the other way round


And oh yeah I'm so through
I've had enough, I'm done with this situation




Lyrics © Downtown Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Brent Kutzle, Kelly Brianne Clarkson

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on Since U Been Gone

This song resonates with me the most right now since as recent as last Sunday, I was set free from a relationship with a man like this.

Here's the thing, we started out friends
It was cool but IT WAS ALL PRETEND [on HIS part]

HOW COME I'D NEVER HEAR YOU SAY
"I just wanna be with you"?
Guess YOU never felt that way [(But HE expected me to feel that way)]

Such an amazing song!

Ricky


on Broken & Beautiful (from the movie UGLYDOLLS)

What do they mean with the words:
We're walking on the ocean, turning water into wine
*reference to?*

Ricky


on Broken & Beautiful (from the movie UGLYDOLLS)

We're walking on the ocean, turning water into wineWe bury our emotion and

We're walking on the ocean, turning water into wine. *what is the meaning of this line?

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