Why Don
Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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I am a woman
Cut in two
By ambitious pride
Stuck in my ways
Between you and my other life

Now I have been around enough to know when love has ended
And I believe that you and I deserve to be extended

Why don't you try
To make me stay
When it's time to go
Why don't you try
To stand in my way
Because we both know
I can't stop myself

Our empty house
You occupy
When I'm far away
Heavier hearts won't justify why I'm gone today

Now I have hung a cloud above our house from always leaving
I figured you would at least make me give a better reason

Why don't you try
To make me stay
When it's time to go
Why don't you try
To stand in my way
Because we both know
I can't stop myself

In the early mornings when I'm up before dawn
Say "why don't you stay" but you keep sleeping on
Maybe you're just too used to me being gone
'Cause if you know that I go when I go

Then why don't you try
To make me stay
When it's time to go
Why don't you try
To stand in my way




Because we both know
I can't stop myself.

Overall Meaning

In the lyrics to Kelly Clarkson's Why Don't You Try, the singer presents herself as a woman caught between her ambitions and her love life. She is torn between two worlds, represented by "you" (her significant other) and "my other life." She acknowledges that she has been in and out of love enough to recognize when it's over. Yet, she seems to want to prolong the relationship with her significant other, urging them to make her stay.


The lyrics are melancholic yet empowering. The chorus invokes a sense of self-awareness about the situation - "I can't stop myself" - but also suggests that the other person can do something about it, compelling them to try and make her stay or stand in her way. The song is rich in imagery, emphasizing the emptiness of the house when she is away, the weight of her leaving, and her desperation to be wanted.


Overall, Why Don't You Try is a song about the complexities of love and the self-doubt that often accompanies relationships. The singer is aware of her shortcomings and her tendency to leave, but she believes that she and her partner deserve better. The song is an invitation for both parties to try, to fight for their love before it's too late.


Line by Line Meaning

I am a woman
I am a person with inner strength and the ability to make my own choices.


Cut in two
I am torn between two different aspects of my life.


By ambitious pride
My own determination and desire for success may be getting in the way of my relationships.


Stuck in my ways
I may struggle with being stubborn or resistant to change.


Between you and my other life
I am caught between the person I love and the life I have built for myself.


Now I have been around enough to know when love has ended
I have experienced enough broken relationships to recognize when it's time to move on.


And I believe that you and I deserve to be extended
I still have hope that our relationship can continue to grow and improve.


Why don't you try
I am asking you to make an effort to keep me in your life.


To make me stay
I want you to do something to convince me to stay by your side.


When it's time to go
There may come a time when I need to leave.


To stand in my way
I need you to fight for our relationship and show me that you truly want me.


Because we both know
We are aware of the complicated nature of our relationship.


I can't stop myself
I may have trouble controlling my choices and emotions.


Our empty house
Our home may feel lonely and sad when I am not there.


You occupy
You fill that emptiness while I am away.


When I'm far away
I may need to travel or spend time apart from you.


Heavier hearts won't justify why I'm gone today
Feeling sad or guilty will not change the fact that I had to leave.


Now I have hung a cloud above our house from always leaving
My constant absence has created tension and uncertainty in our relationship.


I figured you would at least make me give a better reason
I expected you to ask more questions and try to understand why I am leaving.


In the early mornings when I'm up before dawn
I may wake up early, before the sun rises.


Say 'why don't you stay' but you keep sleeping on
You may mumble or say something in your sleep, but you do not wake up to ask me to stay.


Maybe you're just too used to me being gone
You may have become accustomed to my frequent absences.


'Cause if you know that I go when I go
You understand that I may need to leave from time to time.


Then why don't you try
I still need you to make an effort to show me that our relationship is worth fighting for.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ERIC HUTCHINSON

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Comments from YouTube:

@sixtoomanycats9769

2023 and this performance still blows me away. Simply phenomenal ❤

@tommygunreleased

2 OG australian idol contestants from 2003 covered this song the other day and is brilliant. Shannon Noll & Cosima - Dont you wanna stay

@chadwalker467

Jason Aldean and Kelly Clarkson together is a timeless classic.

@cherylandrews879

yes, Kelly and Jason both have tremendously beautiful voices!!!!!!!!!!!!

@bruceedson7680

This is one of the best duets I've ever heard in my life !!!!

@johnbruno7614

It's really amazing over 12 years later and this classic is still getting lit in the comment section.

@tonikbrigman

Still listening to this in 2021! Kelly Clarkson's voice is POWERFUL!

@exoticprairie

Better believe it! Have a good one.

@kaseylindley850

Same

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