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Miss Me More
Kelsea Ballerini Lyrics

I retired my red lipstick 'cause you said you didn't like it
I didn't wear my high heel shoes
'Cause I couldn't be taller than you
I didn't wanna lose my friends, but now it's hard to even find them
It's what you wanted, ain't it?
It's what you wanted

I thought I'd miss you (when it ended)
I thought it hurt me (but it didn't)
I thought I'd miss you

I thought I'd miss you

But I miss me more
I miss my own beat, to my own snare drum
I miss me more
Miss my own sheets in the bed I made up
I forgot I had dreams, I forgot I had wings
Forgot who I was before I ever kissed you
Yeah, I thought I'd miss you
But I miss me more (I miss me more)

I put on my old records that I hid in the back of the closet
And I turn them up to ten
And then I played them all again
I found my independence
Can't believe I ever lost it
What you wanted, ain't it?
It's what you wanted

I thought I'd miss you (when it ended)
I thought it hurt me (but it didn't)
I thought I'd miss you
Yeah, I thought I'd miss you

But I miss me more
I miss my own beat, to my own snare drum
(I miss me more)
Miss my own sheets in the bed I made up
I forgot I had dreams, I forgot I had wings
Forgot who I was before I ever kissed you
Yeah, I thought I'd miss you
But I miss me more (I miss me more)

I thought I'd miss you
I thought it hurt me
And I'd wanna kiss you
I thought I'd miss you

But I miss me more
I miss my own beat, to my own snare drum
(I miss me more)
Miss my own sheets in the bed I made up
I forgot I had dreams, I forgot I had wings
Forgot who I was before I ever kissed you
And I thought I'd miss you
But I miss me more
(I miss me more)
(I miss me more)
(I miss me more)

Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Brett McLaughlin, Kelsea Ballerini, David Hall Hodges

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A country-pop singer and songwriter out of Knoxville, Tennessee, Kelsea Ballerini started writing songs when she was 13 years old, began learning guitar a year later, and moved to Nashville at 15 to pursue her dream of being a professional singer and songwriter. Four years later in 2013, when she was 19, Ballerini signed a publishing deal with Black River Publishing and a recording deal with Black River Entertainment later that same year. A debut single Read Full BioA country-pop singer and songwriter out of Knoxville, Tennessee, Kelsea Ballerini started writing songs when she was 13 years old, began learning guitar a year later, and moved to Nashville at 15 to pursue her dream of being a professional singer and songwriter. Four years later in 2013, when she was 19, Ballerini signed a publishing deal with Black River Publishing and a recording deal with Black River Entertainment later that same year. A debut single, "Love Me Like You Mean It," appeared from the label in 2014; the single slowly became a big hit, reaching number five on the Billboard country singles charts and number one on its country airplay charts. A digital EP, simply titled Kelsea Ballerini, was released in November 2014, and as word about Ballerini spread, she was named one of 2014's Next Women of Country by CMT and appeared on the Grand Ol' Opry for the first time on February 13, 2015. In May 2015, Black River released Ballerini's first full-length album, The First Time; it debuted at four on Billboard's U.S. country charts and 31 on the Billboard Top 200, eventually going gold. In June 2017, Ballerini released "Legends," the first single from her follow-up LP Unapologetically, which appeared in November.

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Comments from YouTube:

D Adams

3y↑610

Girl, you nailed this song for all of us that are or were co-dependents held captive by the mind- ing of the narcissist. So empowering and so true and so about no more tolerance for abuse of any kind because you only get one life, this one, and it is so short. You can never complain about being in a toxic relationship with a narcissist if you choose to stay- you stay a victim. Listen to this song and get the help to get out and get on with your life and learn to heal your co-dependence and recognize a narcissist so it never happens again. Thank you Kelsea!

Lisa Byl

So TRUE! We put ourselves away and lose who we are because we think they don't "allow" us to be ourselves. But the REAL YOU emerge and fights back. This song is empowering good Word D. Adams Yes Girls BE YOURSELF and STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF

Lisa Byl

. Dont lose who you are and what you are about for anyone. 💕💖Live your authentic life Praise God.

Tina Lee

♥️♥️♥️💜💜💜💚💚💛💛

Amanda Tulley

5w↑1

That nailed it for me. Thank you

Ashley Durham

13w

🙌🙌👏👏

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Heather Noelle

2y↑1.4K

Theme song for every survivor of a Narcissistic relationship 💪

Preston & Greg

Amen to that!

Jodi Norton-Russell

11w

Yes!!

Jodi Norton-Russell

11w

Omg!!! Yes!! I heard this song on the way back from my divorce. I swear it was a sign!! This was me.

Irene Helgeson

12w

Exactly how I feel
Narcs suck!

Gavin4419 1

15w

I'm breaking free from someone with avoidant attachment. Breaking up is actually less painful than staying. They hurt you over, over Andover again. My heart can take no more.

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Kristal Coler

2y↑169

I'm so glad to see I'm not alone in this...I'm a very fresh 5 days out, in a safe spot. I sent this video to my daughter, she said " mom, when you sent this to me, I cried, I knew you were finally done"! This has been my strength though this. Thank you

Lexx Gonzales

Please be strong don't disregard the reason all of it had to happen in the first place. But don't forget to learn from this and create positive don't let anyone get the sense of weakness. You are great for even finding your worth

Pearl Conley

1y↑11

Ditto! While I was in the hospital my bestie was there for me and I asked her for her phone and said, "I'm done, this is me now" Then played the song. She cried with happiness!

MatthewEvann

1y↑121

This song has been one of the only things getting me through the aftermath of an extremely toxic mental/emotionally abusive relationship. Physical wounds would have hurt less. After a year and a half I’m starting to feel like myself again and realize my self worth. Never thought in a million years I’d be without the man I loved more then anything including myself. Never again will I ever let anyone make me lose who I am.

Spirit Seeker

15w

Amen sister

Viala Deadwillow

45w↑3

Thats where I'm at right now. I didn't even realize I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist. But everyone I know keeps telling me "I'm glad you got rid of that narcissistic abusive jerk" which is saying a lot since all the people i know can never agree with each other. It was never physical, as you said with your relationship, that would have been less painful. I got out 2 days ago. And it feels so odd to be able to go and do the things I want without permission, to be able to actually do what I want, I cried. I haven't even bought clothes that I like for myself in 3 years, just stuff I knew he liked. I bought an outfit I actually loved for the first time in so long. I lost myself to him, but I'm never going to let anyone do that to me again.

Kathey Stewart

47w↑2

Went through counseling at a DV center…after 2 yrs, my counselor asked me to leave her care. I’ve got a new therapist whom I feel comfortable with & we’re beginning to delve into some of the past…the current marriage is no longer physical, but we’re emotionally & verbal. I’ve fought & I’ve seen the uglier side of ppl…& my health is bad. I’ve learned to emotionally & verbally box back & they’re periods of calm, & even happier ones. Mostly if I take my antidepressants meds, then I have no feelings other than complacency which makes everyone else happy. But I’ve learned trust no one & if you have no secrets then no one can use them against you. This is safer than the world out there ever has been. But I AM learning. My counselor has reassured me that I’m in recovery & will be fine.💕

Elizabeth Nobody

47w

@Kathey Stewart Please, don't give up. I've been there, and you're worth fighting for! DM me, or DM anyone you trust.

Kathey Stewart

48w↑1

The physical scars heal much faster & cleaner the the invisible ones…I’m 46 now & have been working on them for over 10 years. It started in my childhood & progressed into adulthood…after one divorce, & a couple of abusive relationships, I married into another one. Can’t seem to let it go either…I just got too tired & gave up.

Janet Emro

2y↑246

21 years. I did what I was supposed to do. Sacrificed my career for his. Lost all but 1 of my friends. Played pit crew to his lame attempts at a career.

3 years later, at age 56, I’ve eclipsed his accomplishments. Met my expectations. Found real love. Deliriously happy and can’t wait for new challenges.

Damn straight Kelsey. Thank you.

flenif2247

My advice to any straight girl is to not get married unless he makes the same or more than you right now! And has been at his job awhile and has an education. Sorry but those are THE hard facts of a girls life. Male straight life is totally privileged.

Jacke 88

28w↑1

Congratulations 🎉 glad you got out, and found happiness!

iluvtwbf

42w↑1

Way to go!!

Connie Mclendon

45w↑5

Same here, but he took 38 years of my life, I'm 55 looking for and think I might have found Mr take my breath away..

KaelynRayne

1y↑44

This song came out the year after I left my 8 year abusive marriage to a narcissist. The first time I heard it I cried. Every time I feel weak from the trama and PTSD it left me with I feel myself being built back up. It gives me strength. I'm remarried to the best person in the world for me, but that PTSD comes out of nowhere sometimes, this song is the song that make me feel strong. I'm so glad it exists. I hope it can be the strength for people who are living through similar experiences.

Leanne Steinhardt

Yep I didn't the exact same thing cried than woken up the relay wasn't just toxic toxic begin with nothing more then lies after lies

Kevin Palmer

19w↑2

This song reminds me to never take my wife for granted.she is her own person and deserves her own choices Women are just as equal as men they deserve just as much respect. love this song!!!!!

J Haber

1y↑47

Definitely one of her best songs..so far. Very talented, beautiful young lady!💯

Pearl Conley

2y↑408

2-17-20 Is the day I took my life back. 3 days in the Hospital, 2 broken ribs, lacerations on my nose and a concussion. This song has helped me alot! Never going back! Thank you!

Alexa Saltz

17w↑1

For me, it was Sunday, April 23, 2000. Never look back...

bridy pow

17w

Love and blessings to us survivors I blast this somedays..it's the only song that reminds me WtF I AM --- 2009 nov; just turned 51 Its time for part two.

Mary Taylor

44w↑2

Bless you I know that pain and good for you baby girl

O.G.P.

50w

Take your life back!!

Pearl Conley

51w↑1

@Mya Frank still trying to get divorced! But doing good!

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Damara Ankrum

47w↑8

This song is amazing 🙌🏻

Even if you’re not in a toxic relationship, it’s still so easy to lose yourself! Your hobbies become their hobbies and you may even stop have self days! Get out, do the stuff you love even if you’re partner doesn’t join! Don’t lose yourself in a relationship!!

Honest Mark

21w↑1

Hello 👋🏼 how's everything going over there..?

✨ sʜᴏᴛᴏs.ᴇᴅɪᴛs.ᴇxᴇ ✨

3y↑13

Never let a man contradict or dictate your life. If he does that to you, he’s not the right one. You should never lose your independence over a narcissist, let alone anyone. Thank you for an absolute bop that sends an amazing message. I love you so much, Kelsea!❤️

Marina M.

2y↑14

This song should be on the Required Listening list for anyone, male or female, young, well-seasoned, or anywhere in-between! You don't always know who you are and what you need to be happy when you're just starting out; but once you figure it out, don't give it up for someone else!

Michael Lonergan

23w

AMEN!!!!!!!

Angeline Bena

2y↑357

Every girl should love themselves that much. Don’t lose yourself

YsSG SG

16w

women give too much

Melissa J

22w

I lost myself in my marriage and having kids. And now I'm finding myself again! This song is my anthem

Papa Joᒐ

35w

@Midnight Starr wrong, they were both in the span of one. Now shut it and go listen to your crappy music

Midnight Starr

35w↑1

Close enough? Yes I'm bored. Let's go!!

Midnight Starr

35w↑1

Oh I forgot. My bad. 🖕

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Ayla Goulet

2y↑16

Just left a very abusive and toxic 9 year relationship and this song is on repeat. This gives me the strength to go on by myself!

Bradley Burts

Man, this song hit hard- I know how much women like to box. Women love violence. Women love conquering opponents. Women love not preserving their wellbeing but kicking ass and taking names! YEA!

Tom Fowler

2y↑14

Outstanding song. The message is absolutely true. Thank you for this.

Kira Groshong

2y↑85

"I found my independence, can't believe I ever lost it" that line hits the hardest. I miss me more!

Travis Dowdy

2y↑11

I always loved this song because of the sounds. I just listened and read the lyrics as she sang and realized how much I'm glad that I'm now out of a 9 year toxic marriage as of this past April. I wish I had this song years ago to show me about what I was putting myself through. I am able to be me and be happy for the first time in about 8 years.

Gene Albee

2y↑55

Miss Ballerini has grown out of the teen songs and has performed a song worthy of a young woman learning about relationships.

Bnb 2020

2y↑436

"I didn't want to lose my friends but know it's hard to even find em" hit hard

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Les Byler

Cool 👍😁

JagerMedia

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Bryler Bowlin

2y↑1

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Dan Shewell

This is great song, the only thing I don't get in this video is that Kelsea in the dark is the one who beats the Kelsea in brighter clothes.
I would have thought the dark side of her should not have one the fight and that this is her finding her brighter side again.

M_Santana

3y↑145

When you have been in a toxic relationship the idea of who you are is distorted. You do everything to please the other person that you forget who you are. I was in a manipulative relationship for three years and when I finally got out of it, it wasn't even the end of it. Still got harassed, stalked, and was still confused because even though that relationship didn't completely strip me of who I was I still was lost. This song is empowering,
After all of it I struggled to find myself but with therapy and tons of reassurance from the people who actually love me I am in a much better place.
To everyone who has been or is in an abusive, manipulative, toxic, or bad relationship: Please don't loose faith in yourself. It can get better. You are stronger than you think.

Oliver Reddy

2y↑3

Are we the same person?

The Hud

32w↑1

This was my first time really hearing this song and, boy, did it bring out the elephant in the room. Love it. I feel a little uncomfortable saying this but it must be said. There are so many married women who live their husband lives. They have no idea how to live their own lives. So sad. And then when he dies, she, only then, realizes how much of life she missed by living his life and not her own. My mother said it best when she said to me after my divorce " Now you can go back to being you".

J4TA

A great song and such an important message, awesome!

Klarista Spragg

4y↑78

This song makes me feel so proud of how far I have come. I started with an abusive and sheltered childhood where I wasn't allowed to have opinions, express my feelings, and every day was a battle with abuse. I went straight into the arms of a user who played with my emotions and tried to tell me what I can and can not do, going as far as locking me in an apartment. This song makes me proud and I can feel every word. Thank you for this song!!

Linda Fields

45w↑1

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George Melvin

2y↑1

Smiles, hi there 🌺 😊

Otávio Vieira

1y↑6

What a perfect song. Kelsea, you are everything.

Bobbie LaPorte

2y↑5

Absolutely love and sing this song often! It relates to my past life! Thanks for sharing! I definitely miss my own beats and miss me more! Thanks for sharing!

Angel Jordan

14w↑2

I was in a toxic relationship and when I broke it off with him, this song explains it all. I felt more relief than sadness. I never get tired of listening to this song!

Weird Hails

2y↑9

Based on the song name I thought this was going to be about “to my ex, I’m so amazing, you’re SO going to miss me more than I’ll miss you.” And then, bam! this song is so awesome and empowering, I love how it’s not so much about the ex, but rediscovering yourself after a hard break up. Love it, love it, love it!

Heather Johnson

3y↑2.1K

I left one extremely toxic marriage, just to marry a guy who turned out to be a little less toxic. I was constantly comparing the two, "Well my first husband would have done worse. It's not that bad." Don't ever mistake "better" for "acceptable". You deserve the best, not just better.

Your Traveling Potter

Single for 23 years - because family And ex of 20 years .... Taught me to run from abusers. I am not a man hater, but at 61 I won't "settle" for less than love.

Raised by the light and dark full of grace

10w

Amen!!!

Amanda Melnichuk

11w

I did this same. Working on me now so I don’t repeat it 😉

Brenda Wessels

12w

❤

Midnight Starr

35w

@JD Griffith Yet another wanna be Jerry Springer. I bet you even read palms don't you? I would bet $$ you stand in front of your mirror for hours preening yourself .

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Cheryl Terry

2y↑16

To all those who understand the lyric to this song . Don't let a man control who you are inside and don't change your
Personality ever whearther you are a relationship or not.

Haelli !

2y↑6

Heard this on the radio yesterday when going to home depot, and here I am jamming to the song while folding my clothes!

Paige Tetreault

3y↑5

I love this song. I hear it in the car all the time. I listen to this song 5 times a day!
SO AWESOME!!!

George Melvin

Smiles, hi there 🌺 😊

Laura Kirman

3y↑6

Hello, Thank you Ms. Bellerini for the message (or perhaps 'anthem') that I have been waiting for to define my life! I have spent the better portion of my adult life battling my "good self' versus my 'real self'. Many thanks for the perspective and musical outlet for my feelings! Keep going girl!

Paula Davis

4y↑48

This song has helped me so much this summer. I was in a 14 yr relationship & he ended it in June. Seeing you perform this song and listening to it all the time has given me so much strength. It reminds me that I need to put myself 1st for a change and even though it's always an inner struggle, it's what needs to happen before I can start something new

Kelsea Ballerini

Thanks for the great love and support you show me as a special fan of mine,I hope you won't stop listening to my music and this is my private text number (470) 482-8797 that’s my private text number you can text me...

Emily Clark

3y↑41

That you for this song. I was having yet another fight( ended up being our last fight) with my now ex husband then this song blasted. And I missed the shit out of me. When right then and filed for a divorce. Best thing I ever done. I found my wings , got back my independence , and I'm back to me. !!! Thank you Kelsea Ballerini

Fiona Parmley

You made see my mom and dad didn't belong together

Brandi Baldwin

13w

This song was my anthem 3 years ago. I was in a toxic relationship and then found the love of my life ❤️

Ashley Flores

31w

I love this song!! Even before my divorce I would rock out to this. But now, after its over I REALLY LOVE this song. It's exactly how I feel. How I couldn't do things cause he didn't like it. I forgot who I was and what I liked!! Thank you Kelsea!! I love all your music.

Viola Pressley

42w

Great music 🎵🎶. I am inspired by the best of the best. She has a lot of awesome songs.

jeffery haber

1y↑11

This song hits hard for those impacted by domestic violence!

Pearl Conley

1y↑1

But I survived. I'm happy now

(a fan)Luke Bryan shakes it country!

1y↑2

Love it! Such a woman empowerment song and for a lot of us the truth!

sam

45w↑1

You have no idea how many times I heard this song on iHeartRadio and it sounds so damn good every time! 👍❤️

Nikol Lafollette

2y↑3

❤❤❤ love this song....so many messages of strength, you are worth everything, don't let anyone take that away!

Wes Collins

4y↑32

Every time I feel like someone is trying to hold me back or hold me down I think of this song and it gives me the strength to fight!!! Thank you for the power Kelsea ily !

Linda Fields

45w↑1

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Aloha Zard

47w↑1

DITTO!

Mal Auradon

2y↑3

I remember that I used to be in a toxic relationship with the first man i ever dated. He made me feel worthless. But when i heard this song, i completely fell apart even though i had left him years before hearing this song. This song is a wonderful message. You are awesome, Kelsea!!!!!

hazira

48w↑1

Never expected this to be a country song but this is awesome

Roland Martinez

I LOVE this song!!!!

Arno Delanchy

36w

Love this song, its lyrics and their meenings. Kind regards from France

Eileen Fuentes

1y↑1

I love this song. I can't believe that I have never heard it before and just read the lyrics Before listening, and I was surprised that it had an upbeat kind of beat. Very empowering. I thought just by reading the lyrics and it would be a slow song but nope. I love it! It reminds me of that song Stronger by Britney Spears, the principle ♥️

Best baseball player

2y↑1

Love this song

Momma Kat

51w

The music, and everything about this music vid is beautiful.

Lena Ramos

2y↑3

I recently lost all of my friends because they thought that I wasn't good enough to be in their group and listening to this song always helps!🤩😚

Kitty

4y↑13

This song inspired me to break up with my boyfriend after having much more fun just being alone with my cats again for a weekend. I lost my independence cause I relied on him too much and I’m way stronger than that. I was going to end it eventually anyway but this song really helped me put a nail in the proverbial coffin. Thanks, girl! ✊

tiffany monroe

2y↑3

I needed this song more than I ever realized!!!

shelephant68

52w↑2

Absolutely LOVE this video!! Thank you Kelsea for NOT going the route of so many female artist that are half-naked porn-star-looking women, but instead showing strength and resilience!!

Victoria Schmidt

20w

This song is me right now since I ended my 1 year relationship with my daughters father. The first verse described me during my relationship

Jessica

2y↑24

I thought I missed you. Until the trauma bond broke & I realize I don’t like you even a little.
I missed not walking on eggshells. Not constant fight or flight worrying something I do unknowingly will set you off or make you take your love away. I miss going out to have fun w the kids without having to clean the house for hours. I miss who I was before you. The strong woman who wouldn’t take some abusive mans CRAP.

Black Ivy

4y↑18

In my short time of being alive, I've had many people hurt me in various ways and try to change me. This song sealed my promise to myself to finally stop caring and bending to them. I am who I am. Thank you for writing such an amazing and empowering song Kelsea.

Linda Fields

45w

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lily Eickmeyer

Love this song 🎧

E L

2y↑9

I was in an abusive relationship for 2years. The 1st verse really hits me because I was not allowed to wear make up, cut/ tie/ dye my hair, no skirts, dresses, only a T-shirt that he chose with sweat pants, with only one pair of shoes. I know I was not happy but at the time it was more important to make him happy than myself. This March, I had to move away for work and the moment I landed at the airport I felt really free. I kept the relationship with him even long distance but as the days went on he became very aggressive and controlling even through the phone. I was physically away but my emotions revolved around him. I continued the relationship until last week when I finally realized that it is such a waste of time to be with someone who is not near me to support, care and treat me right. The last goodbye was tough. I cried so much but after I blocked him I felt so much better. All my friends and family are happy for me too. Now its been a week since I am single but I am much stronger as a person. I wish to find someone new but for now I want to appreciate the time with my friends

dreamy fairyytale

I love this song 😍

Jamie Hoofman

I Love this song!

Tina Keith

27w↑1

I relate to this song so much!!! Thank you for this song!!! This song is on my life’s soundtrack!!!

Karen_LizAnn

3y↑5

Fracking adore this song. It’s one of Kelsea’s best.

Sincerely, Lucy💗

1y↑3

So honest, so powerful, one of my jams🧡🧡🧡💪💪💪

Null

3y↑2

Such a great song! Reminds of myself and many experiences!

George Melvin

Smiles, hi there 🌺 😊

AestheticRoblox

2y↑2

Love this song!

MyWittsend3

3y↑1

Love ❤️ sent it to all my GF's that lost themselves in marriage, relationships, and just dating!

This will be #1!😘❤️😘

Sarah Grover

3y↑1

❤🧡💛💚💙💜💖 Love the song

Aqua Wolf

3y↑1

I love this song it's my JAM!!!😎

Aperson

2y↑2

Love this song 🎧 ❤️

Tammy Fanning

Absolutely live this song!
I left a 28 year abusive marriage to a man that I loved very much and just thought that was normal. For better or for worse, I figured it'd get better.
I finally told my dad, he literally cried and had received a donation card to womans shelter earlier that week. He told me to call, I had no idea there was help out there for small towns. I struggled and clawed my way out of the dark hole. Went to school and love my job. And now I'm going back to school to climb higher in my career. Found out my ex lost everything he held dear, and is living in a garage! Karma is a b$#@%... my therapist called me super woman, not many get out and still fight to keep going. I describe myself as a butterfly. The darkness during my struggle during the divorce was my cocoon and I emerged as a beautiful butterfly... loving life and definitely loving myself!

Tammy Fanning

Darn auto correct! Love not live

Katie Ogrinz

First time I ever heard of kelsea ballerini after watching a video on Facebook of a young blind boy receiving a special guitar from Kelsea Ballerini ! Thought that was amazing for what she did for him. Kelsea not only do you have a great singing voice but you have an even greater heart for kids and their disabilities and challenges.

Bee

It's been years since I got out of an abusive relationship and I'm still finding the parts of myself I was missing. I tried to talk to my mom about it but she says I was never abused because it didn't fit her definition of abuse. But I lost a lot of myself in that relationship and I'm not sure I can ever get some of it back

JeremyF4i

4y↑10

Wasn't sure what to expect with this song.. as I find a lot of current music is boring..
This song has a good message and I enjoyed it.. too many people lose themselves to be what others expect of them, and in the end, are lost when that person or people are no loner in their lives to tell them who they should be.
Be yourself and don't change for anyone, unless of course the change is to leave behind flaws or bad/harmful behavior.
be confident in yourself and be YOU.
as for this video.. there are other videos that use the same scenario of two personalities of the same person fighting eachother. sometimes it seems out of place, but this fit the message of the song..
and I especially appreciated proper boxing form and proper rotating of the fists.. too many people don't know how to throw a punch.
Looks like Kelsea either has some background / experience in boxing.. or at least respected the sport (or even viewers/fans) enough to get some pointers.. Nice.

Rashon Turner

2y↑4

This song hit the heart. I love it.
Best song for coming out a toxic relationship.

Sdancer

3y↑2

This song makes me think of every relationship that needed more love thanx Kelsea ballerini for making people feel inspired

discovr4me

2y↑1

Amazing!!! Great message I kind of get it.

George Melvin

Smiles, hi there, feels really great listening, how are you doing? 🌺 😊

sims hill

46w↑2

I came across this song checking out various music. The lyrics say to me that a woman reclaiming self. It should be every woman’s theme song 🎶 of self discovery. Great song…Great artist ! I love ❤️ music 🎶. What a feel good song 🥰

Iiiiiiii

Kelsea is just one of my favs, love this song❤️

Ruth Brunotte

Loved the lyrics, beat and video.

Gary Benade

3y↑5

This song resonates. Somewhere in all the madness I lost me

Amber Ashburn

3y↑1

Ben Carpenter

Love it

Christina Rachelle Rivera

4y↑128

Yessss!!!! This is so awesome. Thank you for not making a senseless music video just showing off and selling yourself short. THIS is strength, beauty, and meaning! Love it.

Hope Eggersdorf

4y↑1

Christina Rivera I love this song and agree lots! when u meet someone u like get ready to fight and stand up for yourself!

Amber Cockrell

👪🌷👦👦🌎🌎🌎🌎🎅☹🌎🌷😼🦃🐰👸🌸☹🌎👭🌸👦👦🏚🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃🎅🎅🎅🎅🎅🏚🌸🌸🌎🌷👭🦃👭🦃🏚

Autumn Redecker

1y↑1

Omg just now heard this for the first time you got this one getting me Motivated to getting back to College to further my career thank you very much 💯

Nikki Rowe

2y↑1

I love this song

Sandy West

Love it

Steven Hager

2y↑2

this song helped me at a really bad time. I hope nothing but more hits for her because this was genius songwriting.

Kelsea Ballerini

jessica duncombe

Love it 😍

Stay Strong

25w↑3

Just got out of a narcissist relationship. And it feels good to be me again. Love this song!!

Tammy Fanning

1y↑5

thecraftypolarbear

10w

i went to a concert and you were one of the opening acts you were amazing!

Patti Nelson

4y↑8

I've never heard this song before. I'm kind of out of the loop these days. I am a singrr/songwriter and I find this song amazing. It's so cool to find a song that you know is a hit the very first time you hear it. Great lyrics, great melody, great job, Kelsea!

Robert Yielding

Good voice and absolutely beautiful

Pamela Donnelly

I LOVE IT

Nicole Wickwire

OMG! She is amazing! Love her and LOVE THIS SONG!

Wolfie Ellie

Love this song

Kryslynn C

4y↑14

I never realized others would also feel the same way I have about this song. It has really helped me the past couple of months since leaving my narcissist boyfriend. Thank you for sharing your stories and giving me the courage to do so as well. Much love. Thank you Kelsea, I really needed this song.

Charmaine Page

25w

Ive sadly to say only just come across you as an artist im in uk and saw your performance with halsey online and this is the first song that it brought me to...as a fellow survivor to many here i echo what they say you nailed this song will be listening to you alot more from now on x