Notice how much lower, more controlled, and more mature Kendrick’s vocals sound on this song, as opposed to the higher, cracking voices he employed on the songs before (such as the immature anthem “Backseat Freestyle”), or the urgent tone used on “m.A.A.d city”. The song represents his decision to mature and his tone of voice is symbolic of that change he made.
Lamar told Complex in October 2012:
"That’s the start of me recognizing everything I was doing throughout that day, it wasn’t real. Everybody has their own perception of what a ‘real nigga’ is. Most of the time a real nigga is a street cat or someone putting in some type of work and doing violence. That’s what we thought they was. Someone who’s about that life. But on that record, it was me getting an understanding of what real is, and my pops breaking down on that record. It shows the influence he had on my life. Real is taking care of your family. Real is responsibility. Real is believing in a high power, believing in God. Real is having morals. Real is carrying yourself in a manner where you’re not influenced by anybody else. You have your own mind, your own outlook on life. You’re not doing what’s just the trend or doing what people want you to do."
Real
Kendrick Lamar Lyrics
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I say what I wanna say
When I feel, and I
Look in the mirror and know I'm there
With my hands in the air
I'm proud to say yeah
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I promise that I know you very well
Your eyes never lie even if they tell
Sweet lullabies that come with a smell
Of a dozen roses flippin' down the green hill
You living in a world that come with plan B
'Cause plan A never relay a guarantee
And plan C never could say just what it was
And your plans only can pan around love
You love him, you love them, you love her
You love so much, you love when love hurts
You love red-bottom and gold that say queen
You love hand-bag on the waist of your jean
You love French tip and trip that pay for
You love bank slip that tell you we paid more
You love a good hand whenever the card dealt
But what love got to do with it when you don't love yourself?
I do what I wanna do
I say what I wanna say
When I feel, and I
Look in the mirror and know I'm there
With my hands in the air
I'm proud to say yeah
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real ('cause before you know it, everything's gone)
I promise that I know you very well
Your eyes never lie even if they fell
Out the sky and your optics turn stale
Where they mold that's green
I can see you fit the bill
Of living in a world that come with Plan B
'Cause Plan A only can make another mistake
And you can't see success coming from plan C
When it all breaks you, you still say you're lovely
And love them and love when you love her
You love so much, you love when love hurts
You love fast cars and dead presidents old
You love fast women
You love keepin' control
Of everything you love, you love beef
You love streets, you love runnin', duckin' police
You love your hood, might even love it to death
But what love got to do with it when you don't love yourself?
I do what I wanna do
I say what I wanna say
When I feel, and I
Look in the mirror and know I'm there
With my hands in the air
I'm proud to say yeah
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real ('cause before you know it, everything's gone)
The reason why I know you very well
'Cause we have the same eyes can't you tell?
The days I tried to cover up and conceal
My pride, it only made it harder for me to deal
When living in a that come with plan B
A scapegoat 'cause plan A don't come free
And plan C just an excuse like because
Or the word "but", but what if I got love
I love them, I love when I love her
I love so much, I love when love hurts
I love first verse 'cause you're the girl I attract
I love second verse 'cause your the homie that packed
Burning like a stove top, they love cooking from scratch
I love what the both of you have to offer
In fact, I love it so much
I don't love anything else
But what love got to do with it when I don't love myself?
To the point I should hate everything I do love
Should I hate living my life inside the club?
Should I hate her for watching me for that reason?
Should I hate him for telling me that I'm seizin'?
Should I hate them for telling me ball out?
Should I hate street credibility I'm talkin' 'bout
Hatin' all money, power, respect in my will
Or hatin' the fact that none of that shit make me real?
Dot, I ain't trippin' off them dominoes no more
Just calling
Sorry to hear what happened to your homeboy
But don't learn the hard way like I did, homie
Any nigga can kill a man, that don't make you a real nigga
Real is responsibility
Real is taking care of your motherfucking family
Real is God, nigga
I do what I wanna do
I say what I wanna say
When I feel, and I
Look in the mirror and know I'm there
With my hands in the air
I'm proud to say yeah
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really, real
I'm real, I'm real
('Cause before you know it, everything's gone)
Alright, that's all I wanted to tell you
Just make sure you call us back when you get this message
Here go your mama
Boy, you better have my car on full all this time
You done had my damn car, but look I ain't trippin'
Look, the neighbors say they seen you and your little friends
Over there by Food for Less and they was preaching to you
Over there telling you about the good book
'Cause right about now that's what ya'll need
Oh, and Top Dawg called the house too
I guess he want you and Dave to come to the studio
Now look, you take that music business serious, yeah
Put out something me and your dad can step to
Shit, you know we from Chicago, you know that's what we do
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
Sing my song, it's all for you
If I don't hear from you by tomorrow
I hope you come back and learn from your mistakes
Come back a man
Tell your story to these black and brown kids in Compton
Let 'em know you was just like them
But you still rose from that dark place of violence
Becoming a positive person, but when you do make it
Give back with your words of encouragement
And that's the best way to give back, to your city
And I love you Kendrick
If I don't hear you knocking on the door
You know where I usually leave the key
Alright? Talk to you later, bye
In Kendrick Lamar’s song Real, he talks about the importance of self-love and not letting external factors such as money or fame define your worth. The opening lines, “I do what I wanna do, I say what I wanna say, when I feel,” are a testament to his resolve to be true to himself, regardless of the consequences. He reinforces the message of self-love in the refrain, “I’m real, I’m real, I’m really, really real,” driving home the point that realness is about being authentic and true to oneself.
The lyrics touch on the predicament of living in a world with multiple plans, where nothing is certain. Kendrick talks about how love can hurt and be a temporary escape, but one cannot sustain themselves by just loving and relying on external factors. He urges listeners to love themselves and take responsibility for their actions. He draws on personal experience, acknowledging his past mistakes (“The days I tried to cover up and conceal my pride”) and using them as a way to learn.
Towards the end of the song, the tone changes as his mother leaves a voicemail message, providing a different perspective on life. She advises Kendrick to use his music and story to make a positive impact on his community, to inspire and give back to those who are still struggling like he once was. The track ends with a message about responsibility and love.
Line by Line Meaning
I do what I wanna do
I have the freedom to make my own choices and decisions.
I say what I wanna say
I express my thoughts and opinions without holding back.
When I feel, and I
I am guided by my emotions and instincts.
Look in the mirror and know I'm there
I have a strong sense of identity and self-awareness.
With my hands in the air
I am proud and confident in who I am.
I'm proud to say yeah
I take pride in being true to myself.
I'm real, I'm real, I'm really, really real
I am authentic and genuine in all aspects of my life.
I promise that I know you very well
I have a deep understanding of who you are.
Your eyes never lie even if they tell
I can see the truth in your eyes, even if you try to hide it.
Sweet lullabies that come with a smell
Nurturing words and comfort that have a soothing effect.
Of a dozen roses flippin' down the green hill
Symbolic gesture of love and beauty, but with uncertainty and inconsistency.
You living in a world that come with plan B
You are accustomed to having backup plans due to the unpredictable nature of life.
'Cause plan A never relay a guarantee
The initial plan often doesn't provide a definite outcome.
And plan C never could say just what it was
Even the backup plans are uncertain and lack clarity.
And your plans only can pan around love
Love seems to be the common theme and motivation in your plans.
You love him, you love them, you love her
You have a strong capacity for love towards various people in your life.
You love so much, you love when love hurts
You are willing to endure pain and sacrifice for the sake of love.
You love red-bottom and gold they say queen
You are attracted to luxury and material possessions that symbolize status.
You love hand-bag on the waist of your jean
You enjoy accessorizing and showcasing your style.
You love french tip and trip that pay for
You appreciate beauty and indulging in experiences that you can afford.
You love bank slip that tell you we paid more
You find satisfaction in having evidence of spending a significant amount.
You love a good hand whenever the card dealt
You value having support and assistance when facing challenges.
But what love got to do with it when you don't love yourself?
Love from others is meaningless if you lack self-love and self-acceptance.
The reason why I know you very well
I have a deep understanding of who you are.
'Cause we have the same eyes can't you tell?
Our shared experiences and perspectives make me aware of your true self.
The days I tried to cover up and conceal
The times when I attempted to hide my true emotions and vulnerabilities.
My pride, it only made it harder for me to deal
My unwillingness to show weakness or ask for help created more difficulties.
You can't see success coming from plan C
Your backup plans are unlikely to lead to true success.
When it all breaks you, you still say you're lovely
Even in the face of hardship, you maintain a positive self-image.
And love them and love when you love her
You have the capacity to love both others and yourself.
You love so much, you love when love hurts
You are willing to endure pain and sacrifice for the sake of love.
You love fast cars and dead presidents old
You are attracted to wealth and the symbols of power and authority.
You love fast women, you love keepin' control
You enjoy having a sense of power and dominance in your relationships.
Of everything you love, you love beef
You thrive on conflict and drama in your life.
You love streets, you love runnin', duckin' police
You have an affinity for the thrill and danger associated with the streets.
You love your hood, might even love it to death
You have a deep loyalty and attachment to your neighborhood, even if it's detrimental.
But what love got to do with it when you don't love yourself?
Love from others is meaningless if you lack self-love and self-acceptance.
Dot, I ain't trippin' off them dominoes no more
I'm no longer concerned or affected by negative events or consequences.
Just calling
I'm reaching out to you.
Sorry to hear what happened to your homeboy
I empathize with the difficulties your friend experienced.
But don't learn the hard way like I did, homie
Avoid making the same mistakes I made and learn from my experiences.
Any nigga can kill a man, that don't make you a real nigga
Committing violence doesn't define one's true character or integrity.
Real is responsibility
Being real means taking on and fulfilling one's responsibilities.
Real is taking care of your motherfucking family
Being real involves prioritizing and supporting one's family.
Real is God, nigga
True authenticity is found in spirituality and connection with a higher power.
Alright, that's all I wanted to tell you
I have shared all the important information I wanted to convey.
Just make sure you call us back when you get this message
Please respond to this message when you have the opportunity.
Here go your mama
Your mother is also on the line.
Boy, you better have my car on full all this time
I expect you to have filled up the gas tank in the car during the time you had it.
You done had my damn car, but look I ain't trippin'
Although you had my car, it doesn't bother me too much.
Look, the neighbors say they seen you and your little friends
According to the neighbors, they saw you and your friends.
Over there by Food for Less and they was preaching to you
They were sharing their beliefs and trying to influence you.
Over there telling you about the good book
They were discussing and sharing teachings from religious scriptures.
'Cause right about now that's what ya'll need
At this moment, you can benefit from spiritual guidance.
Oh, and Top Dawg called the house too
The head of our record label also tried to reach you at home.
I guess he want you and Dave to come to the studio
He wants you and Dave to visit the recording studio.
Now look, you take that music business serious, yeah
Take your music career seriously, it's important.
Put out something me and your dad can step to
Release a song that both your mother and I can enjoy and dance to.
Shit, you know we from Chicago, you know that's what we do
As Chicago natives, dancing is an important part of our culture.
Sing my song, it's all for you
The song I'm asking you to create is dedicated to you.
If I don't hear from you by tomorrow
If I don't receive a response from you by tomorrow
I hope you come back and learn from your mistakes
I wish for you to return and grow from the errors you've made.
Come back a man
Return as a mature and responsible individual.
Tell your story to these black and brown kids in Compton
Share your experiences and inspire the youth in our community.
Let 'em know you was just like them
Inform them that you once faced the same challenges as them.
But you still rose from that dark place of violence
You managed to overcome the violence and adversity that surrounded you.
Becoming a positive person, but when you do make it
Transforming into a positive individual, but when you achieve success
Give back with your words of encouragement
Use your success to uplift and motivate others.
And that's the best way to give back, to your city
Supporting and inspiring your hometown is the most meaningful form of giving back.
And I love you Kendrick
I have deep love and affection for you, Kendrick.
If I don't hear you knocking on the door
If I don't receive a visit or communication from you
You know where I usually leave the key
You are aware of the usual location where I hide the key.
Alright? Talk to you later, bye
Okay? We'll talk later, goodbye.
Lyrics © Royalty Network
Written by: Kendrick Duckworth, Marlon Williams, Terrace Martin
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@MeechyMan2380
I lost my father at 19, so when his dad was talkin to him it made me cry, those words are the type of stuff my dad would tell me, and i miss him so much, as a 40 year old man i still need to hear those type of thing from him, love you pops, imma always be real, god first, then yourself, then family...peace
@krishnalackner4511
😓
@Halo5117MR131A
u greatest man. everything is done
@Flo_Resolution
sry for your loss, rip yo dad
@user-ld9fi4uc2z
i know its tough but glad you made through it, everyone experiences it one day
@Sour-7
Amen brother just gotta know that you’ll see him again and remember what he taught you I feel you!
@marcotrolll
"But what love got to do with it when you don't love yourself"
Real Pain
@shridharambady2069
I'm getting this line tattooed on my leg.
@famguy218
Almost every "left the ghetto" story is consistent with having good family ties and encouraging to stay off the streets. Kendrick is definitely one of my favorite new rappers.
@VladimirPutin-wt5yh
You just predicted his single track from 2021