You Don't Know Me
Kenny Loggins Lyrics


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You give your hand to me
And then you say, "Hello."
And I can hardly speak,
My heart is beating so.
And anyone can tell
You think you know me well.
Well, you don't know me.
No you don't know the one
Who dreams of you at night;
And longs to kiss your lips
And longs to hold you tight
Oh I'm just a friend.
That's all I've ever been.
Cause you don't know me.

For I never knew the art of making love,
Though my heart aches with love for you.
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by.
A chance that you might love me too.

You give your hand to me,
And then you say, "Goodbye."
I watched you walk away,
Beside the lucky guy
Oh, you'll never ever know
The one who loved you so.
Well, you don't know me

For I never knew the art of making love,
Though my heart aches with love for you.
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by.
A chance that you might love me too.

Oh, you give your hand to me,
And then you say, "Goodbye."
I watched you walk away,
Beside the lucky guy
Oh, you'll never ever know




The one who loved you so.
Well, you don't know me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Kenny Loggins's song "You Don't Know Me" tell the story of a person who has unrequited love for someone else. The song expresses their struggle to keep their feelings hidden and ultimately losing their chance to express their love. The lyrics suggest that the person they love thinks they know them well, but in reality, they don't even know the depth of their love for them. The opening verse of the song demonstrates the nervousness and excitement felt when in the presence of the person they love, "You give your hand to me, and then you say hello, and I can hardly speak, my heart is beating so." The lyrics also show the singer's desire for intimacy, "Who dreams of you at night; and longs to kiss your lips and longs to hold you tight," but ultimately reveals their fear of rejection, "Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by. A chance that you might love me too."


Overall, "You Don't Know Me" portrays the difficulty of expressing one's feelings to someone when afraid of rejection. The song evokes emotions of longing, sadness, and regret, which are relatable to many.


Line by Line Meaning

You give your hand to me
You greet me kindly, with a handshake


And then you say, "Hello."
You greet me with a warm and familiar salutation


And I can hardly speak,
I am so filled with emotion that I am nearly speechless


My heart is beating so.
My heart is racing with excitement and love


And anyone can tell
It is obvious to anyone


You think you know me well.
You believe that you understand who I am


Well, you don't know me.
But the reality is that you do not truly know me


No you don't know the one
You are not aware of the individual


Who dreams of you at night;
Who spends their nights dreaming of being with you


And longs to kiss your lips
Who deeply desires to taste your lips


And longs to hold you tight.
And yearns to embrace you tightly


Oh I'm just a friend.
Despite these feelings, I am only considered a friend


That's all I've ever been.
I have never been anything more to you


Cause you don't know me.
Because you lack a true understanding of who I am


For I never knew the art of making love,
I have never been skilled in expressing my love physically


Though my heart aches with love for you.
Despite this inability, my heart still overflows with love for you


Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by.
My insecurities have made me too fearful to pursue a romantic relationship with you


A chance that you might love me too.
I regret not taking the risk of telling you how I felt, in case there was a chance you felt the same


Oh, you give your hand to me,
As we part ways


And then you say, "Goodbye."
You bid me farewell with kindness and respect


I watched you walk away,
I stood there and observed as you departed


Beside the lucky guy
Alongside the individual who has won your affection


Oh, you'll never ever know
You will never be aware of the extent of my love for you


The one who loved you so.
The one who cherished and adored you deeply


Well, you don't know me.
But despite all of this, you still do not truly know me




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Cindy Walker, Eddy Arnold

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Lumpy McPhoomph

Kenny's version of this song was the first I heard, all those years ago, and I immediately began covering it in my solo gigs around New England. In the years since, I've heard a number of other renditions... Ray Charles,  Lenny Welch, Harry Connick Jr., etc., but I always seem to come back to Kenny's take on the tune - and it remains my favorite.

GizmoFromPizmo

I think it's from the "Celebrate Me Home" album, isn't it? I loved that album. I made a cassette tape of it and played the beans out of it in my car.

Susan Messer

one of the best albums ever made. I have listened and enjoyed this thousands of times

Less Is Moor

I met her in 1977, married her in 1984, lost her to cancer in 2017.... She knew me.
Kenny's music meant so much to both of us.
I miss her so.

becky g

The best rendition of a sweet, sweet song. Love Kenny!!!

david W

We sold almost 3000 copies of this album when it came out..we were the 2nd largest record outlet in the midwest at the time..It received a lot of airplay. I really loved this album even it wasn't my usual cup of tea...thanks Kenny

Mark Olson

Was it Camelot Music? That's where I discovered this album.

becky g

This album and I go way way back....hours of great listening.

Russ Burridge

My favorite version for so many years ,so smooth

pocunkinukcamia

This is the sweetest song

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