I Don't Call Him Daddy
Kenny Rogers Lyrics


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It was six in the morning
When I made the county line
There's someone I got to talk to
I can't get it off my mind

He's just a kid
And he's in a pretty rough spot
Two dimes to make a phone call
That's about all I've got

How's my boy today?
I know it's been three weeks
But you know how far I've got to go
To make those loose ends meet

How's your mama now
With her new live-in friend
Oh how I hate the wounds
That never seem to mend

[Chorus:]
And he says I don't call him daddy
but he takes care of things
When you pick me up on Friday
Are you gonna bring me anything?
Oh don't worry dad ya know
It don't matter what we do
I don't call him daddy
He could never be like you
Never be like you

God bless their little hearts
They're the ones who really pay
When mom and dad can't get along




And go their seperate ways
In a way I'm glad there's someone
There to fill the empty place
Tears of understanding
Streak down a dirty face

[Chorus]

He is quite a little man
Growing up as fast as he can
And I don't get to see him
Half as much as I had planned
There's so much I need to tell him
So precious little time
A little rain on the window
In a little way goodbye

[Chorus x2]

Overall Meaning

The song "I Don't Call Him Daddy" by Kenny Rogers is about a father who is absent from his son's life due to his financial struggles. The song opens with the father driving to cross the county line to call his son, who is in a tough situation, with only a couple of dimes to make a phone call. The son asks about his mother and how she is doing with her new live-in boyfriend which the father seems to be uncomfortable with. The father is heartbroken by the fact that he can't be with his son every day and asks if his son's caretaker is taking good care of him. The chorus highlights the fact that the son does not call his caretaker (boyfriend or step-father figure) as "daddy", because he could never be like his real dad.


The song expresses the painful reality of how broken families affect the children involved. The father is grateful that there is someone there to fill the empty place where he should be, but he still profoundly misses his son. The song portrays how financially struggling parents face the challenge of staying actively involved in their children's lives, leading to a deeply emotional and sometimes unbridgeable rift between the parent and their child. The song highlights the importance of parental responsibility, love, and involvement in the child's life.


Line by Line Meaning

It was six in the morning
It was early in the morning


When I made the county line
When I crossed the county line


There's someone I got to talk to
There's someone I need to talk to


I can't get it off my mind
I can't stop thinking about it


He's just a kid
My son is still a child


And he's in a pretty rough spot
He is going through a difficult time


Two dimes to make a phone call
I only have enough change for a short phone call


That's about all I've got
That's all the money I have


How's my boy today?
How is my son doing today?


I know it's been three weeks
I haven't seen him in three weeks


But you know how far I've got to go
You know how far away I am


To make those loose ends meet
To make ends meet


How's your mama now
How is your mother doing now?


With her new live-in friend
With her new partner who lives with her


Oh how I hate the wounds
I hate the emotional pain


That never seem to mend
That never seem to heal


And he says I don't call him daddy
My son tells me he doesn't refer to his stepfather as dad


but he takes care of things
But his stepfather takes care of him


When you pick me up on Friday
When you come to get me on Friday


Are you gonna bring me anything?
Are you going to bring me any gifts?


Oh don't worry dad ya know
Don't worry, dad, you know


It don't matter what we do
It doesn't matter what we do together


He could never be like you
He could never replace you


God bless their little hearts
God bless them


They're the ones who really pay
They're the ones who are most affected


When mom and dad can't get along
When parents can't get along


And go their separate ways
And separate from each other


In a way I'm glad there's someone
In a way, I'm glad there is a stepfather


There to fill the empty place
There to fill the void of a missing father figure


Tears of understanding
Crying out of empathy


Streak down a dirty face
Tears run down a dirty face


He is quite a little man
He's growing up fast


Growing up as fast as he can
Growing up quickly


And I don't get to see him
I don't get to see him often


Half as much as I had planned
Only half as much as I had hoped


There's so much I need to tell him
There is so much I want to say to him


So precious little time
So little time together


A little rain on the window
A little rain on the car window


In a little way goodbye
In a small way, saying goodbye


[Chorus x2]
Repeat the chorus twice




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Written by: REED NIELSEN

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Comments from YouTube:

MikePlayzGuitar

This song makes me cry... :'( I grew up with divorced parents. The emotional torment on you is horrible. :'(

Lakeside Inglês para todos

I feel exactly the same way

Ruben salas rangel

Gran interpretacion de esta cancion, llamada en español, No le llamo Papi, por el legendario Kenny Rogers.

محمود دياب

each and evry time I listen to this hit ,Kenny , I can t stop cryin since 1990 .

Lucrezia Quoti

Well,if my single mom ever decides to start dating and she meets a good man,I would be glad to start calling him "Daddy",since my actual "dad" has never been there for me.

redneck chainsaw

Goodbye Kenny we are all going to miss you. I loved your music and loved you in the movie "6 pack". sadly all good things come to an end but we know the lord Jesus is taking care of you now.

Monkey Mom

❤ THIS SONG

Patrick Muiruri

Nostalgic 2019 still listening

jaime ibañez

Nostalgic 2020 still listening

gooner

A fellow Kenyan and namesake on the comments section.

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