Can't Help Lovin' that Man of Mine
Kern/Hammerstein Lyrics
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I love my mister man and I can't tell you why
There ain't no reason why I should love that man
It must be somethin' that the angels done plan
Fish gotta swim
Birds gotta fly
I gotta love one man till I die
Tell me he's lazy
Tell me he's slow
Tell me I'm crazy, maybe, I know
Can't help lovin' that man of mine
When he goes away
That's a rainy day
But when he comes back that day is fine
The sun will shine
He can come home as late as can be
Home without him ain't no home to me
Can't help lovin' that man of mine
In Kern/Hammerstein's song "Can't Help Lovin' that Man of Mine," the singer sings to her sister about her love for her, perhaps, troublesome man. She confesses that she loves him without knowing why she should, and that maybe it was predestined by the angels. She then compares her love to fundamental laws of nature, saying that just as fish must swim and birds must fly, she must love him until the end of her life.
The singer continues by inviting her sister to criticize her lover, stating that she knows he's lazy and slow, and that she may be crazy for loving him. In the end, she declares that her love for him is unconditional and that she can't help but love him despite his perceived shortcomings. She longs for him when he's not around, and his presence brings sunshine into her life.
"Can't Help Lovin' that Man of Mine" was first featured in the 1927 musical "Showboat," which was based on a novel of the same name by Edna Ferber. The musical was revolutionary for its time as it combined several musical styles, including operetta, jazz, and blues, and addressed serious social issues, such as racial discrimination.
Line by Line Meaning
Oh listen, sister
Hey, sister, listen up
I love my mister man and I can't tell you why
I don't have a logical explanation but I just love my man
There ain't no reason why I should love that man
There's no logical reason why I should be in love with that man
It must be somethin' that the angels done plan
It could be a divine plan, something out of my control and preordained by higher powers
Fish gotta swim
Fish have to swim since it's part of their nature
Birds gotta fly
It's natural and instinctual for birds to fly
I gotta love one man till I die
I feel compelled to love the same man for my entire lifetime
Can't help lovin' that man of mine
I just can't stop loving my man
Tell me he's lazy
Try to convince me he's lazy
Tell me he's slow
Try to convince me he's slow
Tell me I'm crazy, maybe, I know
You might call me crazy, but I'm aware of that possibility
Can't help lovin' that man of mine
Still, I can't help but love him
When he goes away
When he's not around
That's a rainy day
I feel down and sad when he's gone
But when he comes back that day is fine
When he's back, everything becomes great again
The sun will shine
Life looks brighter and happier when he's around
He can come home as late as can be
No matter how late he comes home
Home without him ain't no home to me
My home is not complete without him in it
Can't help lovin' that man of mine
Still, I can't help but love him
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Jerome Kern, Oscar Ii Hammerstein
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Lyrics
Oh listen, sister
I love my mister man
And I can't tell you why
There ain't no reason why I should love that man
It must be something that the angels did plan
The chimney's smoking
The roof is leaking in
But he don't seem to care
He can be happy with just a sip of gin
I even love him when his kisses got gin
Fish got to swim, birds got to fly
I got to love one man 'til I die
Can't help loving that man of mine
Tell me he's lazy, tell me he's slow
Tell me I'm crazy (maybe I know)
Can't help loving that man of mine
When he goes away that's a rainy day
And when he comes back that day is fine
The sun will shine
He can come home as late as can be
Home without him ain't no home to me
Can't help loving that man of mine
@frenchfries427
Oh, listen, sista
I love my mista man
And I can't tell you why
There ain't no reason
For me to love that man
It must be something
That the angels done play
Fish gotta swim, birds gotta fly
I gotta love one man 'til I die
Can't help loving that man of mine
Tell me he's lazy, tell me he's slow
Tell me I'm crazy, maybe, I know
Can't help loving that man of mine
When he goes away
That's a rainy day
But when he comes back
That day is fine
The sun will shine
He can come home
As late as can be
Home without him
Ain't no home to me
Can't help loving that man of mine
@mariaddis9341
I'm 46 and we sang this in Show Choir at my high school! I can still jingle a tune in the shower and in the car.
@pharaohkt81
My grandmother sang this to my grandfather in his final days. Such a sad love story. Grammy Kitty is a champ. She couldnt help it. Loved my papa.
@jennsmiles3633
I am a home health aid. And my client used to sing this and she learned how to fly this morning.flay high and rest easy
@sfden50
Ella OWNS any song she does - The BEST
@davidallen2518
Ella's voice makes you forget about life's problems.
@teresariestenberg8848
A true classic. Written by a musical theatre legend and sung by a legend.
@pamtebelman2321
Was just thinking about the similarities between Jewish music and African-American music, and the beauty of the minor and major chords complimenting each other. This song exemplifies that powerful beauty.
@labuenavida2572
Silky-smooth as only Ms. Ella's sound is. Uniquely blessed.
@shanedeleon5376
That high note... her pitch was always sensational, but that was outstanding. She sang that one like a french horn.
@leoseries
Showboat is my favourite musical. I have seen many performances and heard many versions of this song but I have never heard the word "DAT" in the lyrics.