It's Only Your Life
Kevin Devine Lyrics


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You wrestle yourself to the ground
You springboard and kick yourself in the mouth
'Cause all of that drama, that embarrassed charade
Couldn't stop you or settle you down

So you got back with your black hole
And you don't care who's out there or who knows
'Cause you're spent and you're sad
'Cause you've bronzed it, it's your badge
And you've fixed it to all of your clothes
Every T-shirt and overcoat

So it's with you through hot or cold
But I would tear it from the cloth
Yeah, I would tear it from the cloth
Grow up and knock it off

'Cause there's a world awake outside
With injustice and with music and with July, July
With history's arc, with your family, with art
But it don't mean nothing, not to you, not tonight

'Cause you can't see past the length of your nose
The biggest problems you're sure they're your own
That girl you cut loose, those two friends that cursed you
And all that powder that you can't leave alone

And you say you know, you know, you know

But I know that you don't, you don't, you don't
If you did you'd really try
If you did you'd really try to let all that die

So marry yourself to your work
And crowd your confusion with words
Then round out your life with some boy you might like
While you bury your love in the dirt

'Cause it's endless the ditch you can dig
You're stubborn and you're prideful and you're all over it
So I suggest you make sense of the time you've got left
So you don't end up back where you've been

And you say you won't, you won't, you won't
And I hope that you don't, you don't, you don't
If you mean it then stand up and fight
If you mean it then stand up and fight
I mean it's only your life

I mean it's only your life
To fix or ruin, to figure what to do with
It's only your life




To fix or ruin 'cause no one else is gonna do it
It's only your life

Overall Meaning

The song "It's Only Your Life" by Kevin Devine is a song about self-destruction and self-awareness. The lyrics talk about someone who is struggling with personal issues and using outside distractions, such as drugs and relationships, to avoid confronting their problems. They are stuck in their own problems and can't seem to see past their own self-interest. There's a sense of frustration in the lyrics towards someone who is not willing to take responsibility for their actions and who keeps falling into the same patterns.


The lyrics suggest that there is a whole world out there that is waiting to be explored but the person in question is unable to see it because they're too focused on their own issues. It's as if they are stuck in a cycle, repeating the same mistakes over and over again. The line "you're stubborn and you're prideful and you're all over it" sums it up perfectly. The person is unable to step back and look at their situation from a different angle and to learn from their mistakes.


Despite the sense of frustration in the lyrics, there is also a sense of hope. The song suggests that it's not too late to change and take control. The line "it's only your life to fix or ruin, to figure what to do with" is a call to action. It's up to the individual to take responsibility and decide what to do with their life.


Line by Line Meaning

You wrestle yourself to the ground
You struggle with your own thoughts and emotions, and it's taking a toll on you


You springboard and kick yourself in the mouth
You constantly undermine and hurt yourself


'Cause all of that drama, that embarrassed charade Couldn't stop you or settle you down
Even though your past mistakes and setbacks were painful, you refuse to let them define you or break you


So you got back with your black hole
You returned to your negative habits and ways of coping, despite knowing they're harmful


And you don't care who's out there or who knows
You've given up on trying to impress or please others, and maybe even yourself


'Cause you're spent and you're sad
You're emotionally drained and unhappy


'Cause you've bronzed it, it's your badge And you've fixed it to all of your clothes Every T-shirt and overcoat
You've turned your suffering and pain into a symbol of identity and worn it proudly, without realizing how unhealthy and limiting it is


So it's with you through hot or cold But I would tear it from the cloth Yeah, I would tear it from the cloth Grow up and knock it off
You carry this baggage and negativity with you everywhere, but someone who cares about you wants you to let it go and move on


'Cause there's a world awake outside With injustice and with music and with July, July With history's arc, with your family, with art But it don't mean nothing, not to you, not tonight
Despite the beauty and possibilities of the world, you can't appreciate or engage with them right now because you're consumed by your own problems


'Cause you can't see past the length of your nose The biggest problems you're sure they're your own That girl you cut loose, those two friends that cursed you And all that powder that you can't leave alone
You're stuck in a self-centered and self-destructive mindset, where your own personal issues are all you can see and think about


And you say you know, you know, you know But I know that you don't, you don't, you don't If you did you'd really try If you did you'd really try to let all that die
You claim to understand and have control over your problems, but someone who cares about you thinks you're still in denial and resistant to change


So marry yourself to your work And crowd your confusion with words Then round out your life with some boy you might like While you bury your love in the dirt
You're distracting yourself from your troubles by throwing yourself into work, using language and ideas to obscure your feelings, and pursuing romantic relationships as a way to avoid dealing with your own issues


'Cause it's endless the ditch you can dig You're stubborn and you're prideful and you're all over it So I suggest you make sense of the time you've got left So you don't end up back where you've been
You're stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage and negative self-talk, and it's up to you to break free from it and create a better future for yourself


And you say you won't, you won't, you won't And I hope that you don't, you don't, you don't If you mean it then stand up and fight If you mean it then stand up and fight I mean it's only your life
You might be resistant to making changes and improving your situation, but someone who cares about you wants you to take control of your life and make it the best it can be


I mean it's only your life To fix or ruin, to figure what to do with It's only your life To fix or ruin 'cause no one else is gonna do it It's only your life
Ultimately, it's up to you to determine what to do with your life, whether to improve it or destroy it, because no one else can do it for you




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: KEVIN PATRICK DEVINE

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