If They Only Knew
Kiss Kiss Lyrics


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And they came up slow
They pushed to the back
And left marks on your soul
I thought that love was my chance to grow
But now it's gone
And I'm worse then before

I regret those words
That I spoke to you
To look good for the room

And all of these things we do to ourselves
They will never fadeThey'll marks on the world

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Kiss Kiss's song If They Only Knew paint a vivid imagery of the aftermath of a toxic relationship. The opening lines, "And they came up slow/They pushed to the back/And left marks on your soul," portrays how the memories of the relationship slowly crept up on the singer, causing both physical and emotional scars that they can never erase. The following lines, "I thought that love was my chance to grow/But now it's gone/And I'm worse than before," show the regret and pain that the singer feels towards the relationship, realizing that it did not serve as a stepping stone towards personal growth but instead worsened their current state.


The next verse, "I regret those words/That I spoke to you/To look good for the room," highlights the theme of insecurity and the pressure of performing for others. The singer, in an attempt to impress people or appear better than they actually are, said hurtful things to their partner, ultimately damaging the relationship. The final lines, "And all of these things we do to ourselves/They will never fade/They'll marks on the world," suggest that the aftermath of the relationship is not just internal but external as well. The trauma and hurt caused by the relationship will leave a mark on the singer's identity and possibly affect how they engage with the world.


Overall, Kiss Kiss's If They Only Knew is a poignant and honest reflection of the aftermath of a toxic relationship. The lyrics deeply resonate with listeners who have experienced the pain of love gone wrong and serve as a reminder that we should always strive to maintain healthy and genuine connections with the people in our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

And they came up slow
The people who hurt you took their time to do so, stepping forward with caution


They pushed to the back
After causing pain, the hurtful people retreated to safety and obscurity


And left marks on your soul
Their actions left emotional scars that will never fully heal


I thought that love was my chance to grow
Love was once seen as an opportunity for personal growth and development


But now it's gone
Love is no longer present, bringing feelings of loss and emptiness


And I'm worse than before
Without love, things are worse than they were before the illusion of love


I regret those words
Remorse is felt for past hurtful words spoken


That I spoke to you
The harmful words were directed at the person being addressed here


To look good for the room
The hurtful words were spoken to impress others in the vicinity, not to express true feelings


And all of these things we do to ourselves
Our own self-destructive behavior contributes to our pain and suffering


They will never fade
The effects of our actions on ourselves and others will last forever


They'll marks on the world
Our actions leave a lasting impact on the world around us




Writer(s): BENASH JOSHUA MATTHEW

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