Never Get Mad
Knightly Lyrics
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I get a little more sad
Time gets a little bit tipsy
Somedays we'll never get back
Nights get a little bit louder
And I know you don't even bother
When neighbors are calling and calling
Cause they heard it allI wanna believe that you even care
And you owe it to me to be fair
Why do I even stay in this empty place
Maybe I should just go and leave you here
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
And I'm never like that but I get like that with you
And I never get lost but I get so lost in you
Baby
I never get mad
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
I get a little more tied
You get a little more gone
When you gotta get attention
From someone I don't know
Nights get a little bit colder
And maybe I'm making a scene
But you get a little impatient
You know what I mean
I wanna believe that you even care
And you owe it to me to be fair
Why do you even stay in this empty place
Maybe I should just go and leave you here
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
And I'm never like that but I get like that with you
And I never get lost but I get so lost in you
BabyI never get mad
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
And I'm never like that but I get like that with you
And I never get lost but I get so lost in you
Baby
I never get mad
I never get mad but I get so mad
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
And I'm never like that but I get like that with you
And I never get lost but I get so lost in you
Baby
I never get mad
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
In "Never Get Mad," Knightly explores the complexities of relational dynamics, particularly revolving around feelings of frustration and sadness that arise when communication falters. The song opens with a vivid portrayal of how life’s busyness affects both partners. The contrast between the singer's growing sadness and their partner's increasing detachment sets the stage for a tumultuous emotional landscape. As time becomes a little "tipsy," it signifies instability—not just in their relationship but also in their individual lives. The mention of missed moments, described as "somedays we'll never get back," highlights the irretrievable nature of time and the shared experiences that could have strengthened their bond. This acknowledgment serves as a painful reminder of what once was, infusing the lyrics with a sense of longing and an emphasis on past intimacy.
The chorus becomes a pivotal point where the singer grapples with contradictions within their emotions. At first, they claim, “I never get mad,” which suggests a desire for peace and stability within themselves. However, the duality of emotions becomes apparent as they express, “but I get so mad at you.” This inner conflict illustrates the struggle to maintain composure against feelings of betrayal or neglect, particularly as the partner seeks attention from "someone I don't know." The shift in tone showcases not only the singer's frustration but also the realization that their once-steadfast demeanor is crumbling under the weight of their circumstances. Repetition of this emotional dichotomy emphasizes the profound effect the partner has on them, clearly showcasing how love can elicit both strength and vulnerability.
As the song progresses, imagery around loneliness and emotional coldness emerges, further elaborating on the singer's feelings. Phrases like “nights get a little bit colder” indicate a growing emotional distance, revealing how much their partner’s absence affects their internal climate. The line about possibly making a scene suggests a fear of confrontation, reflecting the singer's internalized feelings regarding the state of their relationship. The recurring query, “Why do I even stay in this empty place?” serves as significant self-reflection—highlighting uncertainty within the relationship. It evokes questions of loyalty, attachment, and the fear of being alone. The singer's internal battle becomes a tangible aspect as they contemplate leaving, emphasizing the push and pull of hope and despair within relationships that are not thriving.
Ultimately, Knightly encapsulates the struggle between love and anger, showcasing how feelings can be both deeply consuming and contradictory. The repeated insistence, “I never get mad but I get so mad at you,” signifies how deeply intertwined their emotions are with these dynamics. The singer reflects an almost resigned acceptance to the fact that love can drive individuals to emotional extremes; they recognize that the love they have for their partner simultaneously makes them vulnerable to pain. They are lost in their feelings—a juxtaposition of being content yet restless. This powerful narrative serves to remind listeners that relationships often walk a fine line between harmony and chaos, and sometimes, love can be the source of both joy and anguish, leaving one to question the very foundation upon which they stand.
Line by Line Meaning
You get a little more busy
Your schedule becomes increasingly hectic, leaving less time for us.
I get a little more sad
As you become consumed by your commitments, my sense of loneliness intensifies.
Time gets a little bit tipsy
Time feels distorted or chaotic, slipping away from us unpredictably.
Somedays we'll never get back
We experience moments that seem irretrievable, emphasizing the fleeting nature of time.
Nights get a little bit louder
The atmosphere becomes more overwhelming, perhaps filled with noise that reflects our turmoil.
And I know you don't even bother
I realize that you seem dismissive or indifferent about our situation.
When neighbors are calling and calling
Outside parties are aware of our issues, highlighting that our struggles are visible to others.
Cause they heard it all
The problems we face are no longer private; they resonate beyond the confines of our home.
I wanna believe that you even care
I wish I could trust that you still have concern for our relationship.
And you owe it to me to be fair
I feel you have an obligation to treat me justly, given our past.
Why do I even stay in this empty place
I question my decision to remain in a relationship that feels devoid of fulfillment.
Maybe I should just go and leave you here
I'm contemplating whether to walk away from this relationship entirely.
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
I typically remain calm, yet your actions provoke a deep anger in me.
And I'm never like that but I get like that with you
I usually maintain composure, but your presence elicits a different reaction.
And I never get lost but I get so lost in you
I rarely feel disoriented, yet my emotions become tangled when it comes to you.
Baby
A term of endearment that underscores my affection despite the turmoil.
I never get mad
I pride myself on my ability to stay composed in difficult situations.
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
Despite my usual restraint, your behavior pushes me to the brink of anger.
I get a little more tied
I feel increasingly entangled or restricted by the dynamics of our situation.
You get a little more gone
Your emotional or physical presence feels more distant as time goes on.
When you gotta get attention
You seek validation or recognition from others outside of our relationship.
From someone I don't know
This need for attention comes from individuals who are unfamiliar to me, adding to my discomfort.
Nights get a little bit colder
The emotional atmosphere grows more detached, further alienating us from each other.
And maybe I'm making a scene
I realize that my reactions or feelings may appear exaggerated or dramatic to outsiders.
But you get a little impatient
I sense your growing frustration with my feelings or the current state of affairs.
You know what I mean
I believe you understand the unspoken emotions underlying our interactions.
I wanna believe that you even care
I truly desire to think that you still value our relationship.
And you owe it to me to be fair
I expect you to treat me with the fairness that any partner would deserve.
Why do you even stay in this empty place
I question your motives for remaining in a relationship that feels unfulfilling.
Maybe I should just go and leave you here
I'm considering whether it's better to leave you in this state rather than continue to feel trapped.
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
I pride myself on my composure, yet your actions incite unexpected anger in me.
And I'm never like that but I get like that with you
Typically, my demeanor is calm, but you have the unique ability to change that.
And I never get lost but I get so lost in you
I generally have a clear sense of direction in life, but with you, I experience confusion.
Baby
Affectionate acknowledgment of the bond we share amid the chaos.
I never get mad
I emphasize my typical ability to stay composed.
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
Despite my usual calmness, your actions stir feelings of anger within me.
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
I reiterate that my typical emotional state is one of calmness, but your behavior provokes me.
And I'm never like that but I get like that with you
I emphasize that this frustration is uniquely triggered by our relationship.
And I never get lost but I get so lost in you
My strong sense of self tends to fade when I navigate the complexities of our connection.
Baby
Recalling the affection that binds us together in the midst of confusion.
I never get mad
Reaffirming my typical emotional stability.
I never get mad but I get so mad at you
Despite my normal restraint, your actions bring out an unexpected anger from within me.
Lyrics © O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Ruby Spiro
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