Teach Me How Love Goes
Kris Allen Lyrics


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Is there somewhere that I need to go
And is there someone to teach me how love goes
'Cause I just can't believe
That this is how it's supposed to be
I've had enough
And I don't wanna believe
That love is just a dream
And now we're waking up
So is there someone
To teach me how love goes

Is there some way to get back to May
Yes, and is there someone to show me the way
'Cause I forgot how she
Is pretty even when she has just woken up
And I forgot how we
Can't make it through the evening without making love
So is there someone to teach me how love goes

Father told me, son, we’ll never really know
So maybe life is just a lesson after all
But I can't wait that long to know
God, what's the secret
Oh, teach me how love goes

Is it in the words I say, is it in the things I do
Is there a way to let her know she's the way I make it through

Is it in the words I say (the words I say)
Is it in the things I do (the things I'll do)
Is there a way to let her know she's the way I make it through





Is there someone to teach me how love goes?

Overall Meaning

In Kris Allen's "Teach Me How Love Goes," he sings about feeling lost and unsure about love. He wonders if there's somewhere he needs to go or someone who can teach him how love works because he can't believe that what he's experiencing is how it's supposed to be. He's had enough of feeling confused and wants to believe that love isn't just a dream. He wants to remember what it felt like to be in love, to be able to notice the small things about his partner, and to feel confident about expressing his love. The chorus repeats the question of whether there's someone who can teach him how love goes. The lines "Father told me, son, we'll never really know / So maybe life is just a lesson after all / But I can't wait that long to know / God, what's the secret / Oh, teach me how love goes" speak to Allen's desperation to understand love and not just wait around for life's lessons to reveal themselves to him.


One interpretation of the song is that it's about the complexities of love and relationships. It's easy to get lost and unsure of what's happening, and it can be difficult to navigate the unpredictable nature of love. Despite this, Allen is willing to learn and yearns for someone to show him the way. The song also touches on the idea that sometimes the magic of love can fade with time and it takes effort to remember why you fell in love in the first place.


Line by Line Meaning

Is there somewhere that I need to go
Am I missing out on something important? Is there a place or experience that would teach me about love?


And is there someone to teach me how love goes
I need guidance to understand how to navigate love and relationships. Is there a person who can show me?


'Cause I just can't believe
I'm struggling to accept that this is what love is supposed to be like.


That this is how it's supposed to be
I can't wrap my head around the idea that love should be this difficult or unfulfilling.


I've had enough
I'm at my limit and can't take any more of the struggles and confusion that come with trying to understand love.


And I don't wanna believe
I'm resistant to the idea that love is just a fantasy, or that my idealized version of it is unattainable.


That love is just a dream
I don't want to believe that love is just a fairy tale or something that only exists in our imaginations.


And now we're waking up
I'm realizing that the romanticized version of love I held onto is fading away, and the harsh realities of relationships are setting in.


So is there someone
I'm still searching for help to understand love and how to navigate it.


To teach me how love goes
I need someone to guide me in the ways of love and relationships, to show me the right path.


Is there some way to get back to May
Is it possible to return to a time when love was simpler and easier to understand?


Yes, and is there someone to show me the way
If it is possible to get back to that simpler time, I need a guide to help me navigate it and understand it better.


'Cause I forgot how she
I'm struggling to remember the things I loved about my partner and the reasons I fell in love with them in the first place.


Is pretty even when she has just woken up
The small, natural things about my partner that I found endearing and beautiful have been forgotten.


And I forgot how we
I'm also struggling to remember the connection and intimacy my partner and I used to share.


Can't make it through the evening without making love
Physical intimacy was a key aspect of our relationship, and it's something I miss and can't replicate on my own.


Father told me, son, we’ll never really know
My father told me that love is a complex, ever-evolving thing that is hard to understand or define.


So maybe life is just a lesson after all
Perhaps the point of life is not to find perfect, everlasting love, but to learn and grow from our experiences with it.


But I can't wait that long to know
I'm impatient and want to understand love and relationships now, rather than waiting to learn from the course of my life.


God, what's the secret
I'm questioning whether there is a hidden, elusive secret to love that I haven't yet discovered.


Oh, teach me how love goes
I'm still searching for someone or something to guide me in understanding love and its many complexities.


Is it in the words I say, is it in the things I do
I'm wondering whether love is expressed through language and actions, or whether it's something deeper and more intangible.


Is there a way to let her know she's the way I make it through
I'm trying to figure out how to express my feelings for my partner and make them understand how important they are to me.


Is there someone to teach me how love goes?
I'm still seeking guidance and direction on how to understand and navigate the complexities of love.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: CALE MILLS, KRISTOPHER NEIL ALLEN

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epocharm x

this song is insanely beautiful

love by nour

can't stop listening to it literally

nonophil16

This song is absolutely solid in all apsects - melody, harmonies, range, tonality, musicality, lyrics. Pure feel good music. Awesome!

Kenneth Mucke

One of the BEST songs EVER... listen to it all the time...

18Mymuse

I am still listening to you in 2018, was a fan since American idol!

Julie Nash

Beautiful song! I love Kris Allen, and this is guitar is gorgeous!

R.J Atoeight

"Is there some way to get back to May" hits right in the feels. I fell in love during that month but she wasn't for me. But sometimes I wonder of the things I could have done differently, of that May when I was on the initial stage of quiet admiration.

Ms Chantaé

such a nice song. just hearing it in 2018

heartlessface

another happy feeling from Kris's song. His songs are so amazing for feeling like his voice. The best idol with me.

Damon Maverick

Teach me how can i stop being addicted to your songs.Loved the song , good job ! :)

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