I'm Not That Girl
Kristin Chenoweth Lyrics


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Don't wish, don't start
Wishing only wounds the heart
There's a girl I know
He loves her so
I'm not that girl




Overall Meaning

The lyrics of the song "I'm Not That Girl" by Kristin Chenoweth portrays a heartbroken woman who is in love with a man who loves another woman. The song starts with "Don't wish, don't start," which means that the singer is warning herself not to wish for something that she cannot have. She goes on to explain that wishing only wounds the heart, most likely because she has likely been in this position before and knows that the pain of yearning for something out of reach can be devastating.


In the following lines, the singer mentions a girl that the man she loves loves. She acknowledges that the man loves the other girl more than her and she knows that she cannot compete with that. The singer understands that she is not the one the man is in love with, and she accepts the reality that they will never be together. It is a moment of realization for her as she accepts her fate and stops wishing for something that is unattainable.


Overall, "I'm Not That Girl" is a song about acceptance and moving on. The lyrics accept the reality of the situation and encourage the singer to focus on herself and find someone who loves her for who she is, rather than trying to change for someone else.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't wish, don't start
It's better to not have any hopes or dreams regarding this matter.


Wishing only wounds the heart
Having unrealistic expectations will only lead to disappointment and pain.


There's a girl I know
I am aware that there is another girl who has caught his attention.


He loves her so
It's obvious that he has strong feelings for her.


I'm not that girl
However, I am not the one he loves and I need to accept that fact.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SARAH BUXTON, BOB DI PIERO

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