Hurt Me
Låpsley Lyrics


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Can't look at you the same way, anticipatin' heartbreak
And I know, and I know, and I know
I'm puttin' on a brave face to meet you in the same place
And I know, and I know, and I know
Gotta let my mind find another space
Cause I heard these scars never go away
And now I'm runnin' out of ways to numb the pain
So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?
Just dig a little deeper
Push a little harder than before
And I'm counting down the seconds that we have
I can see the end in sight, at last
So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?

Like breathing underwater, what's the law and order?
I don't know, I don't know, I don't know
You're sitting in a corner, hiding 'til it's over
And it shows, and it shows, and it shows
Buildin' up my walls just to tear them down
Tell me that it's love, force me to drown
Buildin' up my walls just to tear them down
Tell me that it's love
(And I thought you said you still loved me)

So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?
Just dig a little deeper
Push a little harder than before
And I'm counting down the seconds that we have
I can see the end in sight, at last
So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?

Never thought I would lose my grip
I always thought it was an adverse trip
Never thought it would hurt so much
Lost your way to another touch
(And I thought you said you loved me)

So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?
Just dig a little deeper
Push a little harder than before
And I'm counting down the seconds that we have
I can see the end in sight, at last




So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Låpsley's song "Hurt Me" tell the story of a person who is trying to cope with the emotional pain inflicted by their partner. The singer is resigned to the fact that the relationship is ending and they are anticipating heartbreak. Despite this, they put on a brave face to meet their partner in the same place where they always meet. However, they know that they need to let their mind find another space because scars from past heartbreaks never go away. They are running out of ways to numb the pain.


The chorus of the song is a plea from the singer to their partner to hurt them more. They want their partner to dig a little deeper and push a little harder than before. The singer is counting down the seconds that they have left in the relationship and they can see the end in sight. They suggest that if their partner is going to hurt them, then they should hurt them more. The second verse of the song talks about the confusion and chaos that the breakup is bringing. The singer feels like they are breathing underwater and can't make sense of the situation. They are hiding in a corner until it's over, and they are building up walls that their partner will eventually tear down. The song ends with the singer's realization that the relationship is ending, and they never thought it would hurt so much.


Line by Line Meaning

Can't look at you the same way, anticipatin' heartbreak
I can't see you the way I used to because I'm expecting you to hurt me


I'm puttin' on a brave face to meet you in the same place
I'm acting strong when I see you, even though it's hard


Gotta let my mind find another space
I need to distract myself from thinking about the pain you might cause me


Cause I heard these scars never go away
I'm scared that if you hurt me, it will leave an everlasting impact


And now I'm runnin' out of ways to numb the pain
I've exhausted my methods of coping with the pain you've caused me in the past


So if you're gonna hurt me
Since I expect you to hurt me


Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?
You might as well make it worse if you're going to hurt me anyways


Just dig a little deeper
Push me past my limit


Push a little harder than before
Make it hurt more than it did last time


I can see the end in sight, at last
I can feel our relationship coming to an end


Like breathing underwater, what's the law and order?
I feel like I can't breathe around you and I don't know what the rules are for our relationship


You're sitting in a corner, hiding 'til it's over
You're avoiding me until the hard part is done


Tell me that it's love, force me to drown
You say it's love, but it's actually hurting me


Buildin' up my walls just to tear them down
I'm trying to protect myself, but you keep breaking down my barriers


Never thought I would lose my grip
I didn't think I would lose control of my emotions


I always thought it was an adverse trip
I thought our relationship would have its ups and downs, but not like this


Never thought it would hurt so much
I didn't expect the pain to be this intense


Lost your way to another touch
You've strayed from our relationship to find physical satisfaction elsewhere




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: JAMES ARTHUR DRAPER, HOLLY LAPSLEY FLETCHER, JAMES JOHN NAPIER, WILLIAM EDWARD PHILLIPS

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@Piedradetoke

Can't look at you the same way, anticipatin' heartbreak
And I know, and I know, and I know
I'm puttin' on a brave face to meet you in the same place
And I know, and I know, and I know
Gotta let my mind find another space
Cause I heard these scars never go away
And now I'm runnin' out of ways to numb the pain

So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?
Just dig a little deeper
Push a little harder than before
And I'm counting down the seconds that we have
I can see the end in sight, at last
So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?

Like breathing underwater, what's the law and order?
I don't know, I don't know, I don't know
You're sitting in a corner, hiding 'til it's over
And it shows, and it shows, and it shows
Buildin' up my walls just to tear them down
Tell me that it's love, force me to drown
Buildin' up my walls just to tear them down
Tell me that it's love
(And I thought you said you still loved me)

So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?
Just dig a little deeper
Push a little harder than before
And I'm counting down the seconds that we have
I can see the end in sight, at last
So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?

Never thought I would lose my grip
I always thought it was an adverse trip
Never thought it would hurt so much
Lost your way to another touch
(And I thought you said you loved me)

So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?
Just dig a little deeper
Push a little harder than before
And I'm counting down the seconds that we have
I can see the end in sight, at last
So if you're gonna hurt me
Why don't you hurt me a little bit more?



All comments from YouTube:

@lulululuululuu

This is the kind of music the world needs, I'm honestly so obsessed with the song.

@ickypalms

+Lulu Gonzalez me too...i'm watching it for the third time today

@MegaSviske

+Lulu Gonzalez Is this a rehab conversation? cus i need one :O

@hannessimoens8258

+Lulu Gonzalez so true

@easterchingmandal161

me 2!!

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@rva

I'm literally obsessed with this

@mahnoor8907

I found this song at 2 oclock in the night and im im latterly obsessed with it

@ronnievix7076

Still obsessed 5 years later... Goosebumps all over my body having not heard it for a while

@meltingcheese

I was actually woke up by this song which is on Youtube playlist while sleeping soo soulful🤩

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