Before I Cry
Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper Lyrics
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Right now I wish that you would try
Try to stay near me
Try to be near me
Before I cry (before I cry)
'Cause I am gonna need a well
To catch the pain and lift the spell
Like you won't hear me
Before I cry
Hurry up, hurry up
Before I lose you
Hurry up, hurry up
Before you lose me too
Hurry up, hurry up
Before I change my mind
'Cause I'm gonna cry
If you say you don't need me
I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
Why don't you hold me?
Tell me you love me
Before I cry
Before I cry
Could you please find another way?
I start to think that I'm insane
Trying to stay here
Let me just lay here
Before I cry
Hurry up, hurry up
Before I lose you
Hurry up, hurry up
Before you lose me too
Hurry up, hurry up
Before I change my mind
'Cause I'm gonna cry
If you say you don't need me
I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
Why don't you hold me?
Tell me you love me
Before I cry
Before I cry
I'm 'bout to lose it
Is that so confusing?
Am I just repeating myself?
Say something loving to me before I crumble
Tell me, tell me, tell me
'Cause I'm gonna cry
If you say you don't need me
I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
Why don't you hold me?
Tell me you love me
Before I cry
Before I cry
Before I cry, oh
Have I said what I needed to say?
Have you said what you wanted to say?
Did you say what you wanted to say?
Would you try and stop me before I cry?
The song "Before I Cry" by Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper is a ballad about the fear of losing someone you love. The lyrics convey a sense of desperation and vulnerability, with the singer pleading for their partner's attention and affection. The song begins with the singer expressing disbelief at the hurtful things their partner has said, and asking them to try and stay near before they "cry." The metaphor of a well is used to represent the singer's need to contain their pain and lift their emotional "spell."
As the song progresses, it becomes clear that the singer is afraid of losing their partner, and urges them to act quickly before they change their mind. The repetition of "hurry up" underscores this urgency, creating a sense of emotional tension in the lyrics. The chorus expresses the singer's fear of being rejected or ignored, and the pain that would cause them. They plead with their partner to hold them and say they love them "before I cry."
The bridge of the song is particularly poignant, with the singer wondering if they are "insane" for holding on and asking their partner to find another way to reassure them. The lines "Say something loving to me before I crumble / Tell me, tell me, tell me" express the singer's need for affirmation and reassurance.
All in all, "Before I Cry" is a powerful expression of the fear of rejection and the need for emotional connection.
Line by Line Meaning
I can't believe the things you said
I am shocked and cannot comprehend the hurtful things that you said to me
Right now I wish that you would try
I am asking you to make an effort to be there for me in this moment of pain
Try to stay near me
Please do not leave me alone to deal with these emotions
Try to be near me
Your physical presence and support is essential for me at this time
Before I cry (before I cry)
I am on the verge of tears and need you to comfort me before I break down
‘Cause I am gonna need a well
The depth of my pain is immense and I require significant support to manage it
To catch the pain and lift the spell
I need to release the pain I am feeling and I am hoping you can help me do that
Like you won't hear me
I fear that my cries for help will go unheard and unnoticed
Can you try to heal me?
Please attempt to alleviate my pain and help me heal from this hurt
Hurry up, hurry up
I am imploring you to act quickly and decisively
Before I lose you
I am worried that if you do not act soon, our connection could be lost forever
Before you lose me too
If we do not make an effort to work through this, I could be gone from your life as well
Before I change my mind
I am hoping that you act before I decide to give up on us altogether
'Cause I'm gonna cry
My emotions are overwhelming me and I will break down in tears if I do not receive support
If you say you don't need me
If you express that you do not require my presence, it will devastate me
I'm gonna cry if you act like you don't care
Your lack of concern or support will cause me to become emotional
Promise me, baby, you know I can't fake it
I am asking you to promise me that you will not ignore my pain and that I can trust your support
Why don't you hold me?
Physical embrace and support is one of the most important things you can provide me right now
Tell me you love me
I need to hear that you still love and care for me despite the current situation
Could you please find another way?
I am asking you to explore alternative approaches or solutions to the problem we are facing
I start to think that I'm insane
The pain and emotion has become so overwhelming that I feel like I am losing my grip on reality
Trying to stay here
I am trying my hardest not to give up on our relationship
Let me just lay here
At times, all I can do is lay down and try to manage the pain I am feeling
I'm 'bout to lose it
I am struggling to maintain my composure and control my emotions
Is that so confusing?
I am not sure why this is so difficult to understand or why you are not acting to help me
Am I just repeating myself?
I worry that my pleas for help and support are going unheard or ignored
Say something loving to me before I crumble
Your words of love and support could make all the difference in my ability to handle this situation
Tell me, tell me, tell me
I feel like I need to hear reassurances from you repeatedly to believe that you still care for me
Have I said what I needed to say?
I am unsure if I have fully expressed the extent of my pain and fear in this situation
Have you said what you wanted to say?
I am curious if there is more that you need to express or communicate to me about this situation
Did you say what you wanted to say?
I am asking if you feel like you have expressed yourself fully and honestly in this conversation
Would you try and stop me before I cry?
I am asking that you make an effort to prevent me from breaking down in tears and support me through this hardship
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Mark Jr. Nilan, Nick Monson, Paul Blair, Stefani J. Germanotta
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