Sex
Lala Brown Lyrics

Hey yo, you
I'm talking directly to you, the young woman who is listening to this song.

You see most cats would take advantage of you right now, but I ain't gon' do that, you heard
I won't try to take advantage of you like many other guys would at your age.

I'm a give you the game, right
Instead, I'm going to share some important information with you.

I'm a give it to you because I don't want somebody to give my little girl the game
I'm doing this because I wouldn't want someone else to give my own daughter this same advice.

So she could find her S.E.X.
This information will help you understand sex and make the best decisions for yourself.

Life's a trip
Life is complicated, unpredictable, and ever-changing.

Heard you just turned seventeen and finally got some hips
You've recently turned seventeen and your body is maturing into that of an adult woman's.

Hustlers on the block go crazy when you lick your lips
Some men who are involved in illegal activities see you as attractive and desirable.

But they just want relations, they don't want relationships
These men aren't interested in building a meaningful and respectful relationship with you, they only want to have physical intimacy.

Welcome to the real world
This is the harsh reality of life.

Fellas old enough to be your daddy know your name
Men who are much older than you are aware of who you are and are interested in you.

Everybody's talkin' 'bout how much that girl done changed
People are noticing that you are growing into a young adult and becoming a different person than you used to be.

Can't quite put your finger on it, but you feel it's strange
You are experiencing new feelings and perspectives, but you can't quite figure out what they mean or where they are coming from.

Like it's fire in your veins
You feel intense emotions and desires that are new to you and somewhat overwhelming.

Girl, it's just your S.E.X.
These changes and feelings are related to your sexuality and understanding of sex.

Mama's secret
Your mother may have kept some things from you about sex and relationships.

And daddy gon' go crazy when he finds out that his baby's found her S.E.X.
Your father may be protective and upset when he learns that you are exploring your sexuality.

Take a deep breath and think before you let it go
It's important to take a step back and seriously consider your actions and choices before engaging in sex.

The block is packed
Your environment is heavily influenced by people who may not have your best interests in mind.

Baby got an attitude and proud to holla back
You have a confident and assertive personality that may attract some people, but also lead to conflicts.

Mama's giving advice, but she ain't tryin' to hear that
Your mother is trying to offer helpful guidance, but you may not be receptive to it.

Not because it's wrong, just her delivery is whack
Your mother's advice is valid, but the way she communicates it may not be effective for you.

Life is rough
Life can be difficult and unforgiving.

You say that you're not ready for sex, but you're in love
You may have strong emotions for someone and feel like you are in love, but you are not yet ready for sex.

He says if you really loved him, you would give it up
Your partner may pressure you into having sex by using emotional manipulation and false ideals of love.

Mama says that's just a line guys use to get your stuff
Your mother thinks that your partner is using a common tactic to manipulate young women into sex.

Which one will you trust?
You are faced with a difficult choice of deciding whether to trust your partner or your mother's advice.

Hey yo, Lyfe. She might take it better coming from a woman (Get 'em, girl)
I'm bringing in someone who can offer her perspective and guidance as a woman who has experienced similar situations.

See, he'll tell you all kind of things to get in your pants, yeah
Your partner may use any means necessary to convince you to have sex with him.

Baby, it's a fact that once it's gone, you'll never get it back (never get it back)
Once you have sex for the first time, you can never undo it or regain your sexual innocence.

Hold on to your innocence
It's important to value and protect your sexual innocence and not rush into sex.

Use your common sense (you're worth waiting for)
Think logically and trust yourself to know when you're truly ready for sex, and remember that you're worth waiting for.

Be strong
Stay strong and don't give in to peer pressure or emotional manipulation regarding sex.

Honey, don't give in, blessings come with patience
You will be rewarded for having patience and waiting for the right time to engage in sex.

Till we meet again, I'm praying for you
I'm here to support and guide you, and I'm praying for your well-being and safety as you navigate these difficult waters.