Don't Ask Me Why
Laura Marling Lyrics


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I choose to stay far away from the ones that think
Money is money to share
Don't ask me why and I'll tell you no lies.

Sonny don't come here no more
He don't drink from this well
He's done with the world
And done with the girl
And I don't ask him why
And he tells me no lies

Those of us who are lost and low
I know how you feel
I know it's not right but it's real
But it's real

I don't ask for love
And I don't beg for money
I'm just asking for grace and forgiveness now honey
Don't ask me why
And I'll tell you no lies

Been looking for answers in unsavory places
On the highest of mountains
And the lowest of bases
And I still don't know why
I still don't know why

Those of us wo are lost and low
We know how you feel
We know it's not right but it's real
But it's real

I took the wind from the sea
I took the blood from an arrow
I took the wisdom of spring
And I was thrown and blown and tossed and turned
Until time found its hand
And called it an end

Me and time, we go way back when
I was a child and I always knew it

I knew my name, I knew my road
And I stayed away from heavy loads
And still I am low
Oh lord, am I low

Those of us who are lost and low
We know how you feel




We know it's not right but it's real
But it's real

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Laura Marling's "Don't Ask Me Why" tells a story about someone who prefers to stay away from people who believe that money is something that should be shared equally. The singer chooses to disassociate from such people and will not lie if asked why. The line "Sonny don't come here no more" suggests that there was a close relationship that has since ended, and the singer no longer probes why because it's unnecessary. She understands her friend's feelings and values his need to cut ties. The song reassures those who feel lost and low that they are not alone and that their emotions are valid despite being uncomfortable or "not right." The singer concludes that even though she has searched for answers everywhere, she's still at a loss.


The singer also says, "I don't ask for love/And I don't beg for money/I'm just asking for grace and forgiveness now honey/Don't ask me why/And I'll tell you no lies." This line suggests that what the singer needs and wants most is grace and forgiveness, even though she doesn't ask for it directly. She recognizes that forgiveness is hard to ask for or give, but she wants to manifest it to move on.


There's a sense of resignation in the lyrics - the singer acknowledges that she's "throw and blown and tossed and turned until time found its hand/And called it an end." The recurring theme is acceptance; accepting that things end or change, people leave, and that one's feelings, even if uncomfortable, are valid. The song encourages the listener to be patient with themselves, to accept their feelings, and to find comfort in the fact that others understand.


Line by Line Meaning

I choose to stay far away from the ones that think money is money to share
I prefer to keep distance from those who treat money as a commodity to be distributed without any value or worth


Don't ask me why and I'll tell you no lies.
If you don't ask me the reason, I won't deceive you with lies


Sonny don't come here no more, He don't drink from this well, He's done with the world, And done with the girl, And I don't ask him why, And he tells me no lies
Sonny is no longer around, he doesn't take any help, he's disassociated with both his surroundings and his love, and I don't question him, nor he hides any truth from me.


Those of us who are lost and low, I know how you feel, I know it's not right but it's real, But it's real
People like us, who are misguided or fallen, I empathize with you, and though it's not virtuous, it is what it is


I don't ask for love, And I don't beg for money, I'm just asking for grace and forgiveness now honey, Don't ask me why, And I'll tell you no lies
I demand neither affection nor wealth, just benevolence and mercy now, sweetheart; Don't ask for details, and I won't devise any fabrication.


Been looking for answers in unsavory places, On the highest of mountains, And the lowest of bases, And I still don't know why, I still don't know why
I've scrutinized unbecoming and extreme domains, but why everything unfolds in a particular way, perplexes me still


I took the wind from the sea, I took the blood from an arrow, I took the wisdom of spring, And I was thrown and blown and tossed and turned, Until time found its hand, And called it an end
I've assimilated wind, blood, and wisdom, and survived through tumultuous movements until fortune favored me to resolve the chaos


Me and time, we go way back when, I was a child and I always knew it, I knew my name, I knew my road, And I stayed away from heavy loads, And still I am low, Oh lord, am I low
Me and time are long-time acquaintances, even when I was juvenile, it was evident; I recognized my existence and purpose and didn't burden myself with onerous tasks, but still, I feel dejected and helpless, oh god, how miserable am I


Those of us who are lost and low, We know how you feel, We know it's not right, but it's real, But it's real
People like us, who are misguided or fallen, we grasp your predicament, we understand it's unrighteous, but that's the harsh reality




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Written by: LAURA BEATRICE MARLING

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