The High Road
Lavette Bettye Lyrics


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I won't be a victim, a beggar, a fool
I try to live my life by the golden rule
If you don't love me
What am I supposed to do
I'll take the high road and walk on away from you

I'll find me an angel
To lift me up in time
I'll listen for the voice
Which speaks my bitter mind
I'll try to forgive myself
for not heeding all the signs
Oh, I'll take the high road
And walk away one last time

I'll wipe away the tears
'Cause I know darn well I've tried
I'll look inside myself
For the part that was mine

I ain't gonna try to hurt ya back or lie and say I didn't care
I'll just take the high road
and walk away from here

My heart is battered, my soul is bruised
my face is wearing that same false smile, I used to use
I put my feelings under lock and key
Oh, and take the high road
And walk on away quietly

I'll pack up my pride and go somewhere far
You can't blame somebody
for who they really are
But what you've done to me, you know it just ain't fair
I ain't gonna bitch about it, 'cause I know sure well, it just ain't there
I'll walk away with my head held high, forgive and forget
uh-uh daddy not this time

I'll keep looking for my angel
and I know I'll be just fine




Oh stayin on the high road
and walking away last time

Overall Meaning

In "The High Road," Lavette Bettye sings about finding the strength to walk away from a doomed relationship with grace and dignity rather than shouting, screaming, or dragging someone else through the mud. Throughout this song, Bettye shows respect and compassion for herself, as well as for the person she is walking away from. She declares that she is not going to be a victim or a fool, but instead choose the high road by forgiving herself, holding her head up high, and finding an angel to uplift her spirits.


The singer is alluding to a relationship that has left her with a battered heart, a bruised soul, and a false smile. She acknowledges that it is tough to leave someone she has cared for, but she prefers not to hurt them back or lie that she didn't care. Rather than indulging in pettiness, she chooses to take the high road and walk away quietly. Even in the face of pain and heartbreak, Bettye remains committed to living by the golden rule and not causing more harm than necessary.


"The High Road" by Lavette Bettye is an inspiring song with a powerful message of self-love, forgiveness, and letting go. Bettraye encourages the importance of respecting and valuing oneself while still treating others with kindness and empathy. She demonstrates how it is possible to walk away from a toxic situation with power and poise without resorting to negativity.


Line by Line Meaning

I won't be a victim, a beggar, a fool
I refuse to be taken advantage of or be made to feel powerless or stupid.


I try to live my life by the golden rule
I treat others how I want to be treated.


If you don't love me
If you don't have genuine feelings for me.


What am I supposed to do
I am left with no option but to move on.


I'll take the high road and walk on away from you
I'll handle this situation in a mature and dignified manner by leaving and not holding a grudge.


I'll find me an angel
I will look for someone who can provide me with emotional support.


To lift me up in time
To help me overcome the pain that I am feeling.


I'll listen for the voice
I will pay attention to my intuition.


Which speaks my bitter mind
Which represents my negative thoughts and feelings.


I'll try to forgive myself
I will attempt to absolve myself of any self-blame or regret.


for not heeding all the signs
For ignoring the warning signals that I should have paid attention to.


And walk away one last time
And leave this situation behind for good.


I'll wipe away the tears
I will move on from this with strength and resilience.


'Cause I know darn well I've tried
Because I am aware that I did everything I could.


I'll look inside myself
I will do some introspection.


For the part that was mine
To figure out what I could have done differently.


I ain't gonna try to hurt ya back or lie and say I didn't care
I won't seek revenge or pretend that I didn't have feelings for you.


I'll just take the high road
I will keep my integrity intact.


and walk away from here
And leave this situation.


My heart is battered, my soul is bruised
I am emotionally hurt.


my face is wearing that same false smile, I used to use
I am hiding my pain behind a facade.


I put my feelings under lock and key
I will keep my emotions to myself.


And walk on away quietly
I will not cause a scene or create unnecessary drama.


I'll pack up my pride and go somewhere far
I will abandon my ego and move on.


You can't blame somebody for who they really are
You can't hold someone accountable for their true nature.


But what you've done to me, you know it just ain't fair
What you did to me was unjust.


I ain't gonna bitch about it, 'cause I know sure well, it just ain't there
I won't complain because it won't change anything.


I'll walk away with my head held high, forgive and forget
I will leave this all behind with dignity and grace.


uh-uh daddy not this time
I will not put up with this anymore.


I'll keep looking for my angel
I won't give up on finding emotional support.


and I know I'll be just fine
I am confident that I will recover.


Oh stayin on the high road
I will continue to handle this in a mature and respectable way.


and walking away last time
And leaving this situation behind for good.




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Comments from YouTube:

Sherri Berri

Been searching for this song for a long time. So glad I finally found it! ❤️❤️❤️

Nila Leslie

 I've always loved this song. It was a beautiful experience to see her perform live at Tall Stacks in Cincinnati in 2007. 

Elissa Fox

beautiful!!!!!!!!!!

Dia.

THE QUEEN.

Jolanda Jenneskens

goose bumps

BOWMANTUNES

Beautiful Bettye...

Alanka Houston

This woman for the last 30 years when the United States basically tossed her out of the state...has crash all barriers ....realness, life

aurora d'arienzo

<3

Christopher Moor

Forgive and forget? Uhn uhn, daddy, not this time!