Obvious
LeToya Lyrics


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Have you ever felt like, you the only one in love in your relationship?
And as hard as it was to let go, you knew it was the best thing for you
Well that time has come for me, I gotta move on

You say you wanna get married, but boy are you sure
Cause there are a couple of issues I refuse to ignore
You say one thing, and you do another
And I'm realizing you don't want me on your shoulder
You think material things is what I need
But all I ever wanted was you
Just a little kiss, just a little hug
Now I'm realizing that that ain't your kinda love

Sometimes we want things
That might not be right for us
But when you're in love
You tend to look over the obvious
You're not changing and I know that you love me but
This thing ain't going the way I planned
Sometimes we want things
That might not be right for us
But when you're in love
You tend to look over the obvious
As bad as I want you to stay
We can't keep going on this way
Going this way

Don't think you're doing me no favors
Feeling the need to get on one knee
When you know you ain't right baby
You wanna make sure I'm always around
And with the ring on my finger
That means I'm on right now
I see it in your eyes you weren't
There's a good chance you doing some dirt
Cause I don't wanna be the one
To make you do something you don't want to
I'm gonna let you do you

Sometimes we want things
That might not be right for us
But when you're in love
You tend to look over the obvious
You're not changing and I know that you love me but
This thing isn't going the way I planned
Sometimes we want things
That might not be right for us
But when you're in love
You tend to look over the obvious
As bad as I want you to stay
We can't keep going on this way
Going this way

See there's a part of me
That doesn't want you here with me
That's a part of me
That wants to stick right with you
But it seems like you don't wanna put up a fight
And why should I even try?

Sometimes we want things
That might not be right for us
But when you're in love
You tend to look over the obvious
You're not changing and I know that you love me but
This thing isn't going the way I planned
Sometimes we want things
That might not be right for us
But when you're in love
You tend to look over the obvious
As bad as I want you to stay




We can't keep going on this way
Going this way

Overall Meaning

The song "Obvious" by LeToya Luckett is a melancholic ballad about the end of a romantic relationship. The lyrics describe the feeling of being the only person in the relationship who is truly in love and facing a difficult decision to move on despite the pain. The singer addresses her partner's desire to get married but highlights some issues that are not being addressed, and how the promises made by her lover are broken continuously. The song starts with the realization that the singer has to move on because she feels unvalued and unloved. The repeated phrase "Sometimes we want things that might not be right for us" reflects the bittersweet feeling of wanting to hold on to what is familiar, even though it is not fulfilling.


The lyrics of "Obvious" touch on themes that many people can relate to from their own experiences. The song can be seen as a warning that love alone cannot keep a relationship alive. Communication, honesty, and mutual respect are equally essential. The melancholic melody perfectly complements the mood of the lyrics, with the slow tempo and longing notes emphasizing the sadness of having to leave someone you love. The song's chorus speaks to the heart-aching decision of letting go of someone you love.


Line by Line Meaning

Have you ever felt like, you the only one in love in your relationship?
Have you ever been in a relationship where you're the only one showing real love and affection towards your partner?


And as hard as it was to let go, you knew it was the best thing for you
Even though letting go of a relationship can be tough, sometimes it is the best decision for your own well-being.


You say you wanna get married, but boy are you sure
You claim that you want to get married, but are you really sure that's what you want?


Cause there are a couple of issues I refuse to ignore
There are some serious issues in our relationship that I cannot overlook or ignore any longer.


You say one thing, and you do another
You don't follow through with what you say, which creates a lack of trust between us.


And I'm realizing you don't want me on your shoulder
I'm beginning to see that you're not really interested in supporting our relationship or being there for me when I need you.


You think material things is what I need
You have the impression that I'm only interested in material possessions or superficial things, but that's not true.


But all I ever wanted was you
All I've ever really wanted from this relationship is you, nothing more and nothing less.


Just a little kiss, just a little hug
I don't need anything extravagant from you, just small gestures of affection like a quick kiss or a simple hug.


Now I'm realizing that that ain't your kinda love
Unfortunately, it seems like you're not capable of providing the kind of love and affection that I need in this relationship.


Sometimes we want things
At times, we crave certain things or experiences in life.


That might not be right for us
However, some things that we want may not be the best for us in the long run.


But when you're in love
When you're in a romantic relationship with someone,


You tend to look over the obvious
It's easy to overlook red flags or warning signs when you're in love with someone.


You're not changing and I know that you love me but
Even though I know you love me, you're not willing to make any changes in our relationship to make it work.


This thing ain't going the way I planned
Our relationship is not going in the direction that I had hoped, and I'm beginning to see that we may not be compatible as a couple.


Don't think you're doing me no favors
Don't assume that you're doing me a favor by proposing or trying to keep me around in our relationship.


Feeling the need to get on one knee
You're feeling pressured to propose to me, even though it may not be the right decision for us both.


When you know you ain't right baby
You know deep down that you're not ready to be in a serious, committed relationship.


You wanna make sure I'm always around
You want to keep me around as an option, even though you're not willing to fully commit to our relationship.


And with the ring on my finger
Once you propose and I accept, you assume that I'll always be there for you and you won't have to put in any effort in our relationship.


That means I'm on right now
You feel like once we're engaged, you suddenly have been given my complete loyalty and commitment when really, that's not the case.


I see it in your eyes you weren't
I can tell by your actions and mannerisms that you weren't fully truthful with me or committed to our relationship.


There's a good chance you doing some dirt
There's a likely possibility that you are being disloyal or unfaithful behind my back.


Cause I don't wanna be the one
Because I don't want to be the person who's always trying to force you to change or be a better partner.


To make you do something you don't want to
I don't want to make you do something you're not ready or willing to do.


I'm gonna let you do you
I'm going to give you the freedom to make your own decisions, even if that means not being in a relationship with me.


See there's a part of me
I have conflicting feelings about our relationship and am torn between two choices.


That doesn't want you here with me
Part of me doesn't want you to be a part of my life or my relationship anymore.


That's a part of me
At the same time, another part of me still wants to make things work between us.


That wants to stick right with you
I want to stay loyal to you, even though it may not be the best decision for us in the long run.


But it seems like you don't wanna put up a fight
You're not willing to put forth any effort towards making our relationship work or addressing any of the issues we have.


And why should I even try?
With your lack of effort and commitment to our relationship, I'm finding it hard to justify trying to make things work anymore.


As bad as I want you to stay
Despite still having feelings for you, I know deep down that it may be better for me if you were to leave my life altogether.


We can't keep going on this way
Our current situation and the state of our relationship is not sustainable and cannot continue as is.


Going this way
Continuing down the path we're currently on will only lead to more disappointment and heartache.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BRYAN MICHAEL COX, BRYAN MICHAEL PAUL COX, DAVE YOUNG, DAVID LYNN YOUNG, LETOYA LUCKETT, LETOYA NICOLE LUCKETT

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